Is larger always better?

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Generally, when asked about size, women and oral/anal bottoms fall into one of two camps: Larger is better, or, larger hurts or doesn't fit.

Personally, I wasn't a size fan until I learned to relax and accommodate. Now, sex with someone smaller than myself doesn't even interest me. Are there folks on the receiving end who have learned to take huge things but find greater pleasure in a less well endowed lover, even if discomfort isn't the issue?
 

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I honestly am rarely concerned with size. I love cock, the way it feels, taste, throbs, grows, etc... What I love about bigger cocks is testing and improving my deepthroat skills. What I love about average and below is when they cum, its all in my mouth. I get to savor it.
 
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Interesting. 127 views and only two responses supports an LPSG consensus view that larger *is* better.
 
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Interesting. 127 views and only two responses supports an LPSG consensus view that larger *is* better.
I'm hung like a chipmunk and can attest personally to the fact that there are certainly a goodly number of women who think larger is better, and many of them that it's always better. But my looks and personality have helped me score with a lot of women and I can also personally attest that it's not the case for all women. For some (lucky) reason, a lot of women go nuts over me.

Language is funny. Words sometimes have different meanings to different people under different circumstances. For instance, what do we mean by "larger is better"? Does "better" mean simply preferable? On a scale of 1 to 1, a 9 or 10? Or is it a zero-sum choice? 0 or 10? If the first, okay, more women might say larger cocks are preferable, but it's not a killer issue and easily outweighed by other considerations, like looks or personality. If the latter, probably a lot fewer women would say that size is the sole criteria for selecting a man, and those that do often end up years later wondering, looking over the kitchen table at the slob slurping his corn flakes or scratching his butt, why they hooked up with the SOB in the first place.

A question could be asked: "Okay, Wise Guy, if larger isn't better, how many women say smaller is better?" True, I've only heard a couple women make that claim, versus quite a few who've admitted some preference for the large jumbo size. One was quite adamant that bigger cocks were just too painful. She had, in fact, heard from a previous girlfriend of mine how I was hung and, when I was free, made a beeline for me.

There are, however, a substantial group who seem to dig smaller cocks for other, shall we say psychological, reasons. There's a variety of possible explanations, mainly relating to power issues: male vulnerability, "feminists" righting the power imbalance, and, perhaps, some SPHy stuff. At the same time, I'm always surprised by the number of women who, instead of just not seeing me again, have felt compelled to tell me why they weren't. "Im sorry, but. . . " Along the same lines, I've received numerous PMs on the internet from guys -- both gay and straight -- who are turned on for some reason by good-looking, fit guys with small cocks. Almost makes me wanna go gay!

So, yeah, probably more women prefer larger penises, but it's not a monopoly. I've made a killing among the nonbelievers.
 
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Larger definitely isn't always better for sex/sexual things. I can accommodate just fine, but if someone is lazy or just generally a lousy lay, their size doesn't fix anything.
 

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I was once a size king and always wanted massive cocks but I've changed. While I still enjoy large cocks I have come to find that those more in the average to less than average range tend to be much harder and seem to stay hard longer so it really depends. As weird as it may seem to some small to average cocks are more painful for me when I'm engaging in penetrative sex because it is hard and doesn't always clear the curve in the rectum so it feels like you are being punctured. Large guys are painful but once they clear the curve in the rectum its smooth sailing from there.
 
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Generally, when asked about size, women and oral/anal bottoms fall into one of two camps: Larger is better, or, larger hurts or doesn't fit.

Personally, I wasn't a size fan until I learned to relax and accommodate. Now, sex with someone smaller than myself doesn't even interest me. Are there folks on the receiving end who have learned to take huge things but find greater pleasure in a less well endowed lover, even if discomfort isn't the issue?
A great fit is best. There is such a thing as larger than ideal, without being too large to enjoy. There is also such a thing as too large, or too small to enjoy. That's my experience, anyway.
 

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i've hand plenty of deep clinical conversations with many women over the years in my past and the consensus has been that as long as they could feel the penis and it stayed hard long enough for them to be fully satisfied, that was more important than being big. now most of them also mentioned that they enjoyed the "full" feeling and not the "stretched" feeling so if a penis was big enough to give them that too then it was a bonus but not a requirement.

there were a few in there that were the exception whom wanted a big one and loved the challenge of it however these were the outliers. generally speaking, penis size is a man's problem, lols. you just got to be "big enough" whatever that "enough" is... could be anywhere from 4 inches to 10 in my opinion depending on who you ask. :)
 
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I was once a size king and always wanted massive cocks but I've changed. While I still enjoy large cocks I have come to find that those more in the average to less than average range tend to be much harder and seem to stay hard longer so it really depends. As weird as it may seem to some small to average cocks are more painful for me when I'm engaging in penetrative sex because it is hard and doesn't always clear the curve in the rectum so it feels like you are being punctured. Large guys are painful but once they clear the curve in the rectum its smooth sailing from there.
i totally know what you mean
 
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I was once a size king and always wanted massive cocks but I've changed. While I still enjoy large cocks I have come to find that those more in the average to less than average range tend to be much harder and seem to stay hard longer so it really depends. As weird as it may seem to some small to average cocks are more painful for me when I'm engaging in penetrative sex because it is hard and doesn't always clear the curve in the rectum so it feels like you are being punctured. Large guys are painful but once they clear the curve in the rectum its smooth sailing from there.

Totally agree, but I've found that thicker cocks are less likely to be "pokey", whether shorter or longer ones. When long and too thin it takes a much more conscious effort to internally relax, while thicker ones send a better signal to my colon to welcome the intruder and I don't feel like I'm being stabbed. Once past that second constriction, though, oh god there's nothing like lit.