Is jerking off with another guy gay?

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I'm arranging to do it on here at the moment. I'm really just a curious guy with no experience, just always willing to try things. I really like the idea of watching another guy jerk off and jerking with him. I guess I'm not against the idea of trying other things.
 
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not gay at all in my book. JO with another guy is one of the best bonding experiences between two men. for me its only about the physical and there is no emotional or romantic aspect. i've done this many times, starting in college, and its super hot with the right guy.

so go have some fun and explore!!
 

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Forget the labels and Enjoy....
It is a great way to bond with other guys...

If you go any further, then maybe you are BI and just discovering it...but I think most people already know what turns them on probably at an earlier age than you are at present...

If you become involved emotionally or romantically...then you probably are gay unless you can feel the same with the opposite sex...then you are probably BI.
For me...the latter is an awesome way to be.....:biggrin:

But I say for now.....forget all that and have fun...:yup:
 

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I don't get these thread. I mean, yeah, you can say that there's no emotion or romance towards the dude just the physical, but dudes sleep with women all the time without the intentions of romance (hell,the woman is lucky if he even knows her last name). So, what does that say? We could get into internalized homophobia and dudes bragging to their buddies about the chicks they bang but not the dudes they jack-off with out of fear of judgment, but we won't even go there.

The point that I'm trying to make is that the act itself is gay, but that doesn't mean that you're gay. Explore and discover who you are and what you enjoy, dude. Guys are fun.
 
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If u need an exact label definition,,,,probably.
But who cares. If u want to then just do it. Words are words. They try to explain the human emotion but obv it's not
That easy.
By definition. Bi/gay to answer the question.
But if u have a chance at anything new and turn it down then what r u doing to your life?
 
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If you're jerking with a guy
and the other guy is gay,
you're jerking with a gay guy
in a happy kind of way,

Now we're in the present
the here and now today,
when your feeling happy
it can be considered kinda Gay.
 
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I don't think it should matter at all if it is gay or not. Sex between two men is gay. Jacking off together... a little more gray. Forget about the labelling. It is male sexuality. And lots of fun too. And if it leads to something more... more exploration.... congrats!
Have fun and be safe!
- Steven
 

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The point that I'm trying to make is that the act itself is gay, but that doesn't mean that you're gay. Explore and discover who you are and what you enjoy, dude. Guys are fun.

Precisely.

Yes, sexual activity with another man is gay. There is absolutely nothing bad about that (in fact, as I can well attest, it's pretty awesome). No, it doesn't make you gay. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay, regardless of whether or not you are (again, as I can attest, being gay is pretty awesome). There's nothing wrong with being straight - or somewhere between straight and gay - and sexually exploring with guys, either. So go ahead and fool around with another guy.
 
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I'm going to give you an honest answer, so be ready.

There is no correct answer to this. Some people will say, "Yes. The desiree to see another man without a shirt makes you 100% homosexual. To see a man naked, you might as well start crossdressing."

Other people will say,

"Hell no! That doesn't make you gay! I have bareback sex with this guy at my gym every week, sometimes I like him cum on my face, but that's not gay because I say it's not gay."

Some will say it's just that you're curious, some will say it's bonding, you'll be driven in different directions.

Personally, I think just masturbating is more of a... bonding thing. Masturbating eachother is a little different, but what do I know?

I will say this, my best friend and I have been masturbating eachother for the bast 5 or 6 years, and it's been the most fun we've had. I would highly recommend it.
 
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Drop the whole "bonding" crap already.

If you are engaging in sexual activity with someone of the same sex, then by definition it's homosexual.

And since mutual masturbation is done with someone else, hence the "mutual", then your answer is cut and dried based on the sexes of those involved.