I did a search, and I didn't find anything suprisingly. I figured there would be like a million threads on this topic. Anyways, me and my girl are having sex. Before we ever did it she said she had never orgasmed in her life from having sex. So I gave her her first orgasm, and she comes almost every time we have sex. I THINK that she really is, that she isn't lying about it. When she does I can feel her vagina pulsing and it gets very tight and my dick almost wants to pop out while I keep fucking her. Its very intense, but I wonder can that be faked? She said she used to always fake it for her exes. I want to pleasure my girl. I don't care if I don't get off, I really don't. Any girl I'm with I don't care if I don't get off every time, I just want to please her. But of course women are always like me, they want me to cum and they don't care if they don't get off. But I do! And I argued with her about it. I said "don't lie because I want you to get off too" and she just says she doesn't care if she gets off or not only if I do. Her saying that kind of makes me think maybe she is faking it. I don't know. My theory has always been that there is no way to tell, that women can fake everything, that you can really never know if you are actually pleasing her or not. If she likes you if she loves you she will probably put up with not getting off. TLDR: Is there any surefire way of knowing if a girl actually had an orgasm?