Is my chick lying?? Or am I crazy?

[Block McCloud]

I have an issue with my girlfriend.

First of all, I'm very insecure about my penis as I am only about 6" maybe 6 1/2 when it's at its hardest. And not too thick either.

Sometimes when I will eat her out she will get dripping wet, when I mount her on top she sometimes dries up. When she is on top she will stay wet but its only because she is getting friciton on her clit. But her being on top is a problem for me because if she doesn't stoke and just sits up on it I can't feel anything.

She has told me that penis size is something that never concerned her at all and she is indifferent to it.

However, I have found her many times searching for porn and she only searches Lexington Steele and Wesley Pipes. She also downloaded all of the movies from the Monsters of Cock website.

When I asked her about it she swore she doesnt have a preference and she just watches porn when she is horny and wants to rub one out. But yet she felt very uncomfortable when she explained this and simply denies pleasure looking at a huge penis. She claims she only likes Welsey Pipes and Mandingo etc because of the way they fuck and she likes how they do it..

She has never had a big penis however and calims again it does not matter at all... But we have had very significant problems sexually now since this has surfaced.


Am I crazy for thinking that she loves a huge cock? I mean, she has went as far to deny she gets any pleasure LOOKING at it. She says she has never even found a larger penis to LOOK more pleasing...

 

[needthesupport]

I would say she's lying, but it shouldn't be a big deal.

My girl says penis size doesn't matter, but you sure as hell won't catch her watching small cocks on porn.

 

[ItalianStallion10]

a large penis is often a sign of fertility and power. she probably doesn't want to offend you, but the truth is that she is interested in this phenomenon. I know that my wife's best friend has always been curious about the size of my penis and how it feels for my wife when we're have sex. My advice is to not be offended or ashamed of what you have. Just realize that you can't have it all. A woman's biological needs require her to procreate. The best way that a woman can see herself doing this is with a fertile man. Men with big dicks appear to be more fertile, and more than not they are.

 

[got_lost]

I think I agree with both of the above....

there's no point in her making you feel bad about it, cos there is nothing either of you can do about it, but I do think she is enjoying the large cocks if that is what she is watching, porn wise... otherwise it would not be something she would watch to get her self off, surely?!

 

[DeepFun]

I would ask her if she wants to arrange a threesome with a hugely hung guy. I believe if you do not give her access to this fantasy you will eventually lose her. If you can't stand watching another guy giving her pleasure then it won't work anyway. The warning signs are all around you, if you do not heed them....

 

[superswinger]

Story sound like Bull-Shit to me.

 

[Block McCloud]

I would ask her if she wants to arrange a threesome with a hugely hung guy. I believe if you do not give her access to this fantasy you will eventually lose her. If you can't stand watching another guy giving her pleasure then it won't work anyway. The warning signs are all around you, if you do not heed them....

I would agree with you. I have approached her about this. I have asked her this many times. And she denies wanting a threesome or any huge man.

To her credit, the frequency of her watching porn is very seldom. Maybe once a month. She actually broke down and creid when I asked her to just come out and tell me that she gets off looking at a large penis. I was not trying to make her feel ashamed. I think maybe it is just that she doesn't want to hurt me.

 

[B_cigarbabe]

So she likes looking at well hung guys, big deal. If she truly had an issue about big dicks, would she be fucking you? Maybe not.
I don't get why guys always obsess about their cock size, even though
the person with whom they're partnered, with says it's big enough for them.
I think you would benefit from some couples therapy.
What difference does it make if she denies she likes looking at big dicks?
She is perhaps not telling you, because she knows your feelings would be hurt,if she says she likes looking at big cocks. You have said how insecure you are about your dick.
Leave the issue alone, why can't she be telling the truth? Maybe she didn't like you insist to know about why she wants to look at these guys
or she didn't like having to tell her masturbation secrets!
Try believing her for a change.
cigarbabe:saevilw:

 

[ShyGirly]

I dont think shes lying to you. One of my best sexual partners was 6" and another one was 9", they were both good for different reasons. When im watching porn its not about the size of a mans cock that does it for me. And my experience size really does not matter its what you do with it.

Just trust in what she says, feel confident about yourself and im sure your sex life will get good again. x

 

[B_ScaredLittleBoy]

She could just be curious. Better her watching porn than making porn with another man.

 

[lemont77]

a large penis is often a sign of fertility and power. she probably doesn't want to offend you, but the truth is that she is interested in this phenomenon...The best way that a woman can see herself doing this is with a fertile man. Men with big dicks appear to be more fertile, and more than not they are.

Ok, I'm going to have to throw an alternate option out there for ya...as far as I know, men with larger penises are NOT necessarily more fertile. The difference between us and normals is that we have sex more OFTEN, and sometimes with more than one person. The more you spread your "seed" around, the more likely it is that it will...take root.

I have a buddy with a 4-incher, and he and his wife have 4 kids. I'm just under 7", and I don't have any.

Size does not indicate fertility.

And yes, she does like looking at big penises. She probably wants to try one out. I'd like to have sex with Salma Hyack...we all want things.

 

[dongalong]

I'm really into busty women in porn but in real life as long as my girl had qualities that are more important to me, boob size isn't so important.

I've made an ex girlfriend feel insecure about her boob size after she caught me looking at busty women on the internet but she soon interstood that it had no importance to how turned on she made me.

If I was you, I would stop worrying about your size and use what you've got to hit the spots that give her pleasure - g-spot, clit. and start doing PE to make it bigger (which will eliminate your insecurity) My penis was 6.5" when I was younger now it is 2.25" bigger.

 

[ThePipe]

Dude, you dont worry about her porn. Let her have her private moment and rub one out. What needs to be addressed is how you feel about your own penis. Not how she feels about it. She knows the size and if it truly was a problem then you should go your seperate ways BUT she has told you its not a problem so you have to do 2 things to get over this:

1) decide if you believe her or not. Dont sit on the fence. Either believe her and move forward with the strength of that belief OR ask her again, really show how vulnerable you are about it. Let her know how you feel. If she doesnt respond and let you know that your penis is enough for her then you can decide to take it or leave it.

2) and this point is really more important than the first. LOVE YOUR COCK. Or like Tom Cruise said in that movie RESPECT THE COCK! LOL....really though, be proud of your dick, nothing is more sexier to a man OR a woman than confidence. BE proud of it. Own it. Then you will be less concerned if she loves big cock or not because you are secure with your own size. However, in terms of tecnique it sounds like she has given you a clue. Watch these two porn guys she likes....see how they FUCK and the next time you see your baby....Put that shit on her like she hasnt had it from you before and believe me, you'll keep it moist AND movin'!

The Pipe has spoken!

LOL

 

[thick_1]

I find it odd that she would be looking at porn in the first place. Most women do not do that. That alone is a huge red flag. The second thing is that she is looking at large penis's. Do not be surprised if she has indeed sampled a big one or two already.

 

[ThePipe]

I find it odd that she would be looking at porn in the first place. Most women do not do that. That alone is a huge red flag. The second thing is that she is looking at large penis's. Do not be surprised if she has indeed sampled a big one or two already.

DONT BE FOOLED WOMEN LOVE PORN JUST AS MUCH AS MEN

 

[Not_Punny]

I find it odd that she would be looking at porn in the first place. Most women do not do that. That alone is a huge red flag. The second thing is that she is looking at large penis's. Do not be surprised if she has indeed sampled a big one or two already.

This is not true. A lot of women look at porn. NOT with the insatiable frequency of men, but any women who has her libido intact (and with access to videos/the internet) is going to watch some porn.

Many women , however, are embarrassed about porn, masturbation, etc. Unlike guys, they don't discuss it that much among themselves. And if she had a religious upbringing, she could feel REALLY bad about it.

Basically, you are embarrassing her and hurting her feelings. Worse, you are acting like a Nazi with all this interrogation and snooping (checking to see how often she downloaded what kind of porn).

She may or may not "need" to have a big dick, but what's wrong with looking at one? Do you look at porn with women who have bigger tits than your gf's tits? And are you going to dump your gf because her tits aren't as big?

I'll also bet you sometimes watch some crazy porn shit -- but does that mean you want to act it out?

You need to give your gf some space. You are driving a big wedge (no pun intended) between you and her with this interrogation and accusation.

And like an earlier poster said, you might want to see if you have some of your OWN insecurities.

 

[Not_Punny]

I'm not trying to beat this to death, but how does your gf orgasm?

If she has difficulty orgasming vaginally, and if she dries up during penetration, she may think that there is something "wrong" with her that might be "fixed" by a big dick.

A bigger dick may or may not solve her "problem." (Some people ARE size queens. Some people aren't. I couldn't be a size queen even if I wanted to because I don't have the depth.)

But I can guarantee you that she's "free" to fantasize about what turns her on when you're eating her = she gets super-wet. And when you're fucking her, she is busy interacting with you and isn't able to get lost in her private, fantasy world.

I'd explore her fantasies (in a FUN way). Maybe take her to a "toy" store and say to her -- "it's all yours, baby -- what would you like to try?"

 

[rich-9.8]

I find it odd that she would be looking at porn in the first place. Most women do not do that. That alone is a huge red flag. The second thing is that she is looking at large penis's. Do not be surprised if she has indeed sampled a big one or two already.

Wow, another post from the dark ages. I guess all of the porn-watching women on here are really men then? And that would make you *gasp* gay, for talking to them! Sounds pretty immoral and wrong to me:biggrin1:

Back to the topic though - If your girlfriend was a size queen, she would be fucking a man with a big penis. You, on the other hand have a slightly above average penis. She is fucking you, so she is not a size queen. QED.

I'm sure she just watches porn to get off, and probably does like looking at the big dicks. Denying it is her way of trying to reassure you that she isn't interested in a big dick for anything else and that you are more than adequate. Don't worry, and talk to her about the other problems in your sex life.

 

[OPPinSLC]

I think the hotmilf is on to something. Find out what gets her going, maybe try a toy.

 

[Eva]

I find it odd that she would be looking at porn in the first place. Most women do not do that. That alone is a huge red flag. The second thing is that she is looking at large penis's. Do not be surprised if she has indeed sampled a big one or two already.

This is the most ridiculous thing I've read in ages!



Block, it sounds like YOU have the hang-up about your cock, not your girlfriend.

All you have to go on is what she tells you. Why not, oh I don't know, believe her and just go about the rest of your day?