Is My Best Friend Interested Or Not?

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I have known my best friend for 10 years and he is the greatest friend I could ask for.

I have only had girlfriends but recently I told him that I would like to experience it at least once because I’m curious and he said it’s not his thing... but this guy is always wrestling me and rubbing off on me. My point is that from an outside perspective you’d think he would be interested... anything you guys have done to maybe make your friend consider it? If not, then no big deal. I definitely value his friendship way more than one night.
 
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Yeah, I wouldn't risk a friendship for what? Maybe a curious blowjob with too much teeth, a squirt of semen in the face and then awkward times between you both from now on?

Nah, don't roll that set of dice man.
 

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He said it wasn’t his thing but he does things that make me think he might be curious as well... but yeah, you guys are right. I will drop this.
He might be curious. But perhaps not with you, as that might jeopardize your friendship. And not just in the, "ew, fuck no, I'm not doing that!" manner. He may not want to risk friendship on a one-time/short/time curiousity affair.

Maybe just talk to him.
 

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Close friends are off limits for me. The strength of those relationships are maintained because they're platonic. Casual friends and acquaintances are fair game.
 
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Sometimes straight guys like the idea of flirting with another guy, other straight guys or gay guys.Sometimes they like the chance to be physical with another guy as it isn't always an option with most men.
If you are open and close enough to discuss these things he would probably have accepted the offer.
As a gay man the biggest lesson I have learned is not to fall for my friends especially the straight ones.
It seems like you have a brilliant friendship with him so I wouldn't risk ruining it.
He sounds awesome and just save the wrestling and rubbing away in the wank bank for enjoyment later on.
 

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Forgive me for being blunt: Do you want to really know the answer to this question? Are you prepared for any type of reaction? If not, don't open Pandora's box.

If his constant touching is bothersome, don't make it easy for him; stand farther apart from him than you have been doing.
 
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Many of you have read about my first experience with a guy. Basically, he molested me while I was drunk. It became a mutual thing afterwards. No, not Stockholm Syndrome - I actually enjoyed getting off with a guy. We carried on like this for a few years, neither of us being mutual. It was an occasional affair, not a regular one.

I'm still "friends" with him to this day, but there's always that thing in the back of our minds. Nobody knows but us, even our old classmates, except maybe one. I'm not saying it's cast a pall over our relationship, but it's different than it was. And that episode will always be there.

My advice: go find someone else if you don't want your relationship to change. If you do then go for it, but prepared for disappointment because that's one outcome.