Is Masturbating Once A Day Too Much?

[Blade5]

Hi Guys,

I got circumcised in 2017 (you can read my threads about it on here). Now I am seeing my specialist about potential ED, and wanted to kind of baseline whether the following is normal:

1) I masturbate once daily, with lube or cream, by rubbing the glans. I ejaculate fine, but sometimes the "orgasm" is weak and muted, other times a bit stronger.
2) If I don't masturbate for a week, I can experience a much stronger orgasm from masturbation that makes my body tremor.
3) When I masturbate, rarely do I get an erection. Sometimes I do, it may depend on how aroused I am to porn (which I look at daily).
4) Out and about, I get an erection, probably due to my glans rubbing against my underwear.
5) If I stroke the underside of my glans (where the frenulum was), this can create a strong erection in minutes.
6) I don't get morning erections, even if I need to urinate (asked dr about this)

So I don't think I have complete, severe ED. But I am confused about these points, e.g. number 1.


Thanks

 

[Cum_is_Great]

Many men on here would say its not enough times a day.

I personally would say that's too much for myself. Maybe you are the same? I also havr a much stronger much bigger cumshot after a few days. If I cum everyday the erections are weak, along with orgasm and cumshot.

Everyone is different so maybe it's too much for you.

 

[cityson]

As to 1) I take it there is a reason for why you masturbate daily. You like and/or find you need to. In this respect I can't see how it can be too often. So long as it doesn't seriously affect other aspects of life and is becoming a problem, why not?

To me it comes as no surprise that the erection and ejaculation is weaker than when masturbation once a week.

 

[589189]

Only if it lasts 23 hours....

 

[Cum_is_Great]

Oh, I forgot. No morning wood makes me suspect possible low testosterone. Since you have symptoms that are similar to me, and I have low testosterone maybe you do too. Tell your doctor about your weak erections and lack of morning wood if you are younger than 50

 

[Bench2]

No

 

[Acratopotes]

I think you have to work out what the right frequency is for you - there isn't one frequency that is right for everyone. You can, sometimes, get better orgasms by waiting longer but then you have fewer of them and need the discipline to wait. As well as being a way of dealing with horniness it should be a pleasure so pick a frequency that seems to provide the best compromise between quality and quantity.

 

[muscle_wagon]

No way, I cum at least 4 a day.

 

[Blade5]

I didn't think that once a day is too much either, but why then does the pleasure sometimes suck? Is this the circumcision?

I can wait a week between masturbation, but if I was with a girlfriend, would I wait a week between each time we had sex? It would be stupid.

As for no morning erections, I've had a blood test for low testosterone, I'm just waiting for results now.

 

[939845]

I'd say it's the fact that you masturbate quite frequently without getting an erection that makes it a potential problem. I normally masturbate when I feel horny and no sex is available. It sounds as if you begin masturbating to get yourself in the mood, and if you are not really aroused, then you might struggle to get an erection. As you've already noticed, you may end up ejaculating, but the orgasm is subdued. That's because the mind is not actually involved in orgasming, it's a reflex and given enough stimulation, almost anyone will orgasm at some point. However, as your mind is not there, it begs the question as to why are you masturbating in the first place?

Sounds more like a psychological issue to me. Sure, get the blood test results first to confirm those are fine, but at this stage I'd be more inclined to suggest it is unlikely to be anything physical. Also, the circumcision almost certainly has nothing to do with it, unless you worry that it does, in which case we are back to the psychological aspect.

 

[goander]

I am 55 and masturbate an average of 2 X per day.

 

[Adrian69702006]

No way, I cum at least 4 a day.

Do your reserves of cum ever recover? Four times a day sounds like milking yourself dry.

 

[Topher90]

IDK what reverse cumming is? But I wake up with a boner everyday I usually make myself get aroused to masturbate not from having and erection to begin with and go at least twice a day don't seem to have any problems

 

[IntactMale]

No. It's neither too much or too little. If you feel like your orgasms aren't pleasurable enough then there are a few things you can do. Masturbate less often, its not all that desirable but undeniably works. Make masturbation last longer by edging, when you feel like you're getting close to the point where you can't turn back stop for awhile and then start back up, an orgasm after doing this for an hour or more will be very intense. Do PC or kegel flexes regularly, this will strengthen the muscles that contract when you have an orgasm and can increase the intensity.

I'm sure there are other things you can try, but I've found that the three of these, mostly the last two, work pretty well. But, not every orgasm is going to be the best one. The best ones stand out for a reason and the less intense ones help accentuate the more intense ones.

 

[Adrian69702006]

IDK what reverse cumming is? But I wake up with a boner everyday I usually make myself get aroused to masturbate not from having and erection to begin with and go at least twice a day don't seem to have any problems

Topher, early morning wood (a distant happy memory for me) is caused by the action of the sphincter muscle closing against a full bladder. Masturbating to ejaculation may relieve the synptoms but won't tackle the underlying cause which requires another very dfifferent action for which the penis is frequently used. When you get to a certain age as I have you'll be getting up once or twice a night at least and you'll find a consequence of that is that early morning wood won't normally happen.

 

[Topher90]

I can't say that's why I can lay in bed for an hour and not have to use that bathroom with a hard on

 

[XXXWolverineXXX]

Just go to the doctor.
I am on 500mgs. Test and feel great I am 55 and jackoff 2-3 a day and fuck my girls 4-5 times a week and then throw in a 3some here and there. TRT is where it’s at just look at my albums and see all the pussy I am killing.

 

[Adrian69702006]

I can't say that's why I can lay in bed for an hour and not have to use that bathroom with a hard on

Hmm. I have a feeling that might not be first thing in a morning though.

 

[Topher90]

What do you mean?

 

[palakaorion]

If your masturbation habit is interfering with other aspects of your life, then yes, it's too much. Stuff like keeping a job, having meaningful relationships with other people in real life, paying bills, getting proper sleep, etc. Or if you're beating off so much you're causing injury.

As for some orgasms being weak and others powerful, that's completely normal.

If you're at all concerned, speak to your physician. I 100 percent guarantee he's heard it all before. He can test various levels to see where you're at.