Is my friend bi?

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  1. eyescream

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    I confided in one of my close friends (a girl) that I've been considering a 3some (me and 2 guys).

    She was excited and told me that she'd really like to see me doing it with 2 guys and I should add some girls to the equation (some girls being her and some of my other close girl friends).

    I was quite shocked because this close friend of mine is actually a lot like a sister to me. Worst, she wasn't kidding.

    Is she bi or just curious?
     
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    Ask her..........
     
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    There's no way to tell based on such little data.
    I'd say she sounds sex positive and adventurous/curious.


    p.s. If she's open enough to share this with you, then you should have no problem just asking her. She shouldn't be offended.
     
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    I know what her response will be: it will be NO. She will then feel insulted because according to her, her religion makes it a must for her to be homophobic.
     
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    She's opting for an orgy and she's worried about religion?
     
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    I guess I take that back about her being sex positive, then.
    I'll add that perhaps she's just curious, and leave it at that.
     
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    LOL! That's why I was shocked when she mentioned an orgy. She's always been very homophobic, surely she's aware of the association between an orgy and sexual openness?:biggrin1:
     
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    Well, wholesome people aren't usually wholesome because they're wholesome. It's usually because of repression, fear, parental pressure, religious indoctrination or fatuous conformity. And if they had the fortune (well some would say, others not so much) of being liberated, they'd be dirty wild fuck beasts who would make Caligula blush. It's for those reasons I think your friend is not aware of the discrepancies between finding homosexuality distasteful for religious reasons and being totally okay with a no-holds-barred sex fest including both genders.
     
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    She asked to watch right? If you're not comfortable with that... tell her, and *if* you are, let her and take it from there. Some times actions really do speak louder than words.
     
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