Is seeing a 20 year old too young.

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if you're compatible as a couple, whether it be casual sex or more, go for it. maturity is sometimes, but not always, correlated with age. i'm married to someone 11 years my senior and have seen at least a few very happy couples who have an even larger age difference.

enjoy yourself!
 

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Just be yourself. Don't try to act her age. Go slow and really take time to pleasure her. Remember guys her age are usually bunnies in the sack. Show her what 17 years can teach a man :wink:.

Good luck!

LOL is four days straight too long to pleasure a goddess?

"Show her what 17 years can teach a man ":wink: That is one of the few things I have going for me.
 

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If you have reservations about sleeping with her, then you are not ready for it...give it a little more time and be honest with her about your concerns so she won't take it personally. I'd rather have a guy tell me he wasn't sure if he was ready to move on to that phase than think he didn't want me.
 

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No 20 is just fine. Shes an adult and so are you. No big deal at all!!! Go for it guy and see what happens.
 

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you got a hot young chick going for you man, don't doubt yourself ever again. Its like Lester Burnham in American Beauty!

LOL yeah look what happened to him. He did the right thing and still got axed. Of course she was underage in the movie and I would never go there.
 

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Think of her simply as a woman not a younger woman, the best relationship of my life was with someone 24 years younger than me, being young doesn't necessarily imply being naive or unworldly but it wouldn't have worked if either of us had tried to change who we were to fit in with some idea of what we thought the other person wanted.
 

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If you have reservations about sleeping with her, then you are not ready for it...give it a little more time and be honest with her about your concerns so she won't take it personally. I'd rather have a guy tell me he wasn't sure if he was ready to move on to that phase than think he didn't want me.

36DD I love that number:biggrin1: uhh what was I saying, oh yeah

The lady in question here is the aggressive one at the moment so I have had to take a step back and see where my head was/is in all of this. I just needed some outside thoughts on this to see if I was overreacting or justified in my hesitation.
 

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36DD I love that number:biggrin1: uhh what was I saying, oh yeah

The lady in question here is the aggressive one at the moment so I have had to take a step back and see where my head was/is in all of this. I just needed some outside thoughts on this to see if I was overreacting or justified in my hesitation.
Well age is just a number in most cases...just don't do anything until you are ready...I know it sounds cliche, but it's true. I hope it all works out for you!:smile:
 

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Well age is just a number in most cases...just don't do anything until you are ready...I know it sounds cliche, but it's true. I hope it all works out for you!:smile:

I will and I hope it works out too.

Thanks again 36DD, man I love reading that.
 

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For those following this thread here is a quick update. The lady in question here showed up late at my house last night so we decided to stay at home and watch a few movies. Well my old ass fell asleep and I woke up next to a lovely creature spooning with me. Talk about seeing an angel in your dreams but this was no dream.

I tell you folks I am one lucky SOB. I usually dont kiss and tell and I wont start this time cause nothing happened:tongue:. Had a good night and wonderful morning.

Again thanks to all for the advice. You all helped me make up my mind to see where this takes me and us.

Broken:biggrin1:
 

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Happy Saturday everyone. I was roaming around the ole porn sites today and found this set of a gorgeous young lady that resembles the girl I am currently seeing, the one mentioned in this thread. The girl in the pictures is a little bigger up top but not by much.

Oh and yes more details are to come. I am trying to convince her that we take some pictures together.

Girls from Met-ART! Free sample pictures gallery.
 

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Glad to hear you're enjoying yourself. I'm in a relationship with someone 19 years my junior, something more shocking to me than anyone.

Age is truly only a number with the right people. Enjoy this for all it's worth. :smile: