is my cock too big to put in an ass

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by watcha, Oct 25, 2009.

  1. sab84

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    Lube, relaxation and practice with smaller objects, your's seriously appears to be too thick for first time...
     
  2. grizzleyjake

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    Go slow, use lots of lube, finger the hell out of him first, and let him be on top.
     
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    God damn, bring that dick to WI and I'll show you how it's done right..... too thick, nevar!!! :p
     
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    You're on the thicker side of average from what I can see. Everything depends on three things, the first is determination, the second is patience and the third is lubrication. The two of you can succeed, but it is not something that a virgin butt is going to be able to take the first time easily.

    The problem here is that with both of you really not being more sexually active with male partners that you are both likely to rush things and this is goint to hurt like hell for your friend the bottom. What needs to be done first is to get him used to having something present in his anus so he is able to relax. It is not easy for a person to do this initially. There are gay men who can't do it either so don't think he isn't trying.

    There are a number of toys which will help him become used to the feelings and to help him stretch a small amount and slowly over time. Yes, he can take you with a little work and practice, but it will take some time.
     
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    Try fingers and a lot of lube. Your cock is just slightly larger than average so it's by no means too big or thick. I personally have taken MUCH bigger and loved them each time. Work on relaxing, lots of fore-play, and find the sweet spots....all help to turn him on and allow him to want you....and your cock.
     
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    Along the same lines.....

    **Disclaimer** This is NOT an "I'm SO big" attempt, as I am in NO WAY thick when compared to many here, so that's why the following doesn't make sense, but has happened multiple times with different guys......


    I take my time, I rim, I use silicone lube, I finger and play. Inserting slow and usually everything goes pretty smooth. But, after a few minutes, even going slow, they tell me they can't take me anymore. These are guys that advertised / bragged about being bottoms. One guy has called me for return visits 3 times trying, and same thing.

    I've tried stopping and resting inside, thinking that it will help relax more. The whole time, I'm massaging their thighs and dicks, rubbing their abs and chest, anything to help them feel relaxed.

    And then to top it off, as soon as I think I'm causing hurt or pain, I deflate. I can't stand the thought of hurting somebody. So that kind of puts a damper on it also.

    I love being a top.
    Anything else I can do?
     
  7. bellon

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    Depends on the guy. I'd love to have that gorgeous cock in my ass.
     
  8. B_thickjohnny

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    Ditto on that!

    Everyone has given interesting and good advice. You really have to use lots of good lube and move slowly. Playing with his hole to relax the muscles is key. But I would also say, if it has not been said before, you should try laying on your back and let him sit on your cock. That way, he's controlling the penetration. He can move as slowly as he wants to take that monster whole!

    Good luck! Let us know how it works out. Inquiring queens want to know.
     
  9. D_Eliassaph Daniell Goosegarden Jr

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    i agree with pitbull lol
     
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    See, my issue with poppers, is that it kinda gets the bottom to lose control and become more relaxed with you, but.... it also gets the other guy to not be aware if he's ready, and he might open up tons, but not be lubed properly. You could damage the hole.
     
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    I've only bottomed with a few guys, literally, and started a couple years ago. The first time was super painful and the guy was a bit thicker than me and I'm a true 7.0 x 5.0. But, I think sometimes, no matter how relaxed the bottom is, if they're just inexperienced with handling large dicks, it just won't fit. At least this is how it is for me. I've tried tons of lube, finger, relaxed, etc., and the damn thing just won't fit, lol.

    I think it just takes some graduated experience for certain bottoms. Wouldn't surprise me if some guys can take bigger dicks easier than others right from the start.

    Maybe just keep trying and using advice from all the experienced people here.
     
  13. alanajohn

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    yours is not over large lube & push
     
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    Ive never come accross one i couldnt take yet, just use lube ang go slow till hes used to it
     
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    You're girth looks like it would be difficult to take. You appear about the same width as my man. My advise is lots and lots of lube and go really really slow. Only way I can take him.
     
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    Also althought it can be a less enjoyable position for the one doing the fucking. If the bottom is siting astride that beast and he is controling how much he takes it can help him relax more as he is in control. Once he's used to it you can change positions. it's worked for me as i love to take it but have difficulty relaxing my anus.
     
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    First let him sit on you. That allows him to adjust to your girth at his own speed. The other big thing is that he should push out like he is taking a crap. That forces his ring to open up.

    If you are still too big then he might need graduated dildos where he works up to your side.

    Besides the lube which has already been mentioned what you can do is rim his ass. Eat it like you normally will eat pussy. It will feel so good that he will strain to open up to your tongue. Then when you have him moaning guide his hole do your pole and let him sit on it.
     
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    MMMMMM You could always come round and stick that thing in my arse, ......................and I wont tell anyone
     
  19. haulthat

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    Not at all. A virgin asshole will struggle even with average guys the first time. Your above average, so its going to be more to that degree. If you guys are both discreet play buddies and really take care of each other that well, he will regret it if he doesn't work through it to get it done with you. Cover all your bases, lube on you and him, do everything you are comfortable with as far as kissing, ass play, getting things comfortable before trying it. Then take your time. Also, getting it all the way in is the hardest part. Make sure not to jam it in, once your in plea with him to let it stay in and just go very slow. Once its out, your back to square one. Once its in, just have to let the initial pain die down and slowly let it get used to you and SUBMIT TO THE GAY FUCK GOING DOWN! Sorry I couldn't resist, this topic is hot! lol :069: That's kinda messed up u gave him your ass and then he was a bitch about letting you take his, if your way bigger than him... yeah if your both just trying out the man on man thing... I can see that happening. Either way, THE FIGHT MUST GO ON! Please report if you reach success, and see if he will let you take pictures if you carefully make sure there is no way to identify him.

     
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    You have to work the ass... Start with a finger and work up to three or four before you flip that ass around and fill it up with dick! Take your time...
     
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