Is it weird that i somtimes watch or look at gay porn?

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im not turned on by it though, but just admiring i guess. its a way to compare without doing it in person. its discreet but does make me wonder does that make me bi? does anyone else do this? (irony of asking on a penis website)
 

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I look at gay porn almost exclusively.... but my relationships are only with women.... I thought maybe I was gay but I tried dating a guy and it was a disaster because I realized I wasn't really attracted to him.... don't worry about labels.
 

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i think sometimes i like seeing guys who are in shape or big because i aspire to be that. i wonder how do i get that attractive for the girls. but while i look at the pics or videos my penis is flaccid so it does nothing for me. but i know most straight guys out there in the world would be like "what are you gay? why are you looking at that stuff?" although i dont care cause i know what i like and what i dont like. i would def be embarrassed if someone saw my browser history haha. and i def think a girl would dump me if she saw what i sometimes look at. im insecure about it, and everything else for that matter. which might explain why i look in the first place. thats for the comments though very helpful.
 
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Perhaps you are not as straight as you think you are. Can't imagine watching two guys going at it, and I'm enjoying it. Just saying....
 

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I don't watch any live action male-male scenes. I personally find them unappealing and it turns me off.

I have watched some animated male-male scenes, but all the ones I've enjoyed at least one of the characters is dressed female (not futanari scenes, which I watch as well, but characters that are anatomically male but one is dressed female).

I've also watched some solo scenes (guy jacking off).

For pretty much all the "gay" porn I've watched, the attraction isn't directly for the guy, but instead, for being the guy. So I might fantasize about having a bigger cock or being a heavy cummer and the video is a visual aid.

I'm not getting turned on by the thought of doing things to the guy, nor thoughts of having things done to me by the guy, but instead on what it would be like to be that guy.

I have the same fantasies about the women in female scenes (that's not the only thing I fantasize about, but imagining being someone else in various situations can be fun fantasy fuel).
 

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I have a straight high school friend, we are still in touch semi regularly, he addmitted to me that all the porn he watches is either bi or gay. He says he does not want a gay relationship, he has experimented a little bit, and certainly identifies as straight, is married and has regular sex with wife etc. I found it odd at first, now just accept it as part of the whole spectrum of sexuality thing...there are no neat little boxes.
 

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I watch gay and bi porn regularly and for me the most enchanting aspect of it is the sensuality that is shown on screen. I do't feel the need to care about gender in this instance- all I see is the chemistry between them. And I extend this sentiment towards the non-vanilla aspects of gay porn too.
 

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My best bud is very straight, but is turned on by showing off his cock. Recently we realized he is turned on by other big dicks, which gives him a raging hard. At first he and I were confused. He loved to show off to me, but we both knew he was straight and didn't want sex with a man (he does occasionally allow a blow job, but always feels terrible afterward for months). While looking at some tumblrs I was showing him about big dicks, he was amazed how turned on he was, looking for someone his size (rarely found). He has told me it is very confusing to him, but he was still turned on. Human sexuality is beyond simple labels. For those who wonder, he is very turned on by showing his cock to gals, too and defiantly identifies as straight. Who knows? Arrogance? Don't think so. Exhibitionist? Definitely. Appreciates other big dicks. Yep. Straight? He thinks so, and really he is the only one that gets to decide.
 

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I have a high school friend who is straight, married, one child. We did fool around briefly in our 20s on one occasion, his only "gay" experience, according to him. He told me that he pretty much watches bi and gay porn on a regular basis. Another great friend has sort of tuned into some MMF bi porn, thanks to me....He too is totally straight in my opinon. So NO, I do not think its odd. Sexuality does not conform to neat little boxes waiting for perfect checkmarks. Enjoy the gay porn, enjoy the real pussy, try some cock...whatever makes you happy and motivates you.