WOWZA, Tripod...that WAS harsh!
Sandwulf, thanks, yes, that is exactly what I was trying to say.........so many risks it seems to take to do enlarge a penis, that most likely, doesn't even need it! The risks seem to me to be too much to make it worth it....
I think I can equate the males' interest in larger penis' to womens' interest in having larger breasts (exluding those who have had cancer and need reconstruction)....although even there, I see that breast augmentation has a lot of risks too, including anesthesia, a foreign object in the body, possible leakage, scar tissue, etc. .....and this all even being done by an MD plastic surgeon! As opposed to these self-techiniques for penis enlargement. One guy on this site admits to using some kind of acid!!!! I think that media has made the "perfect" body an unattainable goal, with more and more people opting to enhance thier bodies, this including breasts and penis'. In reality, who really NEEDS such large breasts or penis' ? There is such a thing as TOO BIG !! NOthing to be said of those who enhance and STILL aren't satisfied and keep trying to enhance to some abnormal size or shape! There are definitely the Michael Jackson's of the penis enlargement world!!
IMO, I have noticed that the majority of those who have opted for enhancements have had some comment made to them in adolescence or childhood about their said body part. That being such a vulnerable age, the thought sticks and a sense of what is "normal" becomes warped, and later on the person seeks enhancement or alteration of some kind........it just baffles me how someone can risk their health to ehnance or change something just because of some childhood prank/comment by someone, who I am sure, to this day, has no recollection of even making that comment.
So, you see, it is mental........about how YOU perceive YOURSELF, and your level of self confidence. I am 100% natural, and I accept that over the years, gravity has started to take over, and even though I take good care of my body, the natural aging process happens (Unabear09...accept you are not a teenager anymore, and every man is not as hard as he was at that time (naturallly!!))...I just accept my changing body as it is, but try to take care of it naturally (eat well, exercise, etc), and if someone doesn;t like a wee bit of sag or a wrinkle here or there....that is THEIR problem, not mine! I would never risk my health to correct something so natural!
I don;t understand the idea that biggest is best...or even wwaaaay bigger is best......I don't think it is women who "push " men to think that bigger is better,.......I think there is a certain amount of ego on the men;s part to be bigger than the next man....just look at the posts all over this site.....it's a competition of measuring, measuring, measuring!!!!!!
There is a person out there for each of us....some women are very tight, and a man who is huge would prove to just be a challenge rather than a pleasure. Some women are larger, and then a larger penis would accommodate........gay men have thier preferences, too as to what they like and can handle, but there is a need out there for each of us,....we all have our preferences, big-vs-small (penis, breasts, butts, chests, etc), and I would say just to accept what you have naturally, use it the best way you can , take care of yourself, for if someone only accepts you for your "enhancements"....they are not really accepting "you".......and who needs them then? It just doesn't seem to me to take all the risks with these enhancements when I am sure you are fine the way you are! I say, just accept yourself, work with what you've got, and you will attract someone who will also accept you for what you've got, personality, self confidence, and all!!!!!!!!!
I just have gotten onto this penis enlargement dicsussion forum for the first time, and reading some of these posts....seems that with all the methods for increasing size, there are a lot of hazards and mishaps that happen trying to get the results.......including damaged nerves, lessened erection, etc. and then to see some who have used silicone or injections.....YIKES,guys.........it really cannot be worth it, can it????? My gosh, can't you just be happy with what you've got, use it the best way you can, and don't take such risks with your health and sexual future? In reality, some of the "results" look so unnatural and a real turnoff (who really needs one THAT big, so much that is is impossible for most to enjoy ?!?!?!), but all the damage that can be done in the meantime with trying these enlargement techinques...well, maybe as a woman, I cannot understand, but it just freaks me out that some of you guys are really doing such possibly damaging things all in the name of a bigger penis........
