I have been in a relationship for 15 years and from day one I have always looked. I am very open about it, I never hide it. Tonight we were out having some fun when I spotted this hot guy. I openly looked over at my husband and pointed him out. He was totally my type. I could not stop checking him out. My eyes finally found his crotch and low and behold he was packing. After seeing that I was done for. Spent the rest of our time watching him and not being able to focus on what I was doing. The people we were with started to give me shit about being so open about my fantasies, My husband never seems to care, He is not the jealous type and knows I would never cheat....I did admit to him that if the guy was my "Perfect" fantasy I might consider it. He laughed and said as long as he could watch. Anyway, She was telling me how rude it was of me to openly stare and not be shy about it around my man. I told her this is how I have always been and if it truely bothered him he would tell me and I would stop. (Well, stop making it so obvious of course) Got to thinking she might be right so we talked on the way home and he assured me as long as I came home to him everynight and took it out on him he would be ok with it and the only one he has a problem with is my ex. What is your opinions. Would you have a problem with your "Other" looking around? Not only that but being open about it. My feeling is this, It is when you start to hide it then there is something to worry about. BTW, He was in a group of 3 couples, He was the only single one there. He had this huge belt buckle on that drew attention to his package. I went outside when he was out having a cig and commented on it, He was kind enough to pull up his shirt and show me his.....Funny I cannot remember what the buckle was I just remember his bulge and his grey boxer briefs.