Is it possible for a guy to be 100% straight

[mattyacht]

There are a few guys in my class that come across as 100 % straight.
By that, I mean never wonder about other guys and only entertain straight fantasy. Help me out here. Is there only grey in the world or is there some black and white? One flirts with me a liitle more than a normal straight man would. He even suggested bringing over a porno of a dude getting fucked by a chic with a strap-on. He said, "that would be hot."
I've tried my hardest to give him the benefit of the doubt. Help me out here. He's got a gorgeous girlfriend but doesn't want to bring her to the halloween party and called me wanting to go "as his date." Jokingly, "I'll hold your sausage." Does a normal straight man talk like that?

 

[DaveyR]

Firstly there's no such thing in my book as a "normal" straight man. They are sexual men and their pecentages range anywhere from 100% staright to 100% gay. They don't always stay the same neither. Why the need for labels and categorizations?

 

[D_Relentless Original]

Firstly there's no such thing in my book as a "normal" straight man. They are sexual men and their pecentages range anywhere from 100% staright to 100% gay. They don't always stay the same neither. Why the need for labels and categorizations?

QFT

Yeah, i don't get the labelling and % thing, i think labels make people feel guilty about trying anything because they will be categorised in that box. people should take/do with whatever sex they fancy doing it with at that time, enjoy, live.

 

[Principessa]

There are a few guys in my class that come across as 100 % straight.
By that, I mean never wonder about other guys and only entertain straight fantasy. Help me out here.

Is there only grey in the world or is there some black and white?

Interesting phraseology. In the world in which I grew up there was only black and white and no shades of grey. No wonder people are so troubled and confused. Too much in the way of shades of grey is nebulous, most people need something finite on which to stand or believe. I don't just mean sexually but in all things. IMO, the larger the grey portions of the world the larger the confusion.

One flirts with me a liitle more than a normal straight man would.

In my experience 100% straight men don't flirt with other men...ever. This guy is probably in the closet; but possibly bisexual.

He even suggested bringing over a porno of a dude getting fucked by a chic with a strap-on. He said, "that would be hot."

If you're interested go for it. This doesn't sound like a straight man who enjoys a prostate massage. This is a man who likes men; his girlfriend is a beard.

I've tried my hardest to give him the benefit of the doubt. Help me out here. He's got a gorgeous girlfriend but doesn't want to bring her to the halloween party and called me wanting to go "as his date." Jokingly, "I'll hold your sausage." Does a normal straight man talk like that?

FWIW: Nothing about this mans behavior is normal, no matter what his sexual preference is! Most 100% straight men would complain that a party is a sausage fest and leave to go to a party where there is some pussy. This closet case wants to leave the pussy at home and go to the Halloween party with you. He is not 100% straight.

 

[Xcuze]

I know many straight guys who flirt with gays. If someones secure with their sexuality then they can flirt pretty much with anyone. I think there are definately guys who are completely turned off by the thought of any sexual contact with another guy. Just like gays are about females. If that makes them 100% anything then there you go.

As for this guy in question; if you fancy him then just go with the flow & find out how far he will actually go. But wait for him to make the first move sexually or you may get punched!

 

[trumasseur]

labels have led to all of the worlds ills...any thing that identifies seperation vs. celebrating uniqueness and individualism is based in lack of intelligence, which inturn is the basis of all "fear"
When an individual realizes that is what and who they truly are, the world is opened in an unimaginable manner to breaking down the adopted fears and arrested self-education of prior generations or possibly poor mentors.:hug:

 

[mattyacht]

I don't fancy him at all. He is a colleague which could be a time bomb that i wouldn't pull the pin on even if I did fncy him.

 

[Principessa]

I don't fancy him at all. He is a colleague which could be a time bomb that i wouldn't pull the pin on even if I did fancy him.

Okay, then his sexuality really doesn't matter does it? To answer your question yes, it is possible to be 100% straight. the only people who seem to have a problem with this concept are those who are neither 100% straight, nor 100% gay.

 

[mattyacht]

NJQT,

LOL You crack me up!!!!!
BTW, Remember the rant you gave me about driinking and driving a few months ago.
I have not had another drink since. You were the swift kick in the ass that I needed.
MY HAT IS OFF TO YOU!!!!!

 

[pym]

Yes. I have never once in my life even considered the thought of intimate contact with another male. Period. My rule of thumb has allways been, if i am in a room, and another penis other than mine materializes, i leave the room. Not out of fear, but to be respectfull of privacy/modesty issues. Simple. The closest thing for me, would be seeing a good blue movie featuring a GAL gettin' shagged rotten. Every pervy day-dream i have ever had show-cased a GAL. So yes, i for one am sure about 100% straight, and allways have been.

 

[nudeyorker]

You know flirting is a lost art these days. I flirt with the butcher, baker and the dry cleaner,Men and woman, it makes everyday life just a little more fun! Sex has nothing to do with flirting it is a charm when someone really knows how to do it right!
However I don't ask the butcher over to watch porn! You learn the comfort level of people and you don't cross it!

 

[DaveyR]

You know flirting is a lost art these days. I flirt with the butcher, baker and the dry cleaner,Men and woman, it makes everyday life just a little more fun!

You would flirt with the crack of dawn you would :wink:

 

[D_Relentless Original]

You know flirting is a lost art these days. I flirt with the butcher, baker and the dry cleaner,Men and woman, it makes everyday life just a little more fun! Sex has nothing to do with flirting it is a charm when someone really knows how to do it right!
However I don't ask the butcher over to watch porn! You learn the comfort level of people and you don't cross it!

Good point nude.

I flirt alot and it gets me places even without having the sex to get it, cheers people up to.:wink:

 

[mattyacht]

Yet you're in here pym !!! I'm a little confused. Are you in here for the pussy?
No Offense Dude!!!

 

[Principessa]

NJQT, LOL You crack me up!!!!!

BTW, Remember the rant you gave me about driinking and driving a few months ago. I have not had another drink since. You were the swift kick in the ass that I needed. MY HAT IS OFF TO YOU!!!!!

Glad to here it. You did the hard work, I was just a nudge. :tongue:

FWIW: Rumor has it if you get certain men drunk they forget they are straight. :tongue:

 

[pym]

There's no ambiguity for me. I originally found this site checkin' out sex flix. And in the process, found other things that spike my interest as well on an occasional basis. Politics, Human nature, other peoples problems,Music, and just stuff in general. That is all. If that gives YOU reason to believe that i'm not sure of my own sexuality, i'm sorry i posted in your thread: Is it possible for a guy to be 100% straight? That was interrogative,yes?

 

[nudeyorker]

You would flirt with the crack of dawn you would :wink:

Not only that..but since I own a tuxedo, I would attend the opening of a can of soup!

 

[polesmoker]

To NJI have one straight guy friend that flirts with gays because he is hot and vain and loves attention be it male or female. He still fucks every woman he can and is not atrracted to men even when drunk.