guys...this is a vague q i know...but just wanna know if its possible to be both gay and str at the same time? or rather enjoy both at the same time... thanx
You mean "Bi now, gay later"? :biggrin1: I do think that is true for some people, but not everyone. I do think there are some true bisexuals out there who are attracted to both. I don't think it has to be exactly 50.000000% to 50.00000% to be bi. I also think there are some major horndogs who just want to get off and the gender doesn't matter. Some of those are "straight." Others just consider themselves "sexual" without the "bi" qualifier in front. Straight horndogs who accept blowjobs from guys are one of my favorite flavors! .
Yessssssssssss yessssss yes :smile: I just love sex girl or boy just has to be horny that's all, but when it comes to relationships that has and always will be for me with a female its just I also like to shag guys as well :biggrin1: bisexual as you said cums in many flavours :smile:
I'm not sure. If a guy has sex 3 nights a week with men and 4 nights a week with women isn't he more gay and more straight than a guy that only has sex once a week with a woman? I'm asking why do the percentages have to add up to 100? I think there should be separate scales for how gay and how straight each person is. Someone that doesn't show any interest in sex with men or women would be 0% gay/0% straight, etc.
I switch frequently between one or the other. If I see a woman I'm attracted to, my body and mind respond. If I see a man I'm attracted to, same deal. I'm not, however, always attracted to the same degree. When I'm masturbating without porn, I tend to imagine sex with women about 20% of the time though I can go through exclusive phases. Bisexuality is not a 50/50 thing. It doesn't work like most people imagine it does. I'm mostly attracted to men and if you'd ask me, I'd tell you I'm gay though technically I'm bisexual. In my experience, however, that word is loaded with so many preconceptions (see posts to that effect above) that I just skip it. I have fallen in love with a girl and enjoy sex with women. I'm just not as attracted to them, in general, as I am to men. People worry if I get into a relationship that I would never be satisfied by it. That concern is pretty ridiculous. Straight and gay people get into relationships yet are still surrounded by people they will be attracted to just as strongly, perhaps even moreso, as their current partner. Yearnings for others don't disappear no matter what your sexual orientation.
i am only gay for big dicks. i've been that way since i was a 13 year-old in the football locker room. since i first hit puberty, i've never been attracted to a guy unless first i knew he had a big dick (usually i picked out guys with the biggest dicks in the high school locker room or later in the frat house showers). then and only then did i let myself admit that i wanted to suck cock. and only BIG cock. eventually i even came to terms with the idea of getting fucked by a guy. although my fascination with big dicks made it so that it took several attempts to actually, successfully "bottom" for another guy. it's not easy putting nine thick, curved inches in your ass without prior experience! a lot of (gay) guys i know usually start bottoming with average-sized dicks and then "graduate" to finally being able to take a big one. for me, i never wanted any dick in my ass unless it was menacingly HUGE. personally i know of no greater physical sensation than riding a great big hard-on and feeling it massage my prostate. i honestly wonder how straight guys go through a lifetime without the joy of that sensation...
To me a guy that says he's both gay and str8 is an oxymoron in more ways than one. Yeah, I love both guys and chicks and what each have to offer, but once I crossed over the line and admitted to myself that I was bi, being str8 was no longer an option.
The answer can be found in your question .... just enjoy both at the same time and don't worry about the semantics and labels.
Like she said. Contrary to popular opinion, only 10% of men are gay. of the remaining 90%, HALF are willing to experiment with men, or take advantage of the rare opportunity that arises with other men... but would not give up women for anything. That means that for every gay guy, there are 4 guys who are, to some degree, bisexual... Although I am not sure I would even use the term bisexual... I think those men are simply SEXUAL... they would fuck a melon if they were horny and the melon was right there.
