Is it that obvious?

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are all of you str8 and young? answer is:
1. stringing you along
2. very interested
only two options
if you wanna save face for the both of you
ask her gay friend. He will know what she is up to
all girls should have a gay friend
hairdresser, dance club pal, nail salon, something
he will know if she is stringing you as a "just incase" i.e.
a. bored, but not willing to "give it up"- so you-the safe date- is called
b. dont want to go out alone (and look like an old maid in front of my friends)
c. need heavy lifting, moving objects, flat tire, a ride someplace, free movie date
god you have no balls, do you have a dick?
let your little head do the thinking
SHE WANTS YOU
just saying in a gay kinda way you know?
it is obvious you dont want to lose her either
 

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You seem to more concerned with how she feels about you than how you feel about her. Figure out what YOU want. If you like her, then make a move. If not, then don't.

People here have given you great advice yet you haven't really followed it yet. I understand you're shy. So am I, trust me. But at some point, you have to step up and go after what you want. (if you want this, that is)
 

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Regardless of what any of us have deducted - at this point don't you, for your own sanity and peace of mind, just want to get down to the bottom of this with her?


Of course I do. I guess I have just always been the type that wants to know as much as I can before hand, when I get into something. Not much of a risk taker with girls I guess, which I know is probably one of the big problems in this situation.
 

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Uh, first off... She's playing you.. That is a fact.. Why or what happened in her life that makes her so insecure is for her and the universe. My Advice?! Get the FUCK out of there. I'm not saying don't be her friend. I'm just saying only be her freind. I have a feeling she needs you. All the guys you see her fuck are douche bags, right? That should your sign that that is what she likes and you are not that.Even if she is attracted to you she will get bored and you'll hate her or NOT hate her is my quess. You will suffer if you persue this but I suppose that there are consequences for everything.
 

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I have a feeling she needs you. All the guys you see her fuck are douche bags, right? That should your sign that that is what she likes and you are not that.Even if she is attracted to you she will get bored and you'll hate her or NOT hate her is my quess. You will suffer if you persue this but I suppose that there are consequences for everything.

Yes they are douche bags. In fact I hung out with her and a couple of her friends last night and her friend was like "she has a thing for douche bags".

This same friend was like "I don't know how you do it, put up with all her crap, I'd go crazy"

Last year around this time at her birthday her sister was like "one of these days karma is going to work in your favor" while staring right at my ex.

I worked out of state for the past 6 months and we basically didn't talk. I came home we hung out for a few days and we sort of talked, which we had never done. I told her why my friends hate her (rubbing her guy shit in my face) and she actually said sorry. She wanted to know about my girl history and at first she just sort of laughed along, then she started getting a little ticked off/upset I could tell.
 

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I forgot to add that when we did talk about my girl history I brought up the fact that I am often very oblivious to girls signs/signals, and included some examples. Her response, "I know what you mean"

It's like, does she know what I mean literally, or does she know what I mean because I've been oblivious to her?