Is it weird that i have 0% desire to be sucked or to fuck?

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Is it weird that i have 0% desire to be sucked or to fuck? Just seems that most people are at least vers in being sucked but i dont even like that. Only interests are sucking and btm position. Anyone else met someone similar?
 

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I have plenty of friends who feel like you do. Some people like many different things equally, others like many things but have a strong preference for a few, and others only like a handful of things. It's totally normal.
 

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I don't know that it's "weird", but it's definitely unfortunate, especially after you've taunted us with such a nice cock in your pics. :tongue:

Different people don't like different things for different reasons. I'm similar to you. I "like" getting head, but I LOVE giving it. Having me give head, is the easiest way to get me hard. I have about a 0.5% interest in topping, and of those I'm interested in, aside from having spectacular asses, are total tops that have no interest in bottoming.
 

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Don't feel weird about at all! We can't help what we like and so long as what you like isn't hurting anyone else then don't worry about it. Whenever i'm feeling some way about something i always like to remind myself that i am definitely not the only human being on the planet feeling that way. Don't worry, be happy!
 

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Is it weird that i have 0% desire to be sucked or to fuck? Just seems that most people are at least vers in being sucked but i dont even like that. Only interests are sucking and btm position. Anyone else met someone similar?

Over the years after a couple serious relationships and with several casual fbuddies - have become at ease with myself to really enjoy being a btm and times that I enjoy giving the suck. There have been special situations along with rare instances that I want to be the top and to be sucked off - not recently.
 

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Is it weird that i have 0% desire to be sucked or to fuck? Just seems that most people are at least vers in being sucked but i dont even like that. Only interests are sucking and btm position. Anyone else met someone similar?

I think only narrow minded people use 'weird'.
It's unusual but I have met a few guys who have the same preference.
The most memorable was a good looking, fit, young guy who has a dick as big as mine and he is/was a total bottom.
 

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Is it weird that i have 0% desire to be sucked or to fuck? Just seems that most people are at least vers in being sucked but i dont even like that. Only interests are sucking and btm position. Anyone else met someone similar?

I'm the same way, ZERO interest in getting sucked, stroked, or topping...even if a guy tells me he wants to "just see my cock", I immediately get turned off. He might as well as being telling me he's really a woman. For some reason, I just don't view a guy as being "a dominant man" if he shows any interest in my cock. I guess it's because I associate his cock with his pleasure...and I associate my passive/sub role with pleasuring him. So, if he's showing interest in my cock in any way, it's like he's telling me that HE wants to be the passive sub, and that obviously doesn't work for me.
 

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Of course no! if you sexual desire is ugual to zero in this moment it doesn't mean that he will be always the some. Maybe you have so much business to thing sex now
 

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Not off the bat no. You like what you like. Unless of course its because of some serious underlining brain/emotional reason that could manifest itself into you doing harm to yourself, someone else or an innocent unsuspecting park bench.
 

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well personally i think it's a little weird but thats cuz i like to be more dominating so i cant relate to the feeling of wanting to give more than receive. but we're all different, some people are doms & some people (like you) are subs (although since youre gay i guess it would be tops/bottoms).
 

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I'd just chime in that it's not "weird," but evidenced by your asking strangers on a message board, it seems to bother you some or concern you. You might think about working either on accepting who you are and what you like as normal "for you" (because that's really all that matters), or maybe you are wanting someone to urge you to loosen up and try something new. I sort of got a sense you were a little bored with what you have done, but maybe I'm wrong.

I think the most important part of your question may be asking yourself "Do I need other people's approval of what I do or do not like sexually in order to feel good about myself?" If the answer to that is "yes," then you might want to explore that issue. Otherwise, no worries.