see, now that's complete bullshit. She enjoys getting oral but has no desire to please you in the same way. This is why I feel no guilt whatsoever for the two married men that I hookup with, they never get their cock sucked at home.
Is not giving head a deal breaker?
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see, now that's complete bullshit. She enjoys getting oral but has no desire to please you in the same way. This is why I feel no guilt whatsoever for the two married men that I hookup with, they never get their cock sucked at home.
Yes, she loves getting head, but she hates sucking dick. No much I can do really, just accept my dick isn't getting sucked anymore.
stop eating her out and see what she see says. If she complains you easily throw it back at her for not willing to suck your dick.
Like I haven't tried that before! All that gets is a lot less sex. She knows I actually love eating pussy, so I don't have much excuse.
She's made it clear, my only options are to learn to suck my own or give up worrying about it.
or get someone else to suck it.
Next anniversary, no flowers, no presents...nothing. Tell her you don't like buying flowers/presents/whatever.
Sorry, but crap like this really pisses me off.
I'm sure that would lead to lots of sex.... Or end it altogether. I think it's better to appease her, rather than piss her off. And getting my dick sucked by someone else will be the fast track to the divorce courts (although she's gotten away with that behaviour before)
She has had affairs, but I do t want to talk publicly about them
I truly mean no offense when I ask this....but why are you still with her?
Well we love each other, and it's more complexed than just her having a straightforward affair.
Neither of us want to split up!
Thank you. The situation we have is not a traditional one, but it's one that has worked for us.
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Same here. Mine doesn't give me head anymore. She has a small mouth, and while I'm not huge (6 1/2 x 5), it hurts her mouth. I do love them, but it's not a deal breaker for me.
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Previous relationship was never, now my current relationship she sucks my dick everytime we have sex and she swallows every drop every time.
Glad I'm not the only one! Her excuse doesn't sound too legit, but good you respect her enough to not let it bother you that she doesn't go down
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No. It's not unusual at all. I've been with many women who won't give head but they all wanted to get on it. 
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No. It's not unusual at all. I've been with many women who won't give head but they all wanted to get on it.
Man, thanks for the running commentary guys. You sound just like the guys I hang out with.
I guess living so closeted for years, I wasn't used to straight guys talking about blowjobs so openly. and their comment's ranged from what you guys are saying here, a mixed bag.
Knowing then what I know now, yes it would've been a deal breaker. I've had one woman who practically had to be surgically removed from sucking my dick. She loved it so much. And I've had another who hates it so much that when she does suck my dick it effects me emotionally to the point where I stop her. She makes up for this in many other ways. Obviously. I wouldn't have married her otherwise.
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Pretty cool input @Broadsword.
All you guys kind of normalize the commentary I've heard from guys all this time. Because you have some that have said what I've heard forever," No way man a wife/partner who doesn't give head fuck that!!." all the jokes I've heard and laughed at.
Like,
As the BLOWER, Truth be told, it does nothing for me.
So I did find myself thinking, Dam, is a Blow job THAT POWERFUL?!?! With some friends it becomes VERY touchy subject when a bunch of guys are together and it comes up.
My guy's (maybe homophobic ) dad ( who sort of suspects I'm with his son) even made THAT joke about being on wife #3. Because as they lose interest in giving BJs, what good are they? lol...
But to hear gay and straight guys alike joke about it being a deal breaker made me want to ask, not just more guys, but guys in particular with big dicks.
And it's still cool to hear guys say, Although they would like it, it's not the end all and be all in a relationship.
And @BillnotWill, I love the common Birthday Blowjob. I never grow tired of hearing about it..lol..
Wow this is an interesting take.
Most guys I've heard talk about it give commentary like @FastNHard or @Broadsword, who, I admire their candor in saying what my friends have,
"The good outweighs the bad in my marriage, because I can't get a blowjob for shit.
If she offers to blow me I'm Like OK what did you break>/ How much does it cost..etc.."
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