Is it too much for a female to be open about her big dick preference?
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There's nothing wrong with having opinions and desires and expressing them. We all have certain body types and personality traits that we find attractive and others that turn us off. I think it is perfectly acceptable for you to be up front about what you seek in a partner. I certainly appreciate that in a woman.
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I don't think there's anything wrong with a woman sharing her preferences up front. Maybe some guys wouldn't want that to be a focal point right away, I show my cock to all my female friends & I know where they stand in the preference department lol. Usually when they meet new guys they always tell me about the guy's dicks & whether they like them or their size, etc. With my guy friends we always talk about what we prefer in women, so I think it's fine. Some people are more private and others are upfront, go get whatcha looking for!! 
All I know is that on the 3rd date I make it clear that the woman needs to have a tiny, tight vagina. I make my preference known. I don't give a fuck if she's nice or pretty or funny or whether or not I like her. I have needs. I want her to have a tiny, tiny pussy, and I ask her about it. My pleasure is my only concern. If she doesn't measure up, well, fuck her. I have so many times entered a cavernous cunt with a single thrust, and then got up and left her naked on the bed. It's fucked up in this culture that I'd be judged negatively for being put off by the size of my anonymous partner's genitalia and leave them mid-act for that reason. THEY are the problem, not my sociopathic objectification of organ size.
I'm astonished when I mention my reasonable request to a date, and she sits there not knowing how to answer. Like she hasn't measured her pussy. Give me a break.
They call me shallow, selfish, anti-social, deranged, etc... I don't care. Women need tiny pussies and I don't have time to wade through the losers who don't. Similarly, I will write down a dollar figure on a napkin and slide it over to her during the first date. If she doesn't make a salary above that figure. I just get up and walk away. Why do they sit there not knowing what to say? I don't get it.
Cuz this is all normal.
I'm astonished when I mention my reasonable request to a date, and she sits there not knowing how to answer. Like she hasn't measured her pussy. Give me a break.
They call me shallow, selfish, anti-social, deranged, etc... I don't care. Women need tiny pussies and I don't have time to wade through the losers who don't. Similarly, I will write down a dollar figure on a napkin and slide it over to her during the first date. If she doesn't make a salary above that figure. I just get up and walk away. Why do they sit there not knowing what to say? I don't get it.
Cuz this is all normal.
I find that women tend to open up about their size preference after having a very big dick.I love being objectified for my huge tool.
oooh look at his wit.
and actually yeah, i would hope her pussy would be tight ain't nothing wrong with that being a preference too..
jokes on you,
well it kinda depend the situation and what you are looking for.
If you are only looking for sex than i guess you can be a bit bold and let him know what you want.
But if you want something more serious , i think you would have to let that detail be secondary.
So the question is are you and the guy on the same level ? looking for the same things ?
If a guy is looking to know you better and you ask him that kind of question it may kinda be off the board. But if you are both looking for sex then i guess it's fair square to tell and ask clearly what you want.
Unlike most guys on that website , i'm not sure that all guys are selfconscious about their size. So don't be surprised if they don't know how to react to your question. They may be big and not aware of it...
Guys tend to often consider themselves smaller than they are and always want to be bigger. (maybe because of porn or i don't know)
Some guys may not react to well too... so be prepared if they insult you or make you a reputation of s... or b... , i guess it's their way to protect themselves and their ego.
If you are only looking for sex than i guess you can be a bit bold and let him know what you want.
But if you want something more serious , i think you would have to let that detail be secondary.
So the question is are you and the guy on the same level ? looking for the same things ?
If a guy is looking to know you better and you ask him that kind of question it may kinda be off the board. But if you are both looking for sex then i guess it's fair square to tell and ask clearly what you want.
Unlike most guys on that website , i'm not sure that all guys are selfconscious about their size. So don't be surprised if they don't know how to react to your question. They may be big and not aware of it...
Guys tend to often consider themselves smaller than they are and always want to be bigger. (maybe because of porn or i don't know)
Some guys may not react to well too... so be prepared if they insult you or make you a reputation of s... or b... , i guess it's their way to protect themselves and their ego.
A quick Google search yields numerous articles confirming my statement about the head of the penis being designed to scoop out the semen of other competing males. It's not my ridiculous theory, it's what scientists have found.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/3128753.stm
I think you may not have read the entire article.
It states just because the head of the penis displaces the cornstarch, doesn't mean that the design/evolution is for that reason, or that there is a cause-effect. And, the emotional aspect is hardly a proper conclusion.
It's like saying, there is rain and animals take cover in caves or under trees, the caves/trees weren't designed by nature to be shelter from rain. They work that way, but that wasn't the reason they exist that way.
It states just because the head of the penis displaces the cornstarch, doesn't mean that the design/evolution is for that reason, or that there is a cause-effect. And, the emotional aspect is hardly a proper conclusion.
It's like saying, there is rain and animals take cover in caves or under trees, the caves/trees weren't designed by nature to be shelter from rain. They work that way, but that wasn't the reason they exist that way.
Hopefully this post was meant as a joke. I'd like to believe it was. However, you're really taking a lot of offense with something that you could simply choose to not let bother you. No one seems to care when a man only dates blondes, or only dates chicks with big fake boobs, or only dates Asian chicks, or whatever his physical preference is. No one really seems to take issue with that for the most part, however when a strong, opinionated, confident woman like @Notthe7 stands up and asks for what she wants in a physical asset in a man, you get upset. We're talking about her being upfront about a preference for a physical asset that has the potential to directly influence her pleasure and her satisfaction. Potentially more than anything, it probably stimulates her mentally more than physically. Some women know what they want, and we should encourage that, not stifle or make fun of it. My lady is the same way, and I fucking love that about her!
As I mentioned. Do a quick Google search if you think I'm ridiculous.
Here's one that might enlighten you.
http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/1642613.html
I mean, I'm not here to be an asshole or to gain from any of these ideas. I'm just sharing insights. If you consider what I'm saying and do your own research, you'll find I'm not that far off in my wild ideas.
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Several of the posters have made very good points. The comments about "college girls" and how it relates to many women's preferences to size caught my attention from my own experiences.
It was decades ago, but when I was in school, I lived alone, off campus, in my own place. Because of my wardrobe issues, and in college their is no such thing as "home schooling" (at least back then...though now I suppose you can get a degree online and never leave your kitchen table or wear anything at all). But this was back before cell phones and cameras were big clunky 35MM and most folks had the instant polaroid cameras.
Anyway I started school in January. When the summer/fall started, the sororities were recruiting new pledges. Over the next few months of the fall term, all the sororities held many events for their pledges. And they all held scavenger hunts. That first year I found myself on several sorority pledge scavenger hunt lists. By the next year, I was on every sororities scavenger hunt lists. The pledges were told to run around campus/the community and get this or that. With me, it was find the guy with the biggest one and get a picture of me with them and/or sign their scavenger sheets to prove they had actually located me and met me. Several sororities added bonus points to the pledge worksheets if they could get a picture, almost always a polaroid) of the pledge kneeling down with their face near my nude lower body and my endowment clearly visible.
Since the pledges of any one sorority did there scavenger hunts as a group...or a pack...I would have my door banged on some nights with a few carloads of usually somewhat inebriated freshman girls wanting to meet me and see mine and take pictures of themselves with me, nude or clothed. At first I was surprised, it was different, even comical but it happened about 18 times each fall semester. And it was disruptive to my life. More than a dozen plus freshman girls who are drunk/almost drunk is not appealing especially since they thought they had the "right" to see and meet me just because it was on their scavenger lists.
And like another poster mentioned, I was not often attracted to very many of the women. I have a "type" that most of them were not.
But the thing I most remember was the comments. It was if the alcohol, and their youth, took away their judgment on what they said. Sometimes in my living room, but a lot of the time when they were leaving and walking down my drive...the comments that I was too big and no way and scary and lots of other things that were much worse. But occasionally I would hear a comment that they had seen their wet dream or they wanted to date me or wondered how big I was erect or wondered how much of me they could take or something generally positive. Certainly not many, but some did say positive. And I usually heard from other those few women again. Often they would, some time later, meet me again or just show up alone or with a like minded "sister" at my front door on a weekend night.
If I hadn't been so young too, I probably would not have shown them. Certainly wouldn't do it today. I'm told by a few of those women from decades ago, they still have those polaroid's, faded but they still have them.
It was decades ago, but when I was in school, I lived alone, off campus, in my own place. Because of my wardrobe issues, and in college their is no such thing as "home schooling" (at least back then...though now I suppose you can get a degree online and never leave your kitchen table or wear anything at all). But this was back before cell phones and cameras were big clunky 35MM and most folks had the instant polaroid cameras.
Anyway I started school in January. When the summer/fall started, the sororities were recruiting new pledges. Over the next few months of the fall term, all the sororities held many events for their pledges. And they all held scavenger hunts. That first year I found myself on several sorority pledge scavenger hunt lists. By the next year, I was on every sororities scavenger hunt lists. The pledges were told to run around campus/the community and get this or that. With me, it was find the guy with the biggest one and get a picture of me with them and/or sign their scavenger sheets to prove they had actually located me and met me. Several sororities added bonus points to the pledge worksheets if they could get a picture, almost always a polaroid) of the pledge kneeling down with their face near my nude lower body and my endowment clearly visible.
Since the pledges of any one sorority did there scavenger hunts as a group...or a pack...I would have my door banged on some nights with a few carloads of usually somewhat inebriated freshman girls wanting to meet me and see mine and take pictures of themselves with me, nude or clothed. At first I was surprised, it was different, even comical but it happened about 18 times each fall semester. And it was disruptive to my life. More than a dozen plus freshman girls who are drunk/almost drunk is not appealing especially since they thought they had the "right" to see and meet me just because it was on their scavenger lists.
And like another poster mentioned, I was not often attracted to very many of the women. I have a "type" that most of them were not.
But the thing I most remember was the comments. It was if the alcohol, and their youth, took away their judgment on what they said. Sometimes in my living room, but a lot of the time when they were leaving and walking down my drive...the comments that I was too big and no way and scary and lots of other things that were much worse. But occasionally I would hear a comment that they had seen their wet dream or they wanted to date me or wondered how big I was erect or wondered how much of me they could take or something generally positive. Certainly not many, but some did say positive. And I usually heard from other those few women again. Often they would, some time later, meet me again or just show up alone or with a like minded "sister" at my front door on a weekend night.
If I hadn't been so young too, I probably would not have shown them. Certainly wouldn't do it today. I'm told by a few of those women from decades ago, they still have those polaroid's, faded but they still have them.
"Too much" for only a certain type of man.
If The right man heard that, he'd be giddy with excitement. All of a sudden both people would have someone else to share their fetish with, and it would be magical. And why settle for anything less?
This sounds like the beginning to a really hot story, I'd love to hear more on this...
Science fiction study of a bullshit THEORY using fake molded penises that definitely did not have a functioning foreskin along with fake vaginas. So again, there goes your utterly ridiculous theory and that of SUNY "professors."
The latter portion of that article says the theory is "far fetched" and that the man would be scooping out his own semen too.
Stupid bullshit. Plain and simple. Nature designed the foreskin as an integral part of penis functionality. Collateral effects of mutilated genitals are NOT natural design and any "study" done with confirmation bias is invalid and worthy of ridicule.
This bullshit study would be just as "accurate" and "scientific" if it said inserting a suction tube into the vagina removes semen and claiming it was designed that way so a man could use the suction tube to empty a vagina before he penetrates her to give him a procreative advantage. Nature didn't design a foreskin-less penis and nature didn't design suction tubes for use before sex.
Big Ben,
How did you get on the scavenger hunt list in the first place? And how big are you? Really the biggest in the whole town?
I like it when a woman is honest. Then again many woman really don't have real expectation on it either. Oh you want a 12 inch penis... Best of luck to you on your search. I am not small by any means but I always hear woman talk about penis numbers completely inaccurately its kind of funny.
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I don't think it's out of line. I think, done tastefully and sensitively or humorously, like you stated, it's a good thing. I wish everyone felt comfortable saying and hearing the truth about wants and needs. I would not think less of you if it were me you said that too. I might feel slightly inadequate, but not offended or upset or embarrassed. But that's just me. I say keep keepin on.
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