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It's a question I often ask myself because it's clear from looking at old film and specially tv series, like scifi stuff and cop programmes, that showing off was pretty much a matter of course not so long ago. It turns me on gutless but the whole trend seems to have turned right against it, with a few exceptions. i do wonder whether guys are just more self conscious and fearful - it might just be that people are not so relaxed about it as they were in the 70s and 80s. I saw this clip of singer Andy Kim from the 1970s and Jesus it was amazing. Singing Rock Me Gently on a roof somewhere! Cock fullon packaged and you just could not miss it. I jacked off for ages looking at that. Actually showing off a clear dick outline like that now is very rare. I see them rarely and I work in a clothes store.for mostly younger clients.

Back in the 70s’ guys would use sandpaper to burnish their jeans so as to highlight their bulge. (like shown in the last pic of post #98). My bet is that if dress style were left up to men, bulges would be a lot more in fashion.

For some reason back in the 70s’ both fashion and social attitudes regarding sex / body parts took a 180 degree turn away from conservative rules. I remember that a small relatively conservative community I lived in started having Porno Fridays at a local movie house. All the college kids showed up and no one challenged it for years.

I am also convinced that when many women (but not all) see a healthy bulge on a guy they suffer some form of rape anxiety. As a result one unanticipated impact of the well-meant female independence movement over the last 30-40 years, has told guys to keep their dick hidden and their packages in a closet.

My bet is that a lot of the towel dance mentality in the US today has its roots in this unspoken behavioral modification process.
 

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It's a question I often ask myself because it's clear from looking at old film and specially tv series, like scifi stuff and cop programmes, that showing off was pretty much a matter of course not so long ago. It turns me on gutless but the whole trend seems to have turned right against it, with a few exceptions. i do wonder whether guys are just more self conscious and fearful - it might just be that people are not so relaxed about it as they were in the 70s and 80s. I saw this clip of singer Andy Kim from the 1970s and Jesus it was amazing. Singing Rock Me Gently on a roof somewhere! Cock fullon packaged and you just could not miss it. I jacked off for ages looking at that. Actually showing off a clear dick outline like that now is very rare. I see them rarely and I work in a clothes store.for mostly younger clients.
I posted a youtube video of Andy Kim. He must have been hung like a horse.
Here it is.
 
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It's natural for a man to show a bulge since his penis is designed to stick out!
It's healthier for a man to have room for his bulge than to squish his penis uncomfortably. If a man stays attractive by keeping in shape, then girls won't mind his penis bulge. The girls who would aren't the ones I'm after anyway!

I dress in ways to trigger and accommodate erections to be highly intense and frequent. When I see a girl who's pretty, my penis gets a boner she might notice, and the process is almost instant. For sexual fitness, I train my dick to get hard with unrestrained excited arousal. My boners come and go as they please, signaling to girls that I'm ready to pleasure them.
 
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I often wear my soccer shorts commando with the drawstrings of the shorts tied in order to make my fully erect dick sticking straight out to show off its full erect length and the outline of its fully erect shape. I used to go around dressed like this when I would use my college dorm's bathroom, and I would regularly use the bathroom when the cleaning ladies were there so that they would get a clear view of me dressed that way!
 
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I often wear my soccer shorts commando with the drawstrings of the shorts tied in order to make my fully erect dick sticking straight out to show off its full erect length and the outline of its fully erect shape. I used to go around dressed like this when I would use my college dorm's bathroom, and I would regularly use the bathroom when the cleaning ladies were there so that they would get a clear view of me dressed that way!

I would also be shirtless, wearing only my mesh unlined soccer shorts. I would strike up a casual conversation with the hottest of the cleaning ladies while I was enjoying my full erection visibly throbbing right in front of her. It was cool that she would stare at my penis and get a little flustered during the conversation, but pretty soon, she would clean the bathroom more often at times when she knew I would be there. She was divorced and in her forties; seeing a handsome college boy on sexual display was actually an erotic treat for her, and having her, as a woman, admire my erection in the morning felt super awesome and manly.
 

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I posted a youtube video of Andy Kim. He must have been hung like a horse.
Here it is.
OMG...you beat me to it ..LOL..... I love this song, even more with the added bulge hanging down his leg..:p
 

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Of course not. As men we really cannot help having a bulge. Some guys have a bigger bulge than others. If I'm in jeans others can typically see me bulge. It's not like I'm trying to show off it's just that there isn't really anywhere put my dick. My bulge is visible no matter what kind of pants I wear.
 

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For this post to make sense, I should first explain that you can ask Siri to read aloud to you in a number of different voices, male or female. I have used this feature for years for self-hypnosis.

I want to be proud of my bulge, but it embarrasses me. A couple of my friends have told me that the reason I’m not doing well in my profession is because of my huge bulge. They claim that people don’t take me seriously. These well-meaning guys have suggested layering undergarments or taping like a transvestite. They are deluded: my bulge cannot be tucked away. When men look at it, I usually don’t mind. When women check it out I get really uncomfortable.

I would like to wear it with pride, since I have to wear it anyway.
 

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For this post to make sense, I should first explain that you can ask Siri to read aloud to you in a number of different voices, male or female. I have used this feature for years for self-hypnosis.

I want to be proud of my bulge, but it embarrasses me. A couple of my friends have told me that the reason I’m not doing well in my profession is because of my huge bulge. They claim that people don’t take me seriously. These well-meaning guys have suggested layering undergarments or taping like a transvestite. They are deluded: my bulge cannot be tucked away. When men look at it, I usually don’t mind. When women check it out I get really uncomfortable.

I would like to wear it with pride, since I have to wear it anyway.
Sorry, the last part of this post got cut off. I wrote a hypnosis script to feel more comfortable with my anatomy, and it helped a little.
 

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For this post to make sense, I should first explain that you can ask Siri to read aloud to you in a number of different voices, male or female. I have used this feature for years for self-hypnosis.

I want to be proud of my bulge, but it embarrasses me. A couple of my friends have told me that the reason I’m not doing well in my profession is because of my huge bulge. They claim that people don’t take me seriously. These well-meaning guys have suggested layering undergarments or taping like a transvestite. They are deluded: my bulge cannot be tucked away. When men look at it, I usually don’t mind. When women check it out I get really uncomfortable.

I would like to wear it with pride, since I have to wear it anyway.
I don't know your "friends" but I feel they are just envious of your bulge size. No matter the gender of those checking out your bulge you should not be uncomfortable about it, truth be known the women are secretly enjoying the sight of it. As to your "friends" telling you that the reason you are not doing well in your profession because your bulge makes people to not take you seriously( if that is true) I think they are wrong and full of horse shit. If you are truly not doing well in your current profession you might want to explore the possibility of a new more compatible to you profession. To concluded I fell that a body part ( large bulge) has nothing to do with how you do your job, it is about your knowledge and ability to do the job. Do not be embarrassed by your bulge it is part of you just like your hands, own your bulge and be comfortable and proud of it.
 

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I don't know your "friends" but I feel they are just envious of your bulge size. No matter the gender of those checking out your bulge you should not be uncomfortable about it, truth be known the women are secretly enjoying the sight of it. As to your "friends" telling you that the reason you are not doing well in your profession because your bulge makes people to not take you seriously( if that is true) I think they are wrong and full of horse shit. If you are truly not doing well in your current profession you might want to explore the possibility of a new more compatible to you profession. To concluded I fell that a body part ( large bulge) has nothing to do with how you do your job, it is about your knowledge and ability to do the job. Do not be embarrassed by your bulge it is part of you just like your hands, own your bulge and be comfortable and proud of it.
Thanks for the support, PDXJoe.
 

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It's natural for a man to show a bulge since his penis is designed to stick out!
It's healthier for a man to have room for his bulge than to squish his penis uncomfortably. If a man stays attractive by keeping in shape, then girls won't mind his penis bulge. The girls who would aren't the ones I'm after anyway!

I dress in ways to trigger and accommodate erections to be highly intense and frequent. When I see a girl who's pretty, my penis gets a boner she might notice, and the process is almost instant. For sexual fitness, I train my dick to get hard with unrestrained excited arousal. My boners come and go as they please, signaling to girls that I'm ready to pleasure them.

Does your dick REALLY get INSTANTLY hard just at the sight of a "pretty girl"? I always feel like that's an exaggeration and that it takes a bit of time and some fantasizing in the moment to get a true hardon.
 
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Does your dick REALLY get INSTANTLY hard just at the sight of a "pretty girl"? I always feel like that's an exaggeration and that it takes a bit of time and some fantasizing in the moment to get a true hardon.

My dick gets almost instantly hard at the sight of a pretty girl. I'm super easily aroused, which I think is awesome.
 
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