Is not giving head a deal breaker?

[1078735]

Pretty cool input @Broadsword.

All you guys kind of normalize the commentary I've heard from guys all this time. Because you have some that have said what I've heard forever," No way man a wife/partner who doesn't give head fuck that!!." all the jokes I've heard and laughed at.

Like,

As the BLOWER, Truth be told, it does nothing for me.

So I did find myself thinking, Dam, is a Blow job THAT POWERFUL?!?! With some friends it becomes VERY touchy subject when a bunch of guys are together and it comes up.


My guy's (maybe homophobic ) dad ( who sort of suspects I'm with his son) even made THAT joke about being on wife #3. Because as they lose interest in giving BJs, what good are they? lol...


But to hear gay and straight guys alike joke about it being a deal breaker made me want to ask, not just more guys, but guys in particular with big dicks.

And it's still cool to hear guys say, Although they would like it, it's not the end all and be all in a relationship.

And @BillnotWill, I love the common Birthday Blowjob. I never grow tired of hearing about it..lol..




Wow this is an interesting take.

Most guys I've heard talk about it give commentary like @FastNHard or @Broadsword, who, I admire their candor in saying what my friends have,


"The good outweighs the bad in my marriage, because I can't get a blowjob for shit.

If she offers to blow me I'm Like OK what did you break>/ How much does it cost..etc.."

It is what it is. I'll live.

 

[lapdog2001]

Maybe it's because I'm from a younger generation but I have never met a girl that didn't like to give oral.
So I can't say weather or not it would be a deal breaker because I don't see that situation being a possibility

I'm in an older generation, and fortunately I've never encountered a woman that didn't like to give me oral, even if it was just part of foreplay. My penis is always the 2nd thing every woman I've been with has 'kissed', whether a hookup, friend with benefits, or a relationship.

My wife is very good at oral, can go very deep on me, and even swallows, but when I get hard she really, really wants me inside her vagina almost immediately. Who am I to complain?

A woman who never gave oral? That's a difficult question, as I really do enjoy it, even if it isn't as frequent as in the past.

 

[Cecil56]

Foreplay is one thing for head. Other than that, I will be balls deep into that pussy any day over a blow-job!

 

[HJ1958]

Pretty much a deal breaker in a serious, committed relationship. Blow jobs are as important, if not more important, than fucking. If blow jobs are not an option, I can always find some guy willing to do it for me. Another plus of being bi

 

[seanseattle]

DEAL BREAKER

 

[stretch8888]

Hard to say, until i was 25 BJs never really did anything for me, i'd never had a woman that was really into them enough to finish me off, then i started hooking up this younger woman [19], i still remember that first BJ she gave me especially when she didnt even hesitate taking the load and swallowing, we dated for a little over a year and she gave blowies every day and always swallowed, she definitely set a new standard. Since then ive only been with a few that didnt suck dick, yet go figured they loved having their pussy eaten out which i love doing but it doesnt work when they arent willing to give on their end

 

[Mike hung]

It's not a deal breaker for me, I'm too thick for anything like a proper blow job so it doesn't bother me although I do obviously enjoy watching women try and the good ones massage my shaft while sucking the tip.

 

[deepvoicedan]

No, not a deal-breaker at all. Which is a good thing because I've never had a good blowjob! Partly I think it's because my head is too sensitive and another reason is because I'm thick, so every blowjob I've had has been a teeth-scraping-down-the-shaft one. I know there are women who can give good oral to guys thicker than me but I've never had the fortune to have oral sex from one who can.

But my main turn on is giving women pleasure and so while it's nice to touch and play around, the main thing is to penetrate and make her cum.

 

[554279]

I have only been with women that had never done it (given head) before when I was younger. After we parted ways they had checked that block and were usually proficient at the "giving head" task.

Here are some tips:

1) Hygiene is your friend - wash your goat smelling ass and your cock. Keep everything clean 24/7 if you expect a women to stick her face down there

2) If you want head, you have to give head. Just like your lower extremities, brush your damned teeth, she doesn't want you muff diving after you have been grazing at the local buffet

3) Know how and what to ask for, foreplay is like dancing. If you have to verbalize or enunciate that you want a blowjob you're probably doing it wrong

 

[941691]

I’ve never had this issue before where the women I was with didn’t want to give head fortunately, but I don’t think it would have been a deal breaker. I’m into giving them oral sex as much or if not more than receiving it.

 

[Raymond655]

It not a big deal for me . When I was in steady relationship I never cared if she did or not . I love to eat pussy to much .. I always was on that like a orphan boy at a picnic. The women I see now always want to give head and couple of them say there pretty good at it. But they have hard time keeping there teeth off of it . So I could care less .

 

[steve r]

When my exwife were together, there was no oral paticipation on her end. Yet i was between her legs like a fat kid eating a cake,everytime. She didnt natuarally lubricate alot, so she said if i was "getting that thing inside her, i had to soak her in my spit". No problem, its an act i love anyway. Tho she never thought wetting my tool might help matters too. But the sex was so good i was or thought i was ok with it. But one night i was just dying for a goodd blowjob and said look. I need to see ur mouth on my dick or im going to lose it. She said she was waiting for me to bring it up..... by this point we were weeks away from marriage. So she blew me, it was probably a 6 out of 10 but figured itd get better. It didnt. And between then and our divorce, i got head maybe 8 times.... plenty of sex and i gave oral every time.... she said doing it hurt her jaw, waa waa waa, and she was afraid shed puke cuz of length and girth of it, she said her past partners were avg or small. Made meeting her exes funny cuz id just think, hes got a small dick, etc. She also never got to orgasm from sex til i got in there said she got real good at faking orgasms. I know she came with me cuz she was basically i sqirter. But ud think if im getting her off finally she would appreciate my dick more. Am i right? Either way, no head was not a deal breaker, but was definately not cool at all.

 

[N68]

I have only been with women that had never done it (given head) before when I was younger. After we parted ways they had checked that block and were usually proficient at the "giving head" task.

Here are some tips:

1) Hygiene is your friend - wash your goat smelling ass and your cock. Keep everything clean 24/7 if you expect a women to stick her face down there

2) If you want head, you have to give head. Just like your lower extremities, brush your damned teeth, she doesn't want you muff diving after you have been grazing at the local buffet

3) Know how and what to ask for, foreplay is like dancing. If you have to verbalize or enunciate that you want a blowjob you're probably doing it wrong

HA! good tips.. give me a while to ponder the equivalent for dudes..

Like if he's JUST coming from work, or some rigorous activity, let him wash his dick before you pull it out his pants to welcome home.

 

[554279]

HA! good tips.. give me a while to ponder the equivalent for dudes..

Like if he's JUST coming from work, or some rigorous activity, let him wash his dick before you pull it out his pants to welcome home.

Probably needs to be something in the significant others contract that should read "if your a nasty bastard, head probably isn't happening regardless of where you lay pipe"

 

[deleted1124309]

Well, my straigth friend once told me that his relationship was in a bad state because his girlfriend didn't wanted to suck him.
He ended up accepting this fact and they're ok now, I guess.

Honestly for me, it doesn't matter.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

I don't know if it was really a deal breaker, as we broke up over other much larger issues, but I was with one woman who never ever ever touched my cock with her mouth. She said she never gave a guy a blowjob, but would consider it with me. I took that as just another play in her game. At first it wasn't an issue, but I love oral sex, both giving and receiving, and eventually really missed it. So if other issues hadn't split us, I can easily see it being The Reason.

Thanks for reminding me of Crazy Bitch. Just another reason to be thankful for the woman who is my wife.

 

[bwhip1011]

Nonrecip so don't care whatsoever. Just buy me dinner.

 

[946694]

If you don’t like giving head you better have other tricks up your sleeve to make up for it!

 

[Itsmeandyou]

It’s important.

 

[1101550]

I'm not that big of a fan of receiving oral sex. I'm a kisser, and that gets me more aroused than anything. To me, being touched while engaged in wet sloppy kissing gets me aroused like nothing else.