I am in a relationship and have been for around 5 years now. It made me a bit sad when I began to notice my single friends were either avoiding me (us) or ruled me (us) out of plans that were friends type of things to do. While I have a partner and am truly devoted to him and him me, I love to have friends around and enjoy company (nonsexual), etc. Just because I am gay does not mean I cannot have single friends, str8 or gay. Even if they are killer good looking, it shouldn't matter because while I may know they are good looking (as would my partner), because we are all on a friendship level, it remains that way in my views. I respect my str8 friends str8ness and also my gay friends gayness equally. The only time that I end friendships myself, is if I view that the friendship is one of sexual interest, whether it is with one or both of us. Beyond that, anything else goes. I love to go out with friends, enjoy their company, catch a movie, go out for dinner, etc., with friends. It rounds me out as an individual.