Is It Okay To Nut In Her Mouth?

[AlteredEgo]

Maybe it's a regional thing. Cultural. When I lived in the Bronx, where I'm from, I'd give a blowjob, and it was over when the lucky guy released his satisfaction onto my waiting tongue, or into my greedy throat. That was an unspoken, but well understood, mutual expectation. It was the same in Miami. Suck a dick, swallow jizz. The two went hand in hand. Now, however, I mostly meet men from the Mid-Atlantic or more specifically Tidewater region of the east coast. They don't expect me to swallow. Not only that, they are reluctant to finish inside my mouth in the first place.

My experiences with these men have been different, but they seem to have quite a bit in common. They are from this area, or moved here before they were sexually active. They have a lot of sexual experience. Some say they've never climaxed into a partner's mouth before. The first time I ask them to let me swallow for them, I'm always met with a look that is equal parts hope and fear. They always ask if I'm sure. One of my current partners says, "Oh, no! No, no, no-no-no!" He says it right before it's over, every time. When pressed, he's said he wasn't ready for the blowjob to end. I've been playfully accused by several of "stealing" their orgasms. Nearly all have given me warnings well in advance of climax, and then forced me to stop my ministry right before the point of no return. That's when we have the conversation. That's when they reveal that the women here, supposedly, don't volunteer to accept the slimy outcome, and the men don't ask them to.

Seems polite and all, but it's not for me. I have a little mouth, and big teeth, and overcoming these obstacles to pleasure is a real victory. The mouthful at the end is a trophy. Im not shy about discussion of sexual needs, wants and expectations with my partners. Long before we get into our first adult situation, they've been told I'm willing to accept and swallow their deposit. But that first time, every time, it's all giant puppy eyes, and, "Are you sure?!"

Some of these men have been previously married for a long time. Some of these men have been very promiscuous in the past. Most of them claim to rarely have the opportunity to be sucked to completion, and a few claim it has never been an option before. Some just want to know if I'll still be open to intercourse after. Some aren't sure they'll be able to perform for intercourse if I lead them to orgasm right then.

In what part of the world are you? What is the oral sex etiquette where you are? Men whose partners have been women, is it common for oral sex to carry to completion, or is it common to stop and change activity before orgasm? Women who give oral pleasure to men, is it okay if he comes in your mouth? Swallowing is a separate (and irrelevant) issue. Can he leave his seed in your mouth in the first place?

 

[572932]

I’m from the south and I’ve never had a problem nutting in a women’s mouth if she tells me up front that she wants it there! I think it’s a huge turn on that you’re so willing to do that

 

[554279]

Frankly, I gently announce when I'm going to cum and let her make the decision.

I do this sometimes as well, but some women (especially wives) get somewhat upset when I yell "FIRE IN THE HOLE" or "UNLEASH THE KRACKEN"

I don't understand it myself...

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Swallower here. Of the women I've known who have these kinds of conversations with me, all perfectly ok with swallowing.

I guess in my area of the southwest it's pretty common if my personal experiences and information of others is any indication.

My guy doesn't prefer to finish in my mouth though, he can get sucked for an entire hour and not ejaculate. He always finishes inside me. He didn't even like getting head At All when we first hooked up. I asked if I could suck him, and he didn't seem enthused. Once I got my lips on it, and started going at it, he fell in love with my mouth. Almost every time after that, he requested that I suck him.

Flattered as fuck, that's how I felt.

 

[Livinnudie84]

I'm in the southern part of the US, and with the exception of a few times, I've always taken it in my mouth. I've only swallowed a few times, if I can't find a place to spit, which has never really been a issue.

 

[LaFemme]

Interesting read. I didn’t realize there were regional differences. I wouldn’t know how other women do it here, though, since I’m the giver and not the receiver.

I’m like @Fade, I don’t like the taste of semen (sorry, guys), so I find it easier to swallow. Straight down the throat and it’s gone - don’t have to taste it at all. Spitting means you have to hold it in your mouth. Despite the fact that I don’t like the taste, I really enjoy giving, but I let the guy decide where he wants to finish. But like most women, no hair or eyes, so that kind of leaves out the face. Men my age are a one and done, so they usually prefer finishing inside.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I do this sometimes as well, but some women (especially wives) get somewhat upset when I yell "FIRE IN THE HOLE" or "UNLEASH THE KRACKEN"

I don't understand it myself...

Because the resultant laughter causes choking.

 

[ViewingPleasure]

Growing up in the midwest, I dated a “good” Catholic girl who was very protective of her virginity. That virginity didn’t extend to her mouth, thankfully. Apparently she didn’t realize that oral sex is also considered sodomy but I wasn’t about to tell her that.

Anyway, she got really good and even really enjoyed giving head and never once considered NOT swallowing. Makes me laugh to think how many time she kissed her mom and dad goodnight after swallowing my load.

In college, I hit the cock-sucking jackpot again. Working at a pizza joint, I met this cutie who was working 3 jobs to keep her new business afloat and didn’t have time for a relationship. She did like to suck and fuck, though, so a FWB situation worked great for her. Seemingly, she liked to suck more - and swallowed most every time.

Never really had a relationship like those two again. My wife gave it a go when we were dating but it didn’t last long. Fortunately she has other charms that keeps us together.

 

[554279]

Maybe it's a regional thing. Cultural. When I lived in the Bronx, where I'm from, I'd give a blowjob, and it was over when the lucky guy released his satisfaction onto my waiting tongue, or into my greedy throat. That was an unspoken, but well understood, mutual expectation. It was the same in Miami. Suck a dick, swallow jizz. The two went hand in hand. Now, however, I mostly meet men from the Mid-Atlantic or more specifically Tidewater region of the east coast. They don't expect me to swallow. Not only that, they are reluctant to finish inside my mouth in the first place.

My experiences with these men have been different, but they seem to have quite a bit in common. They are from this area, or moved here before they were sexually active. They have a lot of sexual experience. Some say they've never climaxed into a partner's mouth before. The first time I ask them to let me swallow for them, I'm always met with a look that is equal parts hope and fear. They always ask if I'm sure. One of my current partners says, "Oh, no! No, no, no-no-no!" He says it right before it's over, every time. When pressed, he's said he wasn't ready for the blowjob to end. I've been playfully accused by several of "stealing" their orgasms. Nearly all have given me warnings well in advance of climax, and then forced me to stop my ministry right before the point of no return. That's when we have the conversation. That's when they reveal that the women here, supposedly, don't volunteer to accept the slimy outcome, and the men don't ask them to.

Seems polite and all, but it's not for me. I have a little mouth, and big teeth, and overcoming these obstacles to pleasure is a real victory. The mouthful at the end is a trophy. Im not shy about discussion of sexual needs, wants and expectations with my partners. Long before we get into our first adult situation, they've been told I'm willing to accept and swallow their deposit. But that first time, every time, it's all giant puppy eyes, and, "Are you sure?!"

Some of these men have been previously married for a long time. Some of these men have been very promiscuous in the past. Most of them claim to rarely have the opportunity to be sucked to completion, and a few claim it has never been an option before. Some just want to know if I'll still be open to intercourse after. Some aren't sure they'll be able to perform for intercourse if I lead them to orgasm right then.

In what part of the world are you? What is the oral sex etiquette where you are? Men whose partners have been women, is it common for oral sex to carry to completion, or is it common to stop and change activity before orgasm? Women who give oral pleasure to men, is it okay if he comes in your mouth? Swallowing is a separate (and irrelevant) issue. Can he leave his seed in your mouth in the first place?

I am a global adventurer, if your part of the country says swallow; who am I to deny you?

Please feel free to "steal" mine anytime we can schedule the event, you can also have your way with my ears and whats left of my hair while I return the favor.

 

[693987]

When it's someone where etiquette isn't previously established/I don't know their tells, I prefer a heads up that they're about to blow their load. I think male ejaculate is fucking disgusting as far as taste and texture. Sorry, not sorry. Over 50 different male partners and I've yet to encounter some that I thought was tolerable, much less pleasant.

Having said that, if I'm giving a blowjob to completion, it's easier for me to just swallow. Instead of needing to find somewhere to spit it out and rinse out my mouth, just to have it go down my throat and it's gone. I've had a couple of individuals who would ask to blow their load somewhere specific (facial or on my tits), and I don't mind accommodating, generally. Otherwise it has largely been left up to my discretion to swallow or not. I've surprised every single man I was with when I've swallowed, though. So. I dunno.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

What an awesome thread, @AlteredEgo, this is a definite Top 10. You are a treasure.

 

[SurferGirlCA]

True all day. Have your experiences led you to any conclusions about the experiences of your partners? Have they told you anything about what they've been used to?

I've had partners who have been frustrated by my disdain for facials, which is fine - we all like what we like, or don't. When they say, "most women are into it, though - why aren't you?" I ask if they're assuming that is true because they're conditioned to seeing it in porn, or if they've actually had conversations about it with those other partners. Awkward silence is the typical response.

 

[554279]

It's really too bad, as those are my favorite!


Who brings it up as a possibility? What happens if you ask?


It's not stealing if you're volunteering it! You sure are an accommodating fella!


All good, I hope! And if not good, then I suppose naughty would be okay too.

Anyway, yeah. It generally doesn't taste good at all. But I'm not trying to get a dude to pump out candy for me. I'm just curious about the taboo aspect of ejaculating into a woman's mouth, or, asking/allowing a man to ejaculate into a woman's mouth.

Can't we just role play you stealing it? It's way more kinky. You can even dress up as a pirate or something.

"Pirates of Obscene III" or something...

 

[AlteredEgo]

So you're telling me it's a safety hazard sort of thing?

Barring small appendage comments, I think I could get you to laugh without yelling "Unleash the Kracken" during a BJ and you would not choke (trust me timing is everything)...I would wait and try to get it to come back out through your nose

I would advise caution to any partner. Big teeth, tiny mouth.

 

[Mr Ed in Mass]

I ask my wife where I should shoot? ,and she says...why are you calling me ?

 

[AlteredEgo]

I ask my wife where I should shoot? ,and she says...why are you calling me ?

Speaking of your wife, give her a hug, a kiss, and a smack on the ass for me. Then you ask her to pass on the same to you.

Central Canada....No Swallow City.

Dang. Can you imagine if that was an actual city? What would the tourist attractions look like? What would they sell in the gift shops?! Nevermind. Thank you.

 

[cmore925]

There is nothing better than getting a bj to completion. The feeling of her continuing to suck as you cum is indescribably great. That being said, all women don't like cum in their mouth. I will let her know that I am about to cum and she can decide where I cum. My experience has been that white girls will swallow or at a minimum cum in their mouth. Black girls don't like cum in their mouth and have gotten upset with me if I didn't warn them quick enough. What I write is my experience. As I like to say, "Spitters are quitters".

 

[849142]

As I was nearing the climax of the first blowjob from my (now) wife, I asked her if it was OK. Her response was a garbled “uh huh” so I finished and she never spilled a drop. Near the end of my 2nd BJ from her, I warned her when I was about to shoot. Afterwards, she told me a warning wasn’t necessary because (in her words) “I’ve done this enough to know when a guy is about to cum.”

 

[LaFemme]

I've had partners who have been frustrated by my disdain for facials, which is fine - we all like what we like, or don't. When they say, "most women are into it, though - why aren't you?" I ask if they're assuming that is true because they're conditioned to seeing it in porn, or if they've actually had conversations about it with those other partners. Awkward silence is the typical response.

Most women are into facials?! Yeah, clay facials. Hot stone facials. Being shot in the eye or up the nose with stinging cum? Yeah, not so much!

 

[1106279]

I have only come in a person's mouth four times in my life. Twice with my wife, who doesn't like it but did it as a favor, letting me know it was ok, and twice with other bi men. One of those was a full on deep throat - that was truly amazing. The men made it clear it's what they wanted.

But I really answered just to quote this favorite old joke.

A vacationing penguin is driving through Arizona when he notices the oil-pressure light is on. He gets out to look and sees oil dripping out of the motor. He drives to the nearest town and stops at the first gas station.
After dropping the car off, the penguin goes for a walk around town. He sees an ice cream shop, and being a penguin in Arizona, decides that something cold would really hit the spot.
He gets a big dish of vanilla ice cream and sits down to eat. Having no hands, he makes a real mess trying to eat with his little flippers. After finishing his ice cream, he goes back to the gas station and asks the mechanic if he's found the problem.
The mechanic looks up from the engine and says, "It looks like you've blown a seal." "No, no," the penguin replies, wiping his mouth "it's just ice cream."