Is it possible to achieve orgasm through a hand job?

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Curious topic! I'm bi and currently FWB with my ex (female) and never once in three years has she been able to make me cum via a handjob. Not sure why but her hand always gets too tired. The issue I have is I feel that she does not apply enough pressure or speed. Slow and firm can get me off, or fast but with less firmness. She lacks the ability to maintain either. Can be really annoying for sure.

Its not much of an issue really though, I mean we just have sex instead and that solves that problem.
 

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It is very difficult to get me off by sucking me unless it is a very talented throat that can take most of me and suck me rough, which is not easy bc my thickness tends to make their mouths tired or sore before I come, but it is nearly impossible to get me to cum by a handjob, the one time it happened was through a process called MILKING, the man milked me for an hour or longer and force edged me several times, when I was finally ready to come he made me wait in absolute agony and then finally he made me come and it was one of the most intense orgasms of my life.
I do not know for sure but I think the technique of MILKING is on here somewhere .

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Sometimes I think these sort of problems comes down to either too much dialogue inside someone's own head or not enough dialogue between the people involved.
 
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LOL I wish. This was the guy responsible for getting me to post my cock online and getting on cam, he was the first to take pictures of me .

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I have had more success wanking other guys off than them wanking me - think I just get uptight or they get me close and change grip/speed etc. Had a cut friend once who I could make cum from wanking real easy but he told me I was the first guy to get him off that way!
 

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I find it difficult to surrender myself to the handjob by someone else. I always want to finish myself because who knows my own body better than I do?
I think I am the same, the grip is not right or they slow down when i am close.. Wish I was one of those guys that can cum easy.
 
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I can cum easily when I'm being jacked off. It's a huge turn-on for me. Recently, after I finished having sex with my boyfriend I was trying to get off again. I gave up because I wasn't going to be able to cum. He started jacking me off and within a few minutes he was able to get me off.