Also take into account the fact that the people who seek sex from sex workers can't or won't get sex or intimacy from unpaid people, and of course the shame or guilt they may be fending off around this.
Actually as one who practises the 'hobby' around the world from time to time (the best sex workers by far being in New Zealand by the way, closely followed by Switzerland), I don't do it because I cannot get sex or intimacy from unpaid people: I have a good and varied sex life. I do it quite simply because I enjoy the bodies, firm tits, tight pussies and good hard fucking of young attractive women, and for a 50+ man that is difficult to get without paying. The 18-20 year old college students I fuck legally in NZ simply are doing it to pay for the good things in life and it is a business transaction. I don't think there is any question of intimacy: these are highly intelligent women and they know what they're doing.
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[/FONT] That's by far the most intelligent response. I mean, it's all part of the sex worker as society's victim that always imagines her as lacking or not making well thought out decisions or acting on behalf of her pathology and this makes me angry. In a way it reinforces the power of the customer because he is taking something from her, where as she’s the one in power and in control of the situation.
The thing that most of the posters are missing here is the economics. You're studying, or have a family to feed and no skills, and you need money, sex is an easier and fast way to get it. Men have the choice of doing dirty, labouring jobs which often come with high wages. A woman has a choice of a lousy, lowly paid service or office job accompanied with long hours that don’t fit in with study or family.
Most women can clearly state that they have had at least one non-paying sexual encounter wherein they felt like they were just going through the motions of sex. And you know why? Because a lot of men, especially those under 35 don't care really so long as they get off… it’s not a far stretch in a woman’s mind to get paid for something they already do, and get paid bloody well.
Let's use an analogy here: a masseuse rubs people's backs all day, does that mean she doesn't like a good back rub? Or a psychologist listens to people's worries all day long, does that mean he or she doesn't like a good chat? Not at all, and I wonder why people continually ask these questions because it seems to me it has more to do with imposing images of morality on the sexual workers' collective personality, then with thinking about the dynamics of the occupation.