Is Sex Work?

[dudepiston]

Do you think sex is hard work, or is it just so pleasureful that you don't percieve you are putting forth any effort? I'm talking about any form of sexual expression here - masturbation, oral, anal, vaginal, you name it. Is it hard (ha ha) or easy for you?

Just got to thinking how we have terms like "hand job" and "blow job." These slang expressions would tend to insinuate that work is indeed involved. These are just jobs we need to get done, to our bodies.

Thoughts?

 

[jeff black]

Thoughts?

Sometimes I think that I am the only person in the Universe, and the rest of the world stops when I am not there.:biggrin1:



I personally consider sex as passionate and fun. However, it is also a task that requires doing. Things like handjobs and blowjobs, are just tasks... they give pleasure, I like getting them.. why not.

Is it work though? Nope, I enjoy it too much. But if I could come up with a career, that paid me to have sex... I may do it.:biggrin1:

 

[dudepiston]

Jeff:

I'm sure most of us could not afford your talents

Sometimes I think that I am the only person in the Universe, and the rest of the world stops when I am not there.:biggrin1:



I personally consider sex as passionate and fun. However, it is also a task that requires doing. Things like handjobs and blowjobs, are just tasks... they give pleasure, I like getting them.. why not.

Is it work though? Nope, I enjoy it too much. But if I could come up with a career, that paid me to have sex... I may do it.:biggrin1:

 

[GoneA]

But if I could come up with a career, that paid me to have sex... I may do it.:biggrin1:

actually, there is a career for that and it's been around for a few hundred years.


however, to answer the question, it's all relatively easy.

 

[D_Elijah_MorganWood]

When I had a brief career in prostitution, it was work.

 

[rob_just_rob]

Sometimes.

 

[jeff black]

Sometimes.

What makes it work? is it the effort put forward?

 

[b.c.]

What makes it work? is it the effort put forward?

Well, yes, perhaps, in the true scientific definition of the word (i.e. work = force x distance). So perhaps the work is calculable:

work = force necessary for pushing (and pulling) your dong in and out of your mate, for example... x (times) the distance of the journey (in inches i'd guess, for most of us). That could probably be further calculated by taking the answer (w) and multiplying it times the number of times the force was applied. whaaaa??

 

[rob_just_rob]

What makes it work? is it the effort put forward?

Sometimes I'm not in the mood and she is. (I'm all about taking one for the team.:biggrin1: ) In those cases, it's the effort.

I had an ex who could only get off via aggressive cunnilingus, usually about 40 minutes worth. A weekend with her and I couldn't chew solid food until the following Wednesday.

Sometimes she's climaxed, wants me to climax too (I can relate to that) and I realize that it's going to take 20 minutes of hard fucking before I can even get close to cumming, due to fatigue or having already climaxed more than once earlier that night. And some nights, I'm up for it (so to speak) and other nights I'm already satisfied and my final orgasm is more for her benefit.

And it depends on the person. I've had girlfriends with whom it never felt like work.

 

[ClaireTalon]

Well, it is physical work, alright. I mean, you're putting a whole lot of muscles into action when you have sex, no matter whether you're taking or giving. If you do it right, and it's mutual pleasing, yeah, then sex means work. But that's okay, I don't like lazy persons in bed, it's just fun if you consider it as work and put the physical effort in it (and helps your figure, too ;-)).

However, it is some fun kind of work, the kind of work I always LOVE doing.

 

[Oncamale28]

well if its work its the kind of work you enjoy so much that u just cant wait to get to work every day..

 

[curious n str8]

actually, there is a career for that and it's been around for a few hundred years.


however, to answer the question, it's all relatively easy.

I belong to the 2nd oldest profession but sex to enjoyable to be work :smileysex5:

 

[B_Hickboy]

It isn't work, it's exercise. Joyous, strenuous, abandoned exercise...

 

[LongPhatDong]

If it's work, then it is the job I'm always happy to go to and I'll always be willing to put in overtime.

:biggrin1:

 

[GoneA]

If it's work, then it is the job I'm always happy to go to and I'll always be willing to put in overtime.

:biggrin1:

that alone should give you a .... raise

 

[D_alex8]

If you're paying, then I'll consider it work.

If you aren't, then we'll call it pleasure.

Of course, both possibilities require one to work it in and out, so maybe it is all gainful employment.

 

[Wonderboy]

I like sex.

I found a girl who's as into sex as me...but she lives miles way. Hopefully she'll come here for the sexual awakening of her life, or I'll stop off at hers on my way to plunder the US's female population

 

[Gisella]

It isn't work, it's exercise. Joyous, strenuous, abandoned exercise...

I do agree...

HickBADBoy...U are good man !

 

[D_Claude Hopper]

Everyone seems to be ignoring the obvious other time when sex is work:

When you don't enjoy it.

While I have only had that happen a few times in my short life, it did define those moments as "I'd rather be watching TV" moments and don't really look back on them with any real pleasure. So, IMO sex can be work. Thank god that almost every other time it hasn't been.

 

[ChuckRich]

Prostitution isn't the only career you can make out of having sex. There's also porn. Although most of the time it's not well-paying unless you combine it with escorting/prostitution.