Okay, so... I'm feeling a bit insecure here lately in my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. Our sex life isn't as frequent as it used to be, and I guess that's expected after being with someone over a year. Our age different is 13 years, he's older and I'm younger. I, of course, want sex all day 24/7. He, however, claims he does not. However, when we first met it was ALL the time. So, he suddenly claims he doesn't "have as high of a sex drive" as I do. Not sure if this is just a "cop out" and he doesn't want to have sex with me anymore or not. I've also recently found him looking at porn A LOT -- and he didn't do that much before. But, all of a sudden he is. We still have a decent sex life, but I feel like he truly isn't interested in it anymore. We will have weeks where the sex is awesome and very frequent, and then a week later its like once or twice a week. What am I doing wrong? Do you think he is losing interest? How much sex is "enough" sex after being with someone for a year? We mess around about 4-5x a week, but does not always include anal. I'm a little worried because I'm always wanting sex, but he isn't.