Is jerking off with a friend (heterosexual) a American thing?

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  1. hottentotten2006

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    Hello Guys,

    I was wondering is jerking off watching porno with a friend (or more) a American Thing?
    According to you and the stuff i've read on this site it occurs far more than here in Holland. In Holland it is a taboo and i can say that the youth and the elderly here don't not talk about such things. Especially heterosexual friends. For instance if you have the guts to say something about it you are called gay and your friendship is taking another ride..
    Personally i don't think it is gay i think it is just great. But how come? I don't know if you know this but here in Holland we sometime think that the USA is a little bit conservative especially items regarding porno or sexuality. Therefore i don't understand why it is more common there than it is here..

    Greetings!
     
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    just think about the population difference, and then you will have your answer as to why you hear about it less in Holland than USA - well I expect that would be the main reason
     
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    Sexually I think we are WAY more conservative. Everyone is frightened to talk about it with each other. Things they would say on a forum would NEVER be done or talked about in the real world. I made a roommate uncomfortable just not wearing a shirt when we lived together......ya i know weird? I spent 10 days in Paris and had more sexual conversations then as compared to the rest of my life.
     
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    Hmm oke. But are you both gay oriented?

    I get the idea that there are also a lot of pure heterosexuals jerking off together. Here it is not even cool to discuss/talk about it. And i have not any homofobic friends or something like that.

    The only thing i experienced was years ago. I was 10 years old probably, there was somebody for a sleepover and we watch porn together for a few minutes then my mam said we had to go to sleep... Nothing more..
     
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    Yes, to stereotype just for just a second, but I just assumed that most European boys would be far more likely to try jerking off with a friend than in the United States. I don't know, I'm Canadian, and am not really equipped to accurately judge either Europe or the United States. I do remember jerking off a few times with other guys right after puberty came knocking and hormones were flaring, and long before I realized I was gay. Friends jerking off with other friend's certainly happened, but it was more likely to happen before entering into a sexual relationship with the opposite sex. It was certainly never discussed openly, it just happened.
     
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    i've never heard of this in the UK! lol! I think we are generally more prudish...:tongue:
     
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    I thing were just more blunt bout those kinds of things we just say the first things that pop on our minds I know when I am around my friends we talk bout anything and I hang around straight guys so they can sometimes talk real dirty
     
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    maybe we should make a poll...
     
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    I've never wanked with a friend, but we do talk about wanking, sex etc and I even walk around naked in front of them.
    From what I've read it seems like American guys experiment more than us Brits
     
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    I don't know, I'm mostly straight and have jerked off with my best friend a bunch of times and I'm from the U.S. But it started off with talking about sex, jerking off etc.
     
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    Yeah. Me and my friend started off talking about sex, what we like about girls,what we would do to them, then it went to stuff about our cocks and what kinds of activities we would do, like 2 males 1 female etc. Then we just got horny and sat back looking at some porn. I we started rubbing our pants and eventually we pulled our dicks out. After a little bit of jerking we jerked eachother off and then got naked and kept doing it. It's kinda fun, and I really don't call it gay. Some women do the same stuff with their friends and they get let off the hook? Why? It's all the same, male or female. lol

    It was awkward kind of when we did it, but it got better as we loosened up and it became a bit amazing. :)

    I don't know why but this being taboo in Holland strikes me as odd.
     
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    I think its the same everywhere. Some do it, some dont. I myself have, and know others that have too but I find it weird that you think its less common on Holland than America because I think of Holland as the sexual capitol of the world whereas America is supposed to be rather more quiet about sex...
     
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    At least with my friends (and I have lived in 9 other states during my adult life), it starts with being at least a little drunk. If you live with other guy or are staying together, then you think well I watch some porn then go to bed and do it. But after watching for a while and rubbing your cock through your underwear, you think fuck it, I want to do while watching this porn. You can ask the other guy, or at least tell if he's doing it also. Then after the first couple of times it's no a big deal. I have to block out the other dude or I will lose my wood. But with good porn on a big screen right in front of you it's not that hard to do.
     
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    you bet ya i will masterbate when ever i feel like it , i can do it about 5 times a day any i have done it in grocery stores airports and buses so it doesn't matter just have fun, no women will ever do better as for the feeling they can't match it, i love to do it........
     
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    On the contrary, Americans are sexually repressed, especially among the younger generation. While we are critized for being liberal in what is deemed acceptable in movies, media, and fashon, over what has been published and marketed over the last, say, 50 years; on the individual level it has been endoctrinated in the youth that nudity is related to sex, making it "wrong." Some though are finally breaking this shell by engaing in such activities.

    Although I personally have never been in many situations where I have to be naked in a locker room, jack off with a friend or even talk about sexually related topics in a group environment; it's not because I am afraid, in fact i would welcome such senarios, but rather never had the opportunity.

    I am a very liberal minded individual when it comes to what I feel can be topics of conversation, especially between friends, and even more so when they are both male; but even with that mind set, I only trust in one of my friends to talk about sexuality and topics at a personal level, so in a way the previous generation was able to instill some of that reservedness
     
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    on a group holiday a year or so ago shared room with 2 young american guys. was
     
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    No way! :eek: Really? To hear the guys on this site tell it all you Brits go away to your fancy boarding schools and all sorts of sexual experimentation things take place in the dorms.

    As for the question in the OP, I think it's primarily a gay and bi-guy thing. I don't know any 100% straight men in real life that have done that stuff.:cool:
     
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    Hahahah, it's tabboo in the hood too. I'm really not trying to inject race here, but I doubt circlejerks ( appropriate name i guess ) are as common among black males.
     
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    Yep, it's true. Some straight men do stroke in each other's company AS LONG AS there is a female subject (a) on the screen, or (b) being discussed. I know 8 people who have done this.
     
  20. Principessa

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    Yeah, but you're in California. You people are weird, :tongue: you put alfalfa sprouts on hamburgers and fish in tacos! :yikes:
     
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