Is my partner big

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  1. Imported

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    lucy_daviesuk: Hi,

    My boyfriend says he is normal size compared to " other guys in the changing room " however i think he is huge ! His penis is as thick as my wrist and must be 10 inches long.

    How can I convince him he is above average and needs to take care during sex and use larger size condoms that will go more than 2/3 down his penis ?
     
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    lilAmy: first of all id like to know where your man is dressing at. lol
     
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    Lucy, it sounds like you've got either a deaf boyfriend or a stubborn one.

    You can start by wearing a flannel nightgown with a drawstring beneath the feet.

    And don't open up until he agrees to try what you suggest!

    Pecker
     
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    H8Monga: Wait a minute...

    How is he comparing to other guys? Soft right? Is he a grower and doesn't know that not all people grow? Have him look up the average size online but avoid online surverys.
     
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    fastfastr: One other suggestion - if he really is 10 inches hard then have him watch some porn. Altough porn guys tend to be on the larger side, 10" is still big.

    Another idea, get a copy of Inches magazine, which features hung guys - 8 - 12 inches or more.
     
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    AnonyMs: Or just bring him to this web site, have him read this thread where we are all in agreement that he is large, and suggest he accept that reality.  BTW, I'm with Pecker - if he won't do as you suggest, which you are suggesting for extremely valid reasons, then tell him you have a headache and hold the aspirin between your knees until he gets a clue.  Lucy, I think you could probably find a guy who would treat you as you deserve and not this lunk-head.

    Nony  
     
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    ORCABOMBER: Hmmm, just my two cents (or should it be pence? Hmmm..)

    Maybe it's really just down to communication? I mean, it is possible for guys to not really be aware of how big they are truely. I agree with the other ideas mentioned in this thread, I'd just add, that it's one of those topics you really should bring up with him, y'know, if your bf is too large during sex, then there's methods you two can use to help.

    Thanks for asking. :)
     
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    [quote author=ORCABOMBER link=board=meetgreet;num=1052087010;start=0#6 date=05/06/03 at 04:49:51]
    y'know, if your bf is too large during sex, then there's methods you two can use to help.[/quote]

    However, if he refuses to even acknowledge that he's one of the 'big boys', it's unlikely that he'll put forth the effort to find out about the methods for accomodating his size.
     
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    This is pretty weird. Someone in denial of being large. You can tell him you want to try new positions, and then try ones intended for a larger man and a smaller woman - but not tell him that they are.
     
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    lucy_daviesuk: Thanks for the advice,

    Don't get me wrong, he is not in denial about the size of his penis - it just has'nt crossed his mind that he is any different to normal. I love his size - the variety of positions is great !! however he just needs to be more careful sometimes. My other concern is the quantity of semen he produces. It leaks out the base of a standard condom which is often completly inside me as they don't seem to roll all the way down his penis.
     
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    Lovembig: I have a question... or rather a comment. In my experience with my b/f wearing condoms (so glad those days are over), semen never leaked out the bottom. My b/f is also pretty thick and switched from normal sized condoms to the larger ones. They fit him better but were still snug enough. Being thick was what prevented any semen leaking out. The only thing there was to worry about with the regular condoms was wether it would break or not. If your boyfriend is really "thick as your wrist" it seems to me a regular sized condom wouldnt even fit on him. Have him try the big-boy condoms.
    And just like lil Amy, I was also wondering where your boyfriend's changing room was... :p
     
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    lucy_daviesuk: problem is the quantity of semen cannot be contained by the teat at the end. Its got to go somewhere and is forced down the side. As for the changing room come see Cherpsey play soccor ! I have seen them all play naked for charity and to be fair he is about "average" at 5" but as people have commented in this post he is also a grower when hard.
     
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    gigantikok: I'm confused. If he is so large and thick, haven't past girlfriends told him how huge he is? If enough women he's slept with tell him he is hung, i don't see how he would be oblivious to that. I don't think i've EVER heard of a guy that big just not be aware of the fact that he is huge. Odd...
     
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    mr17yearold: a nude soccer match?!?!?... for charity?!?!? what is that about... and where did you conduct it... cause that sort of thing would not be allowed in America, would it?
     
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    gigantikok: they obviously live in Europe. Public nudity is definately illegal in the US, a complete no no. And if you remember from another topic, sexual expression and nudity is much more open in Europe.
     
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    lucy_daviesuk: OK so i fogot to mention the nude soccer was inside - so as not to scare old ladies and children in the street! They raised over 5000 pounds so it was worth a few blokes loosing their ego's !
    As for my bloke I am also suprised he has not got the message that he is hung from previous relationships. However how many women tell a guy they are hung too boost the mans ego ? I know I have in the past with a guy who was having trouble getting it up - it worked a treat. Its the same as a man saying my body is fantastic - just before he asks me to turn all the lights on and go on top. Where can i get XL condoms from ? They are not available in the UK - we are too modest !
     
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    squid: Try www.14condoms.co.uk, or www.bigboycondoms.co.uk. They both sell Trojan XL Magnums, which are the biggest on the market.

    Hmm, I wonder how many women would pay good monry to get hold of these company's mailing lists. Names and addresses of half the well endowed men in Britain...
     
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    ORCABOMBER: [quote author=squid link=board=meetgreet;num=1052087010;start=12#16 date=05/07/03 at 14:22:43]

    Hmm, I wonder how many women would pay good monry to get hold of these company's mailing lists. Names and addresses of half the well endowed men in Britain...[/quote]
    That knowlegde is worth it's weight in gold! :D
    Erm depending on how much it weighs.
     
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    Javierdude22: [quote author=gigantikok link=board=meetgreet;num=1052087010;start=12#14 date=05/06/03 at 23:10:35]they obviously live in Europe.  Public nudity is definately illegal in the US, a complete no no.  And if you remember from another topic, sexual expression and nudity is much more open in Europe.[/quote]

    Ok...again people....we do NOT...repeat...NOT run around naked over here....try to visit Europe sometimes...youll notice the 'Sodom and Gomorra' signs missing....

    Public nudity is a very big no-no here as well let me tell you...

    8)
     
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    ORCABOMBER: [quote author=Javierdude22 link=board=meetgreet;num=1052087010;start=12#18 date=05/16/03 at 06:57:41]


    Public nudity is a very big no-no here as well let me tell you...

    8)[/quote]
    Good point. As anyone streaking during a football match'll realise.
     
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