Is My Obsession Wrong?

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    Hello I have a question concerning my sexuality. I believe I'm straight, mainly due to the fact that I wouldn't want to be with another guy, yet I have this strange fascination with big cocks. For some reason I just love looking at them and I would like to know if this obsession makes me homosexual or not?
     
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    Others with disagree with me, but if you have no desire to DO anything with them, I think the "sexual" element of "homoSEXUAL" is missing, and so no. You're not.

    Although, some may argue that "homosexual", minus the "sexual" does still make you a "homo". (kidding) :tongue:
     
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    I still say that a slight interest in male parts means a tinge of bisexuality exists, but it's just a convenient label. Certainly the homosexual "side" is very small compared to the heterosexual "side".
     
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    If it's a "disturbing preoccupation" then it's your responsibility to find out what's so disturbing about it. If the thought of having the occasional homosexual thoughts is causing you stress, you might want to understand why.

    There's no shame whatsoever in being gay, so why should you be so ashamed of the occasional interest in penises (which, BTW, does not make you gay)?
     
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    Whether your straight or gay ( both perfectly good btw ) a fascination or even an obsession with big dicks is totally OK, jeez it's not like your into torturing animals or something. :)
     
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    Well, I have no interest in women sexually even tho I enjoy hanging out with them, but I prefer to watch straight porn over gay porn. I think its just a curious thing. Whether its breasts or penises, the bigger they are the more we like to stare, right? I think you still pass as straight.
     
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    If there's anything I have come to realise during my many years involved with the lpsg, it is that penis size is a very male "obsession". It's got nothing to do with your sexual orientation.
     
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    I'm going to go ahead and agree with everyone here. Looking at other men's equipment does not make you gay. You do not have any desire to be sexual with another man, that is what makes you hetero instead of homo. Like you, I like looking at other cocks. I think it's more of a curiosity thing than anything else. It's kind of like your % straight and gay. 99% straight, 1% gay. The 1% being the curiosity of how other cocks look. Mine is the same way.
     
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    You're not gay, just ineterested in what every man is interested in, although many don't admit liek the men do here on lpsg
     
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    It's almost programmer ino males ti be interested in cocks. There is a recent report (within the last two years) that demonstrated that straight men observe ab focus on thermen's crotches more than women. Specifically, male subjects were connected to eye tracking sensors and shown images of men. With a fairly high frequency straight men focused they attention on the crotch area if other men, even moreso than women. Perhaps men are "programmed" ti evaluate other meb's genetalia for competion purposes.
    In any case, I think the study is posted on The Bulge Report: The Latest on the Male Package
     
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    I dont think any of us can tell you how you feel. Only you will know that. Fascination and sexual desire are two separate things however.
     
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    why do you feel the need to define something as complex as your sexuality with a label? is it actually anyone's business other than your own?
     
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    thanks guys, i'm glad that i can enjoy big cocks because, as u all have told me, its just apart of male biology. so now that i know this fact, i would like to meet all the biggest cocks on lpsg!
     
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    i think one or 2 of them have names and a mom.... or even things to say in some cases
     
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    This is highly unusual: consensus at LPSG. Sexual objectfication is a cultural phenomena. Willies in the mass media cause amusement in Europe; the same cannot be said for other cultures. And penises in the US mass media cause embarrassment and prudery. Contrast that with the American obsession with large breasts and the subjectification of woman and it tells you a lot about the world power. What would be suspecious would be a man claiming he has no interest in penises.
     
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    I agree with Okie here-very well put-the 1% being curiosity. Heck, from Jr. High on up, everybody checked each other out-curious/interested. Lots of envy for the early maturing guys. I was a late bloomer-guess it was worth the wait-but still like to look at other cocks-nothing wrong with it......
     
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    Thanks for the props nmf9in! I'm sure the other guys were checkin' yours out when you bloomed! Nice one!
     
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    If you do not have the desire to touch another man's penis then No you are not gay. A straight man can get a blow job or hand job from another man and not be gay. Long as you do not desire to touch another man's privates then you are straight.
     
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    I am not interested in looking at an average size penis at all, couldn't care less. However a big cock gets my attention and on a nude beach it can get most everyones attention. I'm not gay and I don't care whether anyone thinks I am or not, it's not any issue with me, but there is something rare and compelling about a big cock, for both men and women.
     
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