Is it True?

[Mister2101]

I am of the belief that most (all?) men are bi-curious. They have thought about sex with a man, and are a little bit turned on by the thought. do you agree with that?

Do you believe that once a man tries sex with another man--sucked a cock; anal penetration; made love---that there's a good chance that their curiosity will grow stronger, and they will seek more bi/gay experiences?

Before my 1st sexual encounter with another man (which was super hot, erotic, and pleasurable); he said to me that once I had felt and tasted another man's cock in my mouth and inside my ass, that I would be "hooked." I think he was right!! Thoughts?

 

[johnny989]

i do think that a lot more men are bi then they would like to admit. curious- well, probably everyone had at least a flash through his head at some point but that doesnt mean they are curious, it just passed their mind...

i am betting on anywhere between 25 and 30 percent to have actually tried something, or would gladly if they had the opportunity, and do or do not admit so.

and those latent bi-curious usually do get hooked, but im guessing that neednt be the case. i for instance was dreaming about tasting dick, and when i told that to m friend, he said he had thought about that too, but that was it. i tried it and liked it, he didnt even bother trying, so...

 

[Hoss]

I am of the belief that most (all?) men are bi-curious. They have thought about sex with a man, and are a little bit turned on by the thought. do you agree with that?

No, I don't agree with this.

Do you believe that once a man tries sex with another man--sucked a cock; anal penetration; made love---that there's a good chance that their curiosity will grow stronger, and they will seek more bi/gay experiences?

Not by a longshot do I believe this.

Before my 1st sexual encounter with another man (which was super hot, erotic, and pleasurable); he said to me that once I had felt and tasted another man's cock in my mouth and inside my ass, that I would be "hooked." I think he was right!! Thoughts?

That was you. Everybody is different.

There are plenty of men who never had any interest in another man for anything sexual and don't even care what the penis on another man looks like or the size.

Some men with mild curiosity of in the heat of a drunken moment might experiment or have an encounter because they can't get a woman (prison, military situations) but I see that as a matter of sexual frustration and release not necessarily being an actual bisexual.

 

[Petrolhead]

there is a good body of psychological research that supports the theory that we are all a little bit bisexual. by that they mean that sexuality is a spectrum and not as fixed as we are usually told.

however, society has long had this taboo about same sex relations and most straight men see it as forbidden fruit. or if they even experiment it will compromise their sense of masculinity.

all very unusual considering most straight men love anal sex - and there's not much difference between the sexes on that score!

 

[CommandoInTheBuff]

Do you believe that once a man tries sex with another man--sucked a cock; anal penetration; made love---that there's a good chance that their curiosity will grow stronger, and they will seek more bi/gay experiences?

Um, nope. I tried that stuff, I love guys but anal (giving or receiving) just doesn't appeal to me, same for sucking cock.

 

[LeftCoast]

I am of the belief that most (all?) men are bi-curious. They have thought about sex with a man, and are a little bit turned on by the thought. do you agree with that?

Do you believe that once a man tries sex with another man--sucked a cock; anal penetration; made love---that there's a good chance that their curiosity will grow stronger, and they will seek more bi/gay experiences?

Before my 1st sexual encounter with another man (which was super hot, erotic, and pleasurable); he said to me that once I had felt and tasted another man's cock in my mouth and inside my ass, that I would be "hooked." I think he was right!! Thoughts?

No, I don't think cock is crack and a man will be hooked just by trying it. Sexuality is a continuum and you just can't generalize like that. If that were the case then we could actually go out a recruit people.

 

[Puffdaddy316]

It depends on the person. The scenario you describe is 100% accurate for me, but not everyone.

 

[malakos]

I also don't agree with the drug-like analogy. But I do think that more people are to some degree bisexual than those who are not at all. And it's true of the other side of bi-curiosity as well. I've found that I am, and several of the homosexual men I know, predominantly attracted to men but still somewhat sexually curious about women.

 

[Chungster]

I am of the belief that most (all?) men are bi-curious. They have thought about sex with a man, and are a little bit turned on by the thought. do you agree with that?

No, I do not think this applies to all men. Some men are genuinely straight, the thought of doing anything sexual with another man may be repulsive. Nothing wrong with either or. To each their own, right? In my case, yes. I am definitely bi-curious.

Do you believe that once a man tries sex with another man--sucked a cock; anal penetration; made love---that there's a good chance that their curiosity will grow stronger, and they will seek more bi/gay experiences?

Not having done anything with another man, I'll be completely honest. At times I've jerked to gay porn, or played with a dildo... to help with my curiosity. After I came, I wouldn't say I felt disgusted with myself, but it felt different after cumming from straight sex/porn. If that makes any sense. I asked myself, am I into men? Or am I just curious about big cocks? Did I feel guilty about getting off to gay porn? Things like that. I know what I'm curious about, I know what turns me on. But the sensation afterwards, is sort of awkward. Long story short, my curiosity has grown stronger over the years. But it may not apply to everyone.

Seeing as how I've never been with another man, I can't relate to the last part of the OPs post. But I can say this, I'm curious to try it. Maybe I'll become hooked, maybe I won't. I worry that after taking a cock, I may not like it. That it might have best stayed just a fantasy. Won't know, until I try though. In any case, I'm prepared to try. If I like it, so be it. If I don't? Same difference.

 

[Mister2101]

I am of the belief that most (all?) men are bi-curious. They have thought about sex with a man, and are a little bit turned on by the thought. do you agree with that?

No, I do not think this applies to all men. Some men are genuinely straight, the thought of doing anything sexual with another man may be repulsive. Nothing wrong with either or. To each their own, right? In my case, yes. I am definitely bi-curious.

Do you believe that once a man tries sex with another man--sucked a cock; anal penetration; made love---that there's a good chance that their curiosity will grow stronger, and they will seek more bi/gay experiences?

Not having done anything with another man, I'll be completely honest. At times I've jerked to gay porn, or played with a dildo... to help with my curiosity. After I came, I wouldn't say I felt disgusted with myself, but it felt different after cumming from straight sex/porn. If that makes any sense. I asked myself, am I into men? Or am I just curious about big cocks? Did I feel guilty about getting off to gay porn? Things like that. I know what I'm curious about, I know what turns me on. But the sensation afterwards, is sort of awkward. Long story short, my curiosity has grown stronger over the years. But it may not apply to everyone.

Seeing as how I've never been with another man, I can't relate to the last part of the OPs post. But I can say this, I'm curious to try it. Maybe I'll become hooked, maybe I won't. I worry that after taking a cock, I may not like it. That it might have best stayed just a fantasy. Won't know, until I try though. In any case, I'm prepared to try. If I like it, so be it. If I don't? Same difference.

Thx for the response. At first I felt very much as you do--almost disgusted with myself for indulging in my curiosity and desire. But there was no denying that I enjoyed it. I was also completely "surprised" how natural touching another man, sucking his cock, or being penetrated anally felt--very very natural. I remember one of the first times I was in a nice 69--it was very natural...almost peaceful. I just laid there on my side with my head resting on his thigh and just sucked his cock for almost an hour. Beautiful. Obviously, I'm over feeling disgusted!!

And the pure pleasure of gay sex can be almost overwhelming. Another man just knows your male body and knows how to make love to you--at least that is how I feel. The orgasms are soooooooo good. Hope you have a good experience your first time my friend. Find a man who will take his time and go slow. Relax and enjoy. peace.

 

[Mister2101]

Um, nope. I tried that stuff, I love guys but anal (giving or receiving) just doesn't appeal to me, same for sucking cock.

Hey--not sure i understand. No anal; no oral....but you love men? Maybe I'm confused--what do you like? Jerking off together? dick to dick? Just trying to understand. peace.

 

[Jetsfan4life90]

Look I love playing with guys but I could never give women up. The soft touch and femininity can't be matched..

 

[AlexDB9]

I used to think that all men wanted other men and that gay guys were the ones who acted on it. I have since revised my position. I've done considerable informal research on the subject and have come to this conclusion: straight guys have NO desire to have sex with another man. Anyone who does is a little slide down the Kinsey scale. Everyone isn't like me.

 

[nickntime]

I'm clearly bi and have been bi even though I didn't know it until the last year. I've never had a real life experience, but there's not question the thought of playing with a man turns me on. I think there are a lot more men like me than will admit. I definitely prefer women over men, but that doesn't mean I don't get excited by men. I might never actually fulfill my fantasies, but that doesn't mean I'm not bi.

And that's what I think the trick is here. There are so many "straight" guys who would always choose a woman over a man that they don't realize that they want men too. I love women. I like men.

 

[malakos]

I am of the belief that most (all?) men are bi-curious. They have thought about sex with a man, and are a little bit turned on by the thought.

Why is bicuriosity almost always spoken of in terms of those who are predominantly heterosexual, but have some curiosity about the same sex, as if the mirror (predominantly homosexual but curious about the opposite sex) does not even exist?

[EDIT]: Maybe this is worth just making a whole other thread about.

 

[Mister2101]

I used to think that all men wanted other men and that gay guys were the ones who acted on it. I have since revised my position. I've done considerable informal research on the subject and have come to this conclusion: straight guys have NO desire to have sex with another man. Anyone who does is a little slide down the Kinsey scale. Everyone isn't like me.

I don't think all men "want other men" but I do think many / most are curious about gay sex, but will never admit it. They don't want anyone to know they have thought about touching / tasting dick and ass.

I think if you took a straight guy, put him in a room by himself and showed a really hot gay porn movie--that guy, believing that he was alone and no one could see or hear him, would get hard and eventually stroke himself. He'd be turned on.

Take the same straight guy, put him in a room with a gay guy (the straight guy knowing no one else can see or hear him), and let the gay guy suck his balls and cock and rim the guy for 30 minutes--that straight guy will get hard and enjoy himself. He may even want to suck the gay guy's dick after that same 30 minutes if given the chance.

I understand that some straight guys don't want anything to do with gay sex--and that's cool. But for many of those guys, they just refuse to even think about it or consider it because of the existing social norms, moral or "stigma" associated with being gay. That;'s fine, but are they really being honest with themselves??? --because the truth is, if they felt they could try it without anyone knowing about it--they would really like to experience it. Then there are those who are straight and just enjoy the pussy--which is also cool. Nothing wrong with pussy either! Peace.

 

[Emerald_Forest]

Why is bicuriosity almost always spoken of in terms of those who are predominantly heterosexual, but have some curiosity about the same sex, as if the mirror (predominantly homosexual but curious about the opposite sex) does not even exist?

[EDIT]: Maybe this is worth just making a whole other thread about.

Of course the other direction exist as well, but since the majority isn't homosexual, the women to men direction turns up more often. I, myself, belong to the category that traverses the ferry back to the female shore.

 

[CommandoInTheBuff]

Hey--not sure i understand. No anal; no oral....but you love men? Maybe I'm confused--what do you like? Jerking off together? dick to dick? Just trying to understand. peace.

Yeah, I guess I prefer jerking off and dick to dick, but we don't even have to do that. My feelings of love and sex drive are weird even to me.
I think I'm just attracted to good looking people, male or female, and want to get to know more about them, not necessarily put my dick in them.

 

[Mister2101]

Yeah, I guess I prefer jerking off and dick to dick, but we don't even have to do that. My feelings of love and sex drive are weird even to me.
I think I'm just attracted to good looking people, male or female, and want to get to know more about them, not necessarily put my dick in them.

Hey it's all good!! By the way, love your pictures! you have a beautiful, sexy dick! makes me hard thinking about feeling you against my dick (or in my mouth!!) Peace.

 

[johnweek1]

I haven't done research into the matter as I don't care enough to, but I do wonder if there is a level of curiosity that both genders have regarding each other and same sex experiences. It was easy to do the whole "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" thing and this happened with me on numerous occasions with both me suggesting it, or be being asked.

I am not entirely sure if I would classify this as bi curious, or just curiosity towards our anatomy. I suspect women have easily had this similar experience among themselves as well.

To me, bi curious doesn't just mean doing something sexual with with the same gender, but to be outright sexually aroused by it, and to sexually crave it as well.