Is it unmanly to moan when getting blowed

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I love it when a guy is vocal!!! I tend to moan when I am giving a bj.
I like to know that what I am doing to you is feeling good!

That's hot. I love knowing that my partner loves what they are doing. I moan when I go down on a girl, letting them know just how yummy they are.
 

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Basically, a man is "programmed" from childhood to keep his guard up and never look weak or vulnerable. And when you think about it, a man is most vulnerable when he's naked with a hard-on and about to shoot his load.

So when a guy is getting a good blow job, but he's not moaning or squirming about it, then he's just protecting his rep and proving that he's in total control of the situation and his emotions-- that is, no matter how good it feels and how bad he wants to squeal about it!

I've watched a lot amateur military vids with str8/bi guys getting jerked and sucked off. Most of them hardly ever flinch. They compare moaning and squirming to what women do during sex and they don't want to appear feminine-- especially if there's another guy in the room.

Personally, I love loud sex-- with women or men. In fact, there's nothing better than breaking a guy down; making him weak and feeling so good to the point that, at orgasm, he doesn't even care about his rep anymore. He's just an emotional heap and panty waste. A beautiful thing to behold.

Know this one thing: At the moment of orgasm and ectasy, when a real man lets his guard down to moan, squeal or squirm, that means that he's comfortable with you and totally trusts you enough to let you see him in that position. It's a golden moment.
 
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I couldn't agree more with ramwella -- A guy, much like me, is all about keeping up his guard, particularly when he feels he's "vulnerable" or "exposed," and there's no time quite like a KICKASS blowjob that a man is at his weakest, most vulnerable and exposed. A man surrendering to passion when he's not in control (for example, "on top") feels VERY vulnerable... so I definitely get that.
 

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Some people are just quiet - not sure why. I've never been with a completely quiet woman, but I have noticed stark differences in the amount noise in a couple of them from porn style screamer to low volume whimpers.

I've never been much of a noise maker myself. I'm not completely quiet, but the most I've ever given was the occasional deep sigh or low gruttal moan. But now I've gotten more vocal in my verbal appreciation of sexual pleasure. But we're all different for many reasons. That's my only point.

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When fucking im usually quiet..when getting a really deep bj ..I moan cause it feels so f in good..who cares?
 

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I probably moan too much and too loud, but how else are you going to know how GREAT it feels and what pleasure I am receiving. If a man doesn't moan some during a blow job, something is bad wrong. Better check for a pulse!!!!