This topic really needs to be a sticky in this forum. It gets asked about once every other day.
Look, I tried all the usual advice and lots of it didn't work for me. Lube, go slow, sit on it, be patient, use a butt plug, none of that advice worked for me. TheBF is lucky that I'm a stubborn woman and I never gave up looking for a way to make it work and I kept trying until we succeeded!
This is what finally worked:
http://www.lpsg.org/187394-anal-sex-in-6-girth-3.html#post3057996
I prefer the cheap clear jelly dildos that are found in all sex toy stores to use for dilation. It costs less to buy those in various sizes than to buy one of those "anal dilator" sets, and dilating with the softer jelly material doesn't make your ass sore like the hard plastic can. Those anal dilator sets are always made out of that cheap unyielding hard plastic that is extremely uncomfortable and they end up costing too much for what you get.
Look, I tried all the usual advice and lots of it didn't work for me. Lube, go slow, sit on it, be patient, use a butt plug, none of that advice worked for me. TheBF is lucky that I'm a stubborn woman and I never gave up looking for a way to make it work and I kept trying until we succeeded!
This is what finally worked:
http://www.lpsg.org/187394-anal-sex-in-6-girth-3.html#post3057996
I prefer the cheap clear jelly dildos that are found in all sex toy stores to use for dilation. It costs less to buy those in various sizes than to buy one of those "anal dilator" sets, and dilating with the softer jelly material doesn't make your ass sore like the hard plastic can. Those anal dilator sets are always made out of that cheap unyielding hard plastic that is extremely uncomfortable and they end up costing too much for what you get.
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