Is it true that girls find asian guys really attractive?

[earllogjam]

Lee_M,

I think most gay men are not attracted to Asian men as well so you are certainly not the only one. They are never portrayed in popular culture as something to be desired, let alone a sex symbol. They are almost anti-men in gay culture, the opposite of what is sexually desirable. Perhaps it will change. Not many Asian guys in the Bear or Leather gay communities. The gay culture is divided among sexual attraction and it seems gay Asian men have no real place in gay culture which seems to be almost exclusively by whites for whites. I don't think that sexual attraction is an equal opportunity employer.

There is a subset of gay men called Rice Queens or some derogatory name like that who exclusively date Asian men. Most are older men who have sex with Asian boys. There is always some type of dominant white guy power dynamic in these relationships as I have never seen an interracial Asian/white gay couple who were both about the same age.

I for the most part don't really like thin, small or boney guys and it seems like there are few beefy hairy Asians around. I don't usually find them very sexually attractive or desirable because of that, not sure why but that's how I'm wired. I've only had sex with a couple of hot beefy Asian guys in Japan and two were hairy.

 

[ActionBuddy]

... They are never portrayed in popular culture as something to be desired, let alone a sex symbol.

Come on, Earl... Have you been to a gay bookstore in the last 15 years? And looked at all the photo mags and amazing array of porn comics devoted to the desire for, and powerful sexiness of Asian men?

Your first paragraph totally contradicts your second one.

The appreciation of Asian men does not make one a derogatory Rice Queen.

Yukio Mishima is rolling over in his grave here.

But, we have hi-jacked this thread. It was about female attraction to Asian men. And not about cock size issues.

Onan

P.S. I love your hot chest! :wink:

 

[SpoiledPrincess]

I don't particularly find Asian men attractive, that's not to say I don't find some of them attractive but generally they're not my cup of tea. It's not being racist not to find someone attractive, it's just a preference and it's the way it is and no one should have to apologise for it or defend their preferences.

I always had a thing for Bruce Lee though, that small ripped body was exquisite.

 

[MrMXYZPTLK]

Not attracted to them in the slightest. Plus they are supposedly hung like 3 year olds

Actually girls find asian guys attractive, because we have a more respectable demeanor, and ussually have been raised with a different enviroment. Which give us a different personality.

Plus other women just go for real old white guys that have alot of money are are about to die. Ha Ha just opinion and making light hearted statement of what I've heard.

 

[B_superlarge]

I've overheard a couple of black chicks before mention Asian guys. They both said they considered Asian guys often times cute, but too different from what they are use to being around in culture. Also, body size, and yes, penis size did get brought up in a very negative way. The few white chicks that I've heard talk of Asian guys didn't bring up culture, and were saying many Asian guys are cute, but also said Asian guys are just too small in body to suit them and were certain they have small dicks.

 

[deleted213967]

Actually girls find asian guys attractive, because we have a more respectable demeanor, and ussually have been raised with a different enviroment. Which give us a different personality.

What about Asian-Americans then, those who were raised in the US, or UK, ...?

 

[MrMXYZPTLK]

This is going to be a very entertaining thread if god for bid anyone actually has an honest opinion and admits they aren't attracted to Asian men and has you to deal with.


BTW, i do find British men very attractive, is that a problem for you?

Also i work with some wonderful Asian men, Vietnamese, Chinese, Korean, Thai.. just not attracted to them

Much better answer, your saying they are nice, just not your cup of tea.

Seriously though

Honestly, girls do like asian guys for thier looks, asians look different from whites, whites look different from blacks, and blacks look different from asians. We do have a specific type of look to us that other races don't have. So some girls like something on us, because they don't see it in any other race.

In a deeper note, is demeanor. I've been raised in the US, so I act like the next white or black guy you'll see walking down the street. However asian males that have grown up in a asian country and have not lived in the USA that long. Do have a completely foreign mind set of how to act around and treat people. So some girls are attracted to Asian guys from asia. I know a few girls that like asian guys, just not the white washed ones like me.

 

[MrMXYZPTLK]

What about Asian-Americans then, those who were raised in the US, or UK, ...?

Girls like that ussually aren't attracted to me, no matter how pretty I think I may be. I will admit this, I was born and raised in the USA, so in all seriousness I'm a banana. Yellow on the outside, but white on the inside.

Those girls want a ummmmm (add vegetable metaphor here for something yellow inside and yellow out)

 

[deleted213967]

Lemon perhaps?

 

[LeCaire]

in my country, no one ever said that asian men are sexy in any way, they are too short, too small in everything, but at least they have a repetition of being smart and hard working

 

[MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK]

Who would know from your post that you were being "light hearted"?

Assholes go by what they have "heard" and generalize about people they are ignorant of. I don't.

Take your own advice... Get an education and grow up!

Watch your mouth, there, onan_mann. Lee M happens to deserve her opinion, and even if you don't respect it, you shouldn't get belligerent.
And for the love of fuck, YOU GROW UP.

 

[snoozan]

I have what might be a fetish for asian men, specifically, Korean men. I have since 8th grade at the very least. Not to say there aren't any very hot men of all races, but I have always loved the way an attractive Korean man looks.

One thing I've noticed is that a lot of Asian men who are considered hot by mainstream Americans tend to be either overly feminized or have more "caucasian" features. Russell Wong, while hot, is half Dutch and you can see where his features are somewhat caucasian.

I don't know, I just love me some Asian men.

Plus they are supposedly hung like 3 year olds

Not in my experience, not at all.

 

[cristina69]

And "supposedly" you are wider than SandraSmithCarver's Mississippi River.

L M A O, That Made My Day =)

 

[rob_just_rob]

It doesn't appear to be a general truth. There is a large asian population where I live, but I don't see many nonasian women with asian men (although by all appearances, many asian women find asian men attractive, since I see many asian men with asian women).

There are attractive people among all ethnic groups. It does seem that the asians who are considered attractive are the ones with the most "western" features.

 

[midlifebear]

I, too, have sort of a fetish for Asians, specifically tall, good-looking Japanese Americans. In the little farm town I grew up in we lived on the outskirts where the white trash and Mexican Americans supposedly lived. However, my family was the only white trash family and all our neighbours were Japanese American. To the chagrin of my uptight Über Religious mormon mammy I could understand and speak Japanese rather well by the time I as 10 because, well, all of my playmates were from Japanese American families. So, when it came to the usual mutual adolescent circle jerks at 13 through 16 in barns and haystacks on our farms -- my buddies were all Japanese. My first crush was for a drop-dead gorgeous 15 year-old named Paul Kawa*****. He's still fucking hot at almost 60 years-old. Now that all of my blood relations are dead, Paul's sisters (who also escaped the weirdness of Ewetaw) continue to insist that I'm their "little" brother. They each have a bedroom for me. One in El Lay and another in Manhattan. We really are family. Unfortunately, Paul turned out to be a straight devout mormon who is now surrounded by his non-Japanese wife, non-Japanese-looking daughters, and even more non-Japanese-looking grandaughters. Still, I'd fuck him if given the chance.

 

[naughty]

I think it depends upon the girl and the guy. I have found some Asian men attractive but then I have also found some black men and white men attractive as well... I do have asian actors on my list of cinematic eye candy though... Chow Yun Fat, John Lone, Ken Watanabe,Russell Wong just to name a few ...

 

[naughty]

How could anyone not find this attractive?

Russell Wong

He's mine! I saw him first! LOL! See my gallery for reasons women find asian men attractive! LOL! There is no way anyone can tell me each and everyone of these men isnt as fine as he wants to be...Where is my fan when I need it? I am not going to lie, The man I dated the longest asked me one day if I had a thing for asian men. Why did he ask? Though his looks came from his Native American blood he could have walked down the streets of Tokyo any day and not raised an eyebrow. I have family members who look as if they are from Japan as well. I think it must be the Native American blood.

 

[earllogjam]

Come on, Earl... Have you been to a gay bookstore in the last 15 years? And looked at all the photo mags and amazing array of porn comics devoted to the desire for, and powerful sexiness of Asian men?

Your first paragraph totally contradicts your second one.

The appreciation of Asian men does not make one a derogatory Rice Queen.

Yukio Mishima is rolling over in his grave here.

But, we have hi-jacked this thread. It was about female attraction to Asian men. And not about cock size issues.

Onan

P.S. I love your hot chest! :wink:

I don't recall ever seeing a gay Asian porno actor who wasn't a twink. Although in Hawaii there are a considerable number of very hunky Asian guys...I forgot about that. They look like a mixture of different races however which usually makes them even more attractive it seems. Funny in Hawaii where the majority of the population is Asian that their standards of beauty in billboards and advertising are also Asian. Maybe that is why Asian men are so scarcely seen in the media here on the white mainland.

Yukio Mishima was a tragic Muscle Mary in my opinion. Talented as he may have been, he just worked too hard being macho to overcompensate for being a natural born sissy - not my cup of tea.

P.S. thanks for the ego stroke.

I, too, have sort of a fetish for Asians, specifically tall, good-looking Japanese Americans. In the little farm town I grew up in we lived on the outskirts where the white trash and Mexican Americans supposedly lived. However, my family was the only white trash family and all our neighbours were Japanese American. To the chagrin of my uptight Über Religious mormon mammy I could understand and speak Japanese rather well by the time I as 10 because, well, all of my playmates were from Japanese American families. So, when it came to the usual mutual adolescent circle jerks at 13 through 16 in barns and haystacks on our farms -- my buddies were all Japanese. My first crush was for a drop-dead gorgeous 15 year-old named Paul Kawa*****. He's still fucking hot at almost 60 years-old. Now that all of my blood relations are dead, Paul's sisters (who also escaped the weirdness of Ewetaw) continue to insist that I'm their "little" brother. They each have a bedroom for me. One in El Lay and another in Manhattan. We really are family. Unfortunately, Paul turned out to be a straight devout mormon who is now surrounded by his non-Japanese wife, non-Japanese-looking daughters, and even more non-Japanese-looking grandaughters. Still, I'd fuck him if given the chance.

I have a similar childhood story, only difference is my fetish is with Italian Americans.

I think it depends upon the girl and the guy. I have found some Asian men attractive but then I have also found some black men and white men attractive as well... I do have asian actors on my list of cinematic eye candy though... Chow Yun Fat, John Lone, Ken Watanabe,Russell Wong just to name a few ...

Wasn't Ken Watanabe in the Last Samurai with Tom Cruise? Now THAT I can get into. Hotness. There is something about Japanese men that makes them more sexually appealing to me than all the other Asian groups. They seem chunkier and certainly are hairier than most.

 

[D_Tintagel_Demondong]

I watch the Amazing Race Asia. Teams - Marc & Rovilson | Bio - Season 2 - The Amazing Race Asia - Exclusively on AXN . Marc and Rovilson are kicking ass. I think they are good looking guys. I wonder what the ladies think.

 

[Ethyl]

He's mine! I saw him first! LOL!

Trade you Russell Wong for John Lone or Ken Watanabe? :tongue: