Is my chick lying?? Or am I crazy?

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I have a fetish for very petite girls, and when my wife and I started dating she was definitely petite. Now she is much larger, not exactly fat, but a court of her peers could convict her of being "big boned" to say the least. Anyway, I am constantly searching the internet for "skinny, tiny, petite, etc" women, and I don't know whether or not my wife keeps tabs on my surfing activities, but I constantly bug her about hitting the gym, doing some running, and she gets the third degree when she eats like a pig.

But in the end it is strictly for sexual gratification, and the honest truth is that I am with her because she is rich, (LOL NO JUST KIDDING!!!) I mean because she is a great wife and a great mother. She is so good to me, and best of all she is one of those extremely rare girls that are actually faithful and not somebody you have to watch like a hawk when it comes to cheating. Instead I can focus my energy on more important things like being a good dad and husband.

Maybe its possible that she really likes to look at huge cocks, and it may even be possible that she enjoyed a huge cock or two in her past, and that she is with YOU because she thinks you would make a good LIFE LONG PARTNER, and not just an annonymous person that is attached to a monster slab of meat with which she can get her rocks off occasionally. Maybe you have the qualities that she thinks will make for a good FATHER? If this is true you could be blowing it.
 

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Sooo true


a large penis is often a sign of fertility and power. She probably doesn't want to offend you, but the truth is that she is interested in this phenomenon. I know that my wife's best friend has always been curious about the size of my penis and how it feels for my wife when we're have sex. My advice is to not be offended or ashamed of what you have. Just realize that you can't have it all. A woman's biological needs require her to procreate. The best way that a woman can see herself doing this is with a fertile man. Men with big dicks appear to be more fertile, and more than not they are.
 
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I have an issue with my girlfriend.

First of all, I'm very insecure about my penis as I am only about 6" maybe 6 1/2 when it's at its hardest. And not too thick either.
Think your insecure? You just said that and my feelings about my barely 6" dick when rock hard just took a serious tumble
 

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I have no idea about her lying or size preferences..but as you said you are insecure about penis size etcs you can go "crazy" just by policing her "sides preferences"..that is a huge red flag imo already..better take care many issues you are aware off, face it and do not put under carpet..its your issues, not hers.

I am divorced from a guy with penis size and other sexual issues that got worse and was dealth by self medicating using alcohol and drugs. It is hell on earth to deal with man with unresolved issues who do not want treatment etc.

I am happy you are not married and hope you get to work your insecurities out with professional, before get into serious relationship like marriage.People we are into relationships are not to be taken place of profissional psychologyst ..even if they are one.:smile:
 

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she definitely likes big cocks and you should get over your insecurities and accept it. Everyone has their fetishes and it's not fair for either one of you to dwell over this... itll only have a negative effect. You either make the best of it or just accept it

and ur 6 incher is fine.
 

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1. This is your girlfriend not your wife, you can lose her easily by acting like a wierdo - so man up immediately.

2. Watch Mandingo fuck and mimic "how he does it".

3. Masturbation is highly personal. Let her do what she needs to do to create a fantasy to masturbate to. If she watched hentai would you be jealous you couldn't turn into a cartoon to please her? No, so give the big cock porn fear a rest.

4. FILM YOURSELVES HAVING SEX AND TELL HER TO WATCH THAT INSTEAD OF PORN FROM TIME TO TIME - TRUST ME THIS WILL DO WONDERS.

(Wesely Pipes is hung?)
 

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Listen, it's one of those things where you're either going to believe her or you're not. If you're not, you might as well end it (and I don't say that with a negative connotation- it just needs to happen).

Disregard the advice to have a 3some or invite some hung guy into your life- that will easily end your relationship. You're clearly not going to be comfortable with that, and frankly, I don't blame you. There's very little to be gained from doing so.

The best thing you can just do is decide a) whether you believe her, and b) if she does seem like a girl who wants to have sex with a large penis, do you think she'd cheat on you to do so? After answering those two questions, that'll tell you everything you need to know.

And perhaps as a bit of side advice- hit up the PE forum here and get yourself on a routine. You may never be huge, but after seeing some growth, you'll definitely have more confidence.
 

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Well, for one, love your cock and try to make-up for the size by learning new ways of how to use it and other 'tools' at your disposal to satisfy her. The germans would say " klein aber fein" meaning small but great. That you are small does not mean you can't perform.
Her watching Mandingo and co definitely shows she loves BIG DICKS. Like someone said, she probably does not want to hurt you; but i'd rather hear the truth any day.
Maybe she does not want a big dick, could be she just gets off on seeing HUGE COCKS but, either way, it would be better for her to truthfully explain how she feels to you.
Live well.
 

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I have an issue with my girlfriend.

I doubt you're crazy. I also doubt she's lying. However, you protest too much.
1. Sure, you probably want to please her; but face it, you're not in love with a woman you can't trust.
2. Have you ever considered how many guys you cross paths with daily who'd gladly shell out many a life savings (and then some) to be 6, 6.5.
And 3. Your issue is not with your girl, it's with Mr. Johnson. But is he complaining?
Not forgetting 4. If you're not married, your cock belongs to you, not her; just like your hands, feet, career, car, bank account, bills, children from a prior relationship, ego, et al. Respect your cock.
So, that being said, why not work what you've got the best way you can, while you can -- so your relationship can stop suffering from your "...issue with..." her? If you're in love, love her and allow her to love you. If trust is a problem, graciously part company; as neither of you benefit from the emotional hassle.

Please end the protesting. Just make love to her like you know you can and enjoy being with her!!!!!!! It's all a mind trip anyway. The size of the ship does not count. It's the motion of the ocean. :grouphug:
 

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It almost like saying she would get mad if you watch porn with chicks that have bigger breasts than her
 

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I so get where the OP is coming from! I spend a lot of time on this site(maybe thats half the problem LOL)...thinking that if I was bigger than maybe I could please her more...the thing is some of you make alot of sense! I watch porn and get turned on by what I see...So does she....It could be the guys big cock thrusting in and out of her.....or it could be the chicks beautiful round firm ass getting pounded. Well neither of us have the above mentioned qualities..but I love her and love making love to her...and visa verse.
My wife's ex was bigger than I am (I am about the same size as the OP) and my wife did not enjoy sex with him....but she loves sex with me.....the thing is it is a fantasy....and it will stay that if you stop making an issue out of it....my wife has a fantasy about me fucking another girl in front of her....but *sigh* this doesn't necessarily mean it will come true. I know this was posted tree months ago... but hope you get this message.

I feel you Bro!!!!!!
 

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Dude, you dont worry about her porn. Let her have her private moment and rub one out. What needs to be addressed is how you feel about your own penis. Not how she feels about it. She knows the size and if it truly was a problem then you should go your seperate ways BUT she has told you its not a problem so you have to do 2 things to get over this:

1) decide if you believe her or not. Dont sit on the fence. Either believe her and move forward with the strength of that belief OR ask her again, really show how vulnerable you are about it. Let her know how you feel. If she doesnt respond and let you know that your penis is enough for her then you can decide to take it or leave it.

2) and this point is really more important than the first. LOVE YOUR COCK. Or like Tom Cruise said in that movie RESPECT THE COCK! LOL....really though, be proud of your dick, nothing is more sexier to a man OR a woman than confidence. BE proud of it. Own it. Then you will be less concerned if she loves big cock or not because you are secure with your own size. However, in terms of tecnique it sounds like she has given you a clue. Watch these two porn guys she likes....see how they FUCK and the next time you see your baby....Put that shit on her like she hasnt had it from you before and believe me, you'll keep it moist AND movin'!

The Pipe has spoken!

LOL


This is the best advice you're going to get!!! Confidence in yourself is what turns women on. Own it. And hundred bucks says if you watch that porn, then do what those two guys do, to your gf, you're going to have one hot and wild woman. Go for it. Don't make her cry and humiliate her over watching porn. Give her what you got and go from there. Listen to the Pipe, he's got it right on.