Hi people, Had a crazy relationship, what would you do...... About five months ago i met a girl(bev) in a nightclub, we swapped numbers and text then on for a few weeks. I knew she was in a relationship but i have many women friends and so i thought why not another. 3 weeks later she said her boyfriend had moved out with another woman and invited me to stay at her mums, her mum said ' i wont tell anyone' i found that weird because she was 'single'. We went to her mums because she lived with her sister and bevs boyfriend who had apparently left, and she did not want her sister to see her with another man straight away, fair enough. We carried on seeing each other but i never got an invite to her sisters, i found this strange. I always thought he could still live their because she never answered the phone when he wouldnt have been at work. She always made excuses and finally confessed he still lived their. I was mad but she then moved in with her mum and we became inseperable. We argued quite a bit after a while, her ex bf had a very good job and they had a big circle of friends, i was never invited into this group. We ended three weeks ago and she contacted me a week later and said she had an abortion, we slept together a few times last week and tonight she has gone away with her 'ex'! Now what to do next...... This might sound vindictive and mean but i would love to message him and tell him the whole truth! Is that a bad thing, it would make me feel better cos she has done us both over! It would also clear my confusion as i am just puzzled. I am puzzled because she always lied constantly and only bothered with me when she had no one until we started more or less living together, i feel used and its doing my head in! Any help/advice will be appreciated.