is it wrong to ask a partner to sign a prenup?

[D_Etienne Neerdowell]

Marriage is meant to be the crowning glory of a romantic personal relationship whereas a pre-nup is, to me, a cynical legal agreement which is about as romantic as eating a raw lemon.

I think in normal typical relationships the need for a pre-nup is non existent; however I can understand why a wealthy person who's been around the block a few times would look to protect their largesse.

In short I think if your thinking along the lines of asking your partner to sign a pre-nup then you're unsure that the relationship will last. It's almost as if your expecting the worst to happen.

 

[petite]

yep.... thats why i added the part about women getting fucked over to, cause i feel you're weaker and need examples to prove a point...... that s called sarcasm btw

Well, that's when I noticed that you seemed to think it was necessary to point out that women can be screwed over during divorce, too, that made me think that this has something to do with the fact that I'm female.

and i agreed, preenups ARE perfect, in a pointless system that has no place in society, you ignored that or didn't understand how i was agreeing with you. either way you hit the nail on the head with a handful of words instead of a sack. marriage is pointless, love has nothing to do with THINGS so just fuck till it gets old, then ask "you gonna pack your shit or am i gonna pack mine?" and with cd's becoming obsolete even the record collection isn't a problem anymore.... we're getting there....one day at a time :tongue:

I'm not sure that we agree. I hate to disappoint, but check out my signature. I'm head over heels in love, and we don't have a prenup, but then, he knows me well and believes I'm trustworthy, so he doesn't feel like he needs one.

 

[Mal_the_Wolf]

Marriage is meant to be the crowning glory of a romantic personal relationship whereas a pre-nup is, to me, a cynical legal agreement which is about as romantic as eating a raw lemon.

I think in normal typical relationships the need for a pre-nup is non existent; however

In short I think if your thinking along the lines of asking your partner to sign a pre-nup then you're unsure that the relationship will last. It's almost as if your expecting the worst to happen.

the trail of tears was MEANT to be an act of charity of the gift of civilization to the savage red man, but just like most marriages it didn't go so well. now you can take that 1000 bucks at the end of the month and give to your ex cause you worked hard to make them comfortable in that house built of the redmans land, or you can keep it and go lose it in one of their FINE casinos or anything else you want cause its yours. "should" and a nickle will get you a cup of coffee anywhere.

news flash, 51% (thats most) end in divorce, I know you're mom told you you're special... but just like that bitch who said she'd love you forever... she lied!

a pre nup isn't expecting the worst, its hoping for the best, planning for the worst and being prepared for anything

 

[Mal_the_Wolf]

I hate to disappoint, but check out my signature. I'm head over heels in love, and we don't have a prenup, but then, he knows me well and believes I'm trustworthy, so he doesn't feel like he needs one.

i had one to..... 6 years. no one knows you, no one knows whats going through your head or how you'll react to it. love by definition is insanity, words like trust believe love feel those are all words written on smoke. at the end of they day, everything comes down to that role of the dice. I am happy you're happy cause nobody deserves to feel THAT and hope it lasts forever like johnny and june. don't challenge fate girl it hits hard,

 

[petite]

i had one to..... 6 years. no one knows you, no one knows whats going through your head or how you'll react to it. love by definition is insanity, words like trust believe love feel those are all words written on smoke. at the end of they day, everything comes down to that role of the dice. I am happy you're happy cause nobody deserves to feel THAT and hope it lasts forever like johnny and june. don't challenge fate girl it hits hard,

I don't plan on challenging fate and this isn't my first time around the block. Never been married before, I turned down all proposals, but I'm sure this time. This is it.

 

[Mal_the_Wolf]

I don't plan on challenging fate and this isn't my first time around the block. Never been married before, I turned down all proposals, but I'm sure this time. This is it.

since the week you joined I liked you ever since, bitchy or not, and I hope you stay where you are and as happy as you can be. cause i dunno if heaven exists, but i can say for certain, hell is a 19 rooms in a house you bought for her to be alone in with nothing but ghosts. as far as that goes, littlebit, the best prenup in the world can't get you back a heart

 

[petite]

since the week you joined I liked you ever since, bitchy or not, and I hope you stay where you are and as happy as you can be. cause i dunno if heaven exists, but i can say for certain, hell is a 19 rooms in a house you bought for her to be alone in with nothing but ghosts. as far as that goes, littlebit, the best prenup in the world can't get you back a heart

:kiss: Aw! That was sweet.

 

[StrictlyAvg]

Marriage is meant to be the crowning glory of a romantic personal relationship whereas a pre-nup is, to me, a cynical legal agreement which is about as romantic as eating a raw lemon.

That rather depends on whether you view state or religious approval of your relationship as "the crowning glory" thereof... Or perhaps it too is a "cynical legal agreement" that's had enough good PR and some decent tax and legal incentives to encourage us to do it, such that it's no longer viewed that way by many.

Over the short period we've been marrying, maybe a few thousand years of the couple of million we've been around, only VERY recently and in western society has marriage ever been romanticised as "the crowning glory of a romantic personal relationship".

 

[Mal_the_Wolf]

:rolleyes2:

:kiss: Aw! That was sweet.

the part about me losing the love of my life or when i shut down and crawled into a bottle of whiskey and whores for 9 months or how i didn't have to but I let her keep the car ?:rolleyes2:

don't call me sweet, only thing I do thats sweet is play frogger on my playstation

 

[petite]

:rolleyes2:

the part about me losing the love of my life or when i shut down and crawled into a bottle of whiskey and whores for 9 months or how i didn't have to but I let her keep the car ?:rolleyes2:

don't call me sweet, only thing I do thats sweet is play frogger on my playstation

The part where you said that you've always liked me and you wanted me to be happy.

You're stubborn, too. Is that better?

 

[D_Tinker Ball]

Unless you intend to use your large penis to force her to sign the prenup, I don't understand why this is posted in the "Sex with a large penis" forum.

[But you got me wondering.]

 

[Mal_the_Wolf]

The part where you said that you've always liked me and you wanted me to be happy.

You're stubborn, too. Is that better?

normally I'd thrown in how clinically I'm a genius, I'm better looking than who ever and have a bigger dick but my grammar is worse than Einstein's most of the people are gay here and 8 inches may split sidewalks in the real world but it barely tills the soil here so stubborn will have to do

 

[Mal_the_Wolf]

Unless you intend to use your large penis to force her to sign the prenup, I don't understand why this is posted in the "Sex with a large penis" forum.

[But you got me wondering.]

dude, shut up

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

is it?

No, it isn't.
For me, signing one would not mean anything more than an insurance policy protecting our futures, should the relationship not last or end on bad terms. I'm not vindictive and either is he, but whose to say that two or twenty years down the road we would have the same caring mindset. :shrug:

 

[petite]

Unless you intend to use your large penis to force her to sign the prenup, I don't understand why this is posted in the "Sex with a large penis" forum.

[But you got me wondering.]

LOL! Yeah, now I'm wondering whether a large penis is going to factor heavily in the prenup.

I think it belongs in Relationships. I can't complain, I've accidentally added a thread to the wrong forum.

normally I'd thrown in how clinically I'm a genius, I'm better looking than who ever and have a bigger dick but my grammar is worse than Einstein's most of the people are gay here and 8 inches may split sidewalks in the real world but it barely tills the soil here so stubborn will have to do

Modesty looks good on you.

 

[Mal_the_Wolf]

No, it isn't.
For me, signing one would not mean anything more than an insurance policy protecting our futures, should the relationship not last or end on bad terms. I'm not vindictive and either is he, but whose to say that two or twenty years down the road we would have the same caring mindset. :shrug:

you seein anybody?

 

[D_Tinker Ball]

dude, shut up

Sure do!
I better shut up than sign a prenup, and put down that large penis of yours.

 

[Mal_the_Wolf]

Modesty looks good on you.

actually a cafe cut leather racing jacket looks better

 

[Mal_the_Wolf]

Sure do!
I better shut up than sign a prenup, and put down that large penis of yours.

thats some oscar wylde shit right there my friend. I'm gonna bow out while i still can on this one

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

you seein anybody?

Yes, but don't let that stop you. :wink: