Is it true that girls find asian guys really attractive?

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I was talking to my friend's gf and that is what she said. atleast her group of friends anyway (they are kind of geeky lol, and what i would call "asian wannabees"). Is that the general consensus? cuz i thought it was the other way around.

I myself am a white male, but i really like asian girls, most beautiful girls in the world IMO. (however nothing is more annoying than geeky white girls trying to be asian girls, they are not even close to being an asian lol)



Never heard of that before... maybe it's the new trendy thing about dating asian guys...

As far as I am concerned, I've never had any issues dating both non-asian girls or boys. Now, although being mostly asian (vietnamese with french and chinese blood) I was raised in France and would rather consider myself as french, which you can hear when I speak english wizz zat horribeule accent.

As a matter of fact, I didn't get to meet a lot of asian people where I grew up and for that reason, most of the boys and girls I dated were white/french. For that reason also I cannot say from what I observed that french people are repelled by asian men and mixed racial asian-french couples are pretty frequent (asian men + french women or asian women + french men).

Now, things changed dramatically when I moved to NYC for work 4 years ago. I never felt as much "rejected" as since I am here. Not to make caricatural, the only men who would hit on me are most of the time older men who want to screw a young asian twink.

If socially and daily-relationship wise, I don't feel any hostility being asian (at least looking, since as soon as I speak I'm immediately unmasked), dating wise it is pretty hectic. White gay males or white straight girls tend to prefer white gay boys (who said Chelsea boys were not shallow?) and white straight males even though exceptions occur sometimes. And asians tend to hook up with... asians.

That led me to consider that the melting pot claimed by the US is rather an illusion. I never observed so many white, asian, black and lationo ghettos than since I'm in the US. People co-exist -or try to- peacefully but don't really mix up...

As a "banana" (white inside yellow outside) as another poster mentioned, and moreover, being a french asian guy in NYC, things tend to get even more complicated...

It's funny because in those events, I happened to get closer with some asian boys and girls. I also dated some of them. And to get to the initial topic, yes some asian boys are very attractive. My preference goes to eurasian mixed which I find the most attractive (girls: Maggie Q, boys: Keanu Reeves).

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I've heard the tale that Asians don't like Blacks. Actually this issue stems from a fear of mixing with anyone outside their own race. Many traditional Asians will not go out of their way to tan. They fear getting darker. *SNIP* However, I've seen some pretty big Asian men. I bet that there are many who could disprove that idea.

I always see ugly white guys with hot asian chicks. :wtf2: Wonder what would possess these women to date or marry someone so beneath themselves in the looks department. Gee, I dunno maybe they love the guy for who he is? :confused::rolleyes: I feel sorry sometimes for the girls because it seems like they have been brainwashed to settle for these losers because of our caucasian-centric cultural ideals have skewed their sense of self-worth. Really?:rolleyes: Did it ever occur to your narrow little mind that perhaps it was the white male who had been brain washed. Many men black and white have been led to believe that all Asian women are docile, demure and easy to control. That's been the word in my hood anyway for decades. :cool:
There seems to be very few Asian guys with hot white chicks. Must be because women are attracted to power and frankly Asian males have no place in a white man's world, :aargh4: Have you been listening to Don Rickles albums or what? How could you make such a statement that Asian men have no power or place in a white mans world? Tell that to Takeo Fukui Asian females on the otherhand, do. Yeah, as pornstars, wives, mothers, and maids. That's not a place I envy. :rolleyes: It certainly is not a place of power.

Just an observation.
:headache: I had to read this post twice hoping I had missed the sarcasm or j/k somewhere. But no this incredibly ignorant opinion is how you really feel. :scared2:

Honestly, girls do like asian guys for thier looks, asians look different from whites, whites look different from blacks, and blacks look different from asians. We do have a specific type of look to us that other races don't have. So some girls like something on us, because they don't see it in any other race.

On a deeper note, is demeanor. I've been raised in the US, so I act like the next white or black guy you'll see walking down the street. However asian males that have grown up in an asian country and have not lived in the USA that long. Do have a completely foreign mind set of how to act around and treat people. So some girls are attracted to Asian guys from asia. I know a few girls that like asian guys, just not the white washed ones like me.
Aww, sorry about that dude. So who do you like?

Girls like that usually aren't attracted to me, no matter how pretty I think I may be. I will admit this, I was born and raised in the USA, so in all seriousness I'm a banana. Yellow on the outside, but white on the inside.
Those girls want a ummmmm (add vegetable metaphor here for something yellow inside and yellow out). Maybe a mango...
 

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I was talking to my friend's gf and that is what she said. atleast her group of friends anyway (they are kind of geeky lol, and what i would call "asian wannabees"). Is that the general consensus? cuz i thought it was the other way around.

I myself am a white male, but i really like asian girls, most beautiful girls in the world IMO. (however nothing is more annoying than geeky white girls trying to be asian girls, they are not even close to being an asian lol)

can you elaborate on how a white girl can immitate being asian? Im just curious.
 

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Lee_M,

I think most gay men are not attracted to Asian men as well so you are certainly not the only one. They are never portrayed in popular culture as something to be desired, let alone a sex symbol. They are almost anti-men in gay culture, the opposite of what is sexually desirable. Perhaps it will change. Not many Asian guys in the Bear or Leather gay communities. The gay culture is divided among sexual attraction and it seems gay Asian men have no real place in gay culture which seems to be almost exclusively by whites for whites. I don't think that sexual attraction is an equal opportunity employer.

There is a subset of gay men called Rice Queens or some derogatory name like that who exclusively date Asian men. Most are older men who have sex with Asian boys. There is always some type of dominant white guy power dynamic in these relationships as I have never seen an interracial Asian/white gay couple who were both about the same age.

I for the most part don't really like thin, small or boney guys and it seems like there are few beefy hairy Asians around. I don't usually find them very sexually attractive or desirable because of that, not sure why but that's how I'm wired. I've only had sex with a couple of hot beefy Asian guys in Japan and two were hairy.

Thank you :kiss:

Watch your mouth, there, onan_mann. Lee M happens to deserve her opinion, and even if you don't respect it, you shouldn't get belligerent.
And for the love of fuck, YOU GROW UP.:mad:

Thank you :kiss:


Actually girls find asian guys attractive, because we have a more respectable demeanor, and ussually have been raised with a different enviroment. Which give us a different personality.

Plus other women just go for real old white guys that have alot of money are are about to die. Ha Ha just opinion and making light hearted statement of what I've heard.

As i said in a previous post i do work with a lot of Asian men, and they are very respectable. Never do i hear them swear, degrade anybody or complain about anything, but as for body type they aren't my taste. I prefer my guys more meaty and solid. Besides if i wanted a rich old man, then id be thinking Asian :wink:
 

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I am bothered by the white ideal that seems so prevalent in Asian culture lately. If you look at the anime, you'll often see a hero with very white features: long legs; big floppy feet; blonde hair; big blue eyes; a pointed jaw; a narrow nose. The white look definitely seems to be highly preferable lately; The most common cosmetic procedure among asian women, known as s'sangkapul in Korea, makes their eyes appear more "western". Shockingly, 40% of Korean women have had this surgery.

As for Asian men, there's another issue. White men commonly have physical features that could be considered to be more masculine, including height, larger feet, a squarer jaw. In 2004 the Malaysian government ordered a Toyota billboard that had Brad Pitt's face to be taken down. They said that it might make the Malaysian men feel self-conscious.

With cosmetic surgery so popular in Japan and Korea, one might think that China is a bastion of tradition in northern asia; With burgeoning incomes and rising capitalist values, mainland China is now being cited as an emerging plastic surgery powerhouse.
 

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I always see ugly white guys with hot asian chicks. Wonder what would possess these women to date or marry someone so beneath themselves in the looks department. I feel sorry sometimes for the girls because it seems like they have been brainwashed to settle for these loosers because of our caucasian-centric cultural ideals have skewed their sense of self worth.

There seems to be very few Asian guys with hot white chicks. Must be because women are attracted to power and frankly Asian males have no place in a white man's world, Asian females on the otherhand, do.

Just an observation.



Earl,

Unfortunately or fortunately , there are services that match up American or European men with Asian women. I know quite a few who for the equivalent of a dowery have gone to South East Asia and come home with a bride. It is simple economics. THese marriages help many of the impoverished families of the women. Many of the men might not find a spouse otherwise here. If they can make it work it really is up to them...

Now back to adding to my stable of Asian Eye Candy! LOL!
 

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cool thread peeps. Having been born in Indonesia to an asian mum and white dad and then growing up in London I can say VERY happpily that women sure as hell seem to like asian guys. And people PLEASE the hung like a 3 yr old bullshit has got to stop.
 

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I am bothered by the white ideal that seems so prevalent in Asian culture lately. If you look at the anime, you'll often see a hero with very white features: long legs; big floppy feet; blonde hair; big blue eyes; a pointed jaw; a narrow nose. The white look definitely seems to be highly preferable lately; The most common cosmetic procedure among asian women, known as s'sangkapul in Korea, makes their eyes appear more "western". Shockingly, 40% of Korean women have had this surgery.

As for Asian men, there's another issue. White men commonly have physical features that could be considered to be more masculine, including height, larger feet, a squarer jaw. In 2004 the Malaysian government ordered a Toyota billboard that had Brad Pitt's face to be taken down. They said that it might make the Malaysian men feel self-conscious.

With cosmetic surgery so popular in Japan and Korea, one might think that China is a bastion of tradition in northern asia; With burgeoning incomes and rising capitalist values, mainland China is now being cited as an emerging plastic surgery powerhouse.


You know, I really hate that too, it makes me really upset. I love natural asian eyes, if i wanted a white girl, i would go for a white girl. I also love their black shiny hair, and it makes me upset that they would dye it to look like a white girl's. Just the results of westernization i guess -_-
 

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Well, this is more revealing than I intended to be, but here's my opinion...
I do not, personally, find Asian men attractive. I looked through all of the pictures posted here and still didn't find one :( However, I don't think it is because of looks. There are many beautiful Asians! I think most Asians are very beautiful. I like men who are very masculine and are usually considered to be a**holes because of their abrasive personalities. I don't like true a**holes, but, rather, men who speak their minds and have very strong opinions who are typically given that label due to misunderstandings. From my experience, Asian men are very courteous, respectful, and tend to be more reserved. This has provided me with a certain mindset, so to speak. Don't get me wrong, if I find a man who has the strong personality that I adore and he just happens to be Asian, then I will probably find him attractive, but it hasn't happened yet.
 

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I've met a few Asian guys who totally destroyed the common images of them! One of my ex-boyfriends was an Asian bodybuilder (how many of THOSE do you see?) I don't know if he used steroids, but he worked out really hard and lifted weights a lot and had huge muscles. He was also very handsome, dressed well, and was really macho and sexy! But yes, his dick was way too small, one of the smallest I've ever seen. But that was not because he was Asian. I broke up with him for another Asian guy who had a very large penis! But the latter was not a bodybuilder, he was skinny but had a lil pot belly (which is cute!), and he was pretty dorky but in a lovable way! And he sooo knew how to pleasure a woman in bed, unlike my Asian bodybuilder. So I've had an Asian-bodybuilder with a small dick, and a giant dicked Asian pot belly! Asians come in ALL physiques!

(By the way, I am a white female. I am not nerdy, I love physical fitness, and I think Asian guys who workout are gorgeous! Even the nerdy Asians can be attractive, because they are always very sweet, thoughtful, and considerate to me. Naturally, I am sexually attracted to any guy whom I think is physically attractive, regardless of color or "image".)
 

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I can only speak for the Chinese community for I was born and raise in China 11 years before coming to Canada.

The diversity between the cultures is immense. For us, our parents have an immensely amount of pressure on us growing up. They believe that we are their biggest and most proud investment, if they raise us well then as they get older, they will be taken cared of.

In China due to the competitive environment, the ONLY measure stick is our grades. Thus even if we are dispatched from that environment, our parents are not, because they were raised the same way.

This results in the typical nerdy, shy and slim Chinese kids. We were not raised to be creative and muscular simply because their parents were not. In our perspective the only way to maintain a relationship is when the male can financially support the female. And how would we get money? or power? We study our asses off and enroll in a good university, graduate with top grades, then get a master and after that, companies will pay millions to hire us. I'm quoting my parents, their friends, my grandparents, their friends and 99% of all Chinese parents everywhere. Education means salvation.

Now people from HongKang is different since they have been "borrowed" by England for 100 years, thus their culture is easier to be accepted here in North America.

I hope that explains the culture differences, however information regarding the penis size. It is true that we have a smaller average penis size but that does not mean all of us are small.

P.S. The reason for the Asian families dislike of Blacks is that the image of them portrait through media is frightening, blame Hollywood. I am not here to give moral standards, I am just here for the disclosure.
 

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I can only speak for the Chinese community for I was born and raise in China 11 years before coming to Canada.

The diversity between the cultures is immense. For us, our parents have an immensely amount of pressure on us growing up. They believe that we are their biggest and most proud investment, if they raise us well then as they get older, they will be taken cared of.

In China due to the competitive environment, the ONLY measure stick is our grades. Thus even if we are dispatched from that environment, our parents are not, because they were raised the same way.

This results in the typical nerdy, shy and slim Chinese kids. We were not raised to be creative and muscular simply because their parents were not. In our perspective the only way to maintain a relationship is when the male can financially support the female. And how would we get money? or power? We study our asses off and enroll in a good university, graduate with top grades, then get a master and after that, companies will pay millions to hire us. I'm quoting my parents, their friends, my grandparents, their friends and 99% of all Chinese parents everywhere. Education means salvation.

Now people from HongKang is different since they have been "borrowed" by England for 100 years, thus their culture is easier to be accepted here in North America.

I hope that explains the culture differences, however information regarding the penis size. It is true that we have a smaller average penis size but that does not mean all of us are small.

P.S. The reason for the Asian families dislike of Blacks is that the image of them portrait through media is frightening, blame Hollywood. I am not here to give moral standards, I am just here for the disclosure.



Thank you for the honest and informative reply.

I have always been curious... are there any or many bodybuilders in China? What do Chinese people think of bodybuilders or muscular men? And are there any differences in the way Chinese people perceive muscles in China, Hong Kong, Macao, Taiwan, Singapore, or any overseas Chinese communities in Asia?

Thank you in advance for any information!
 

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Bodybuilding was like a new invention, it only began in my generation. The popularity of working out just became part of the trend in China. It is mainly influenced by Hollywood movies and the large amount of foreigners in China, our economy is stratospherically increasing (cheap labor).

The Chinese culture still view slim as the standard body type, making it the standard deviation.