is my cock too big to put in an ass

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  1. watcha

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    im not even really gay i just am kinda bi currious or what ever and i have a friend that i fuck around with and we just keep it between us and thats it nobody but us knos about it and were very descreet because we both have girlfriends we just kinda screw around for a little pleasure when were not gettin any and the other night we decided to stick our dick in eachothers ass and he fucked me and i started to put my dick in his ass and he cried and said it was the worse pain in the world he had ever experinced but he wishes he could take my cock any suggestions of what we could do so he could take my cock or is my cock too thick to try to put in his ass
     
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    Mate your best bet is too, Use alot of lube after hes taken a shower because your anal cavaties are much more relaxed. Dont top him in the 'doggy' position because thats were muscles are constricted thats why he'll feel alot of pain. Best position is missionary (your mate on his back legs in the air.) Slowly go in a little bit at a time, alot of foreplay/kissing will help him relax more.

    cheers bro
     
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    thanks for the advice i just might try that, any body else got any thing
     
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    well it seems your familiar with lube...but are u using it on ur cock and his asshole?
    u might want to try BOYBUTTER...a bit nicer then the lubes...or so i find. not as messy as lubes and washes off easily with water.
    if he still is willing to take ur breeder into his asshole, you may want to buy a bottle of Amsterdam or some sort of popper to get him to relax..a few whiffs of the stuff should do it..first time around..go easy..no big inhales until ur use to the stuff..
    then i hope ur suckin on his asshole before u lube him up and penetrate his tiny hole?
    play with this hole..its a gay guys best way to get off with another guy. i guess, its not exclusive to gays...str8's love to fuck their women's asshole too.
    use ur fingers one at a time to get him to open...then two then add the third..and fuck his ass with ur fingers until he is loose...takes some time..be patient ass fuckin is great..if it wasn't, no one would bother with it...the bottom or the top..both benefit from this way to fuck.
    if ur the top and penetrating him...its nice and tight around ur cock...its warm, its SOFT, and its wet. do it correctly and u will bring him to an anal orgasms..an entire different sort of orgasm the prostate has and produced its own orgasm juice which will squirt all over ur cock as he goes into a 'convulsion' of sorts during his orgasm.
    he loves being fucked for a host of reason...mainly it will feel great, if its done correctly..and most bottoms, from my experience, love the feeling of being penetrated by a big wide thick cock..like yours..
    once u start fuckin the same guy exclusively, you may consider fuckin without the use of a condom providing your both testes for all the STD's. some guys don't like to fuck with out a condom..only u and ur partner can make the call...
    my partner and i have not used a condom in years and we still test every 6 months.
    i like to cum in his ass and then have him squirt out my sperm into a cup, my mouth, his hand, on the floor or some other device to catch the sperm so he can swallow it down his throat..and i help him get this down. its a nice way to express the love between two people madly in love with each other...and, this works for us, IF it doesn't work for you..again, only u know best what is going to work for you...and he will have his own set of rules on anal sex. educate yourself on all this and then make your decision based on that knowledge.
    poppers...are available on the INTERNET or a good porn store located in your local boystown area. many brands to choose from...i like Amsterdam best...but its a tricky deal buying them for at first, u don't know who is selling crap vs the real deal.
    leather shops i find carry the best array of poppers. and i don't know one that has sold the crap..its just a suggestion..
    the rest, make up as u go along, for what works for one isn't always going to work for someone else.
    these are just things i remember when i first started fuckin guys in their asshole. a guy taught me how to use poppers and lubes, i have used them all, but for the last year or so..i find boybutter to be better then any lube i have used.
    hope some of this is helpful..and if u really don't think ur gay...i don't think i would bother learning to fuck some friend's asshole...but...if u love the idea of all of this..then i think i would revisit the thought of being 99% str8.
     
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    Have you thoutht about a lathe? To get it down to size. The use of punctuation is also very helpful when writing something. That is one of those modern marvals of the 19th century.


     
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    lots of lube and try entering slowly from behind with both of you laying on your sides.
    once in you can usually switch positions.
     
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    agree with Pitbull - whatever - just go easy and enjoy - if you both admit to your attraction to each other - there would be LESS pain all the way around.
     
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    hard to tell, but i think your girth is close to mine.. means just go SLOW and us LOTs of lube
     
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    your dick looks about right to me. I say just cover his mouth and punch it in! lol. j/k!
    just relax, and use lube, and slowly push...and tease his hole with it. dont push in until youve teased his hole so much it just gives way all by itself...and try it on your sides.
     
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    PS. And if it still doesnt work with him, then come on out to Illinois for a visit, and Im sure I can fit you in :)
     
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    I personally love the Eros-glide lube for anal, it a sillicone based lube, but not too thick and you only need a tiny bit (I don't like using too much lube personally)! But lube is nearly almost essential! Eventhough it might be feeling great now without, it gets even better with some lube!

    Appart from that, get him to relax! Take your time, drink something, play with vingers or a little vibrator - doesnt have to go in, but the vibration can help his muscles to relax a bit, and give a nice sensation at the same time! But be sensible and get an actual vibrator, instead of lending some ones toothbrush or something.. you dont want to be losing any brushes in there ;) When you do penetrate him finally, take it very slow.. maybe even tease him a bit first by pushing softly a few times before slowely entering. Give him the time to addapt to your size, it may take a while before he can take it all in without pain or discomfort. After a while you will feel him loosen up if he's relaxed enough, from there it all up to you guys :)

    I hope I make sense, I really drank too much wine tonight. Lol.

    But yeah, don't be silly put a condom on your willy!
     
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    WOW! I love the lack of periods... It would make my English teacher roll over in his grave! :eek:
     
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    Grease that bad boy up, technique is everything. Tim Gunn: "Make it work!"
     
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    damn boy, why dont u come try that monster out on my ass
    i wont be complaining;)
     
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    To answer your question, your cock isn't too big to put in his ass. It's just too big for it to NOT be uncomfortable the first time.

    That said, you CAN get it in there, it just may take a while. It's not as elastic as pussy so you have to treat it differently.

    I think with time and lube, you can bury your cock inside him and pound him pretty good in no time!
     
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    Might be too big for a virgin unless he really wants it. Like the other guys say LUBE LUBE LUBE! Personally I like the silicone lubes like Eros.
     
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    Grammar aside...it's not too thick (based on your gallery - which is pretty hot) but you are fairly thick so you need to take it slow and easy and, as others have pointed out; lots of lube. Some poppers might help him as well. :rolleyes:
     
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    Sounds like what you need is an experienced bottom. He ought to start off with a guy of average size.

    But, if you're both determined, you can get it in there, although it might tear him, or yourself. Use a condom, and adequate lube, you want him to enjoy it, so be sure he is hard before you try it.

    If you let yourself become slightly flaccid, you can still get it in, but it will be less likely to hurt him. He'll really love it as it throbs, and swells up to full size. Then you'll need to keep it stretched out, by nailing it twice a week or more. It's that initial shock, that takes a few minutes to go away.