Is penis size a sad rabbit hole for guys to worry about?

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its not like you can do anything about it, so why worry, why buy extenders to gain a cm. its so silly. Porn perpetuates it.
Porn perpetuates it….. but so does experience…..

If you only ever fucked one person you would work with that individual to find the best sex… what hits the spot etc

when you then move to your next partner… what worked before probably needs switching up because what worked with your previous partner probably will be different with the new…. And we are built to compare and contrast….

so if as someone who is receiving a big cock and you have found pleasure through that because of the size and then you switch to a little cock…. Your gonna compare the two….
 

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I tend to agree, porn can make some men lust after physical penis attributes, they cannot attain.
Sadly models / TV personalities. make many men and women paranoid, they are not 6 feet tall, have a six pack, or fit into a size 1 dress

Just try to enjoy what you have
 
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In terms of the rates of marriage and having children I doubt there’s much difference between big Dick guys and small Dick guys. So penis size shouldn’t be a major concern.

But I don’t think logic ever cures those insecurities. I did penis enlargement for a decade, and it’s definitely not worth it if you’re putting your life on hold to make your penis bigger. But if it’s just a hobby that gives you more confidence I don’t see it being any different than going to the gym
 

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Porn perpetuates it….. but so does experience…..

If you only ever fucked one person you would work with that individual to find the best sex… what hits the spot etc

when you then move to your next partner… what worked before probably needs switching up because what worked with your previous partner probably will be different with the new…. And we are built to compare and contrast….

so if as someone who is receiving a big cock and you have found pleasure through that because of the size and then you switch to a little cock…. Your gonna compare the two….
that has nothing to do with my question.
 
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given there are several factors to good sex with a partner, penis size being one of them, then all us guy should equally be concerned with all aspects of sex surely?

factors could be sexual compatibility, technique, experience, how much you care for the person you're with, confidence etc size is therefore one of many factors and size on its own is not the only determinant of good sex.

so i'd say concentrate on finding the person who appreciates all the facets of being with someone not just the size issue? And given there are guys, gals and others on here who categorically have said they'd only want a person with a smaller dick, and others who've said that they've had big dicks but the sex was crap then my answer to your question is a definitive YES!
 

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A lot of men worry about the size of their dicks. I've never met one man who hasn't wished his dick were bigger.

Not once in my life have I ever met a man who wished his dick was smaller.

Having said that, if most men worried more about pleasing their partner in the bedroom and what feels good to them. How they respond to what is being done to them. How they are making them orgasm. That should give them the confidence to know that they have enough to satisfy their partner.

Besides, you can't really do anything about it. You have what you have. Use it the very best you can.
 

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Based solely on how some "straight" guys fixate on mine, yeah. While most guys just roll with what they have, there is a pretty substantial number of men who have baggage with their own endowment and fantasies and admiration based around having a what they see as foundational part of masculinity.
 
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If using an extender to get a 1/2 inch bigger makes them feel better...then they should go ahead and do so. I'm not judgmental about those things.
 
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