So up until now i have been able to keep my sexuality under wraps but lately the urges have begun to be more intense than usual. I have slid by the accusations over the years but i am beyond tired of hiding who i am out of fear and knowledge that my family wont except me once they know for sure. They are such phobes! I need the opinions of those who have been in my position. what should i do??? Is it time to tell them or should I wait until I move out???