I agree. There is that question and the flip side to it. "Would I be comfortable if my partner did this to me?"What 'cheating' is tends to be slightly different from one relationship to each other, so it really depends on what your agreement with your partner stipulates.
That said, there's a really simple question you can ask yourself: "Am I completely comfortable telling my partner this, without consequences?"
If the answer is no, you're cheating.
What is the limit where communal masturbation become cheating on your partner?
that's my general though as well. You might feel thrilled by the moment and maybe attracted by the ”intimate” moment. I never felt guilty but is not the same for everyone
I wouldn't do it with my mom, but maybe with my sister... But that's just meMy rule is:
If you wouldn't do it with your mom then its cheating
I say no.If your girlfriend was masturbating with a guy but did not touch, is it cheating?
Are you.. standing next to a guy at the urinals, look at each other, start to get hard, then start jerking off? Or, in the gym shower, and jerk off beside each other? Are you jerking each other off in some other scenario?What is the limit where communal masturbation become cheating on your partner?
It's an odd and discomforting feeling for me right now but nonetheless I for ONCE actually find myself in agreement with you 100%. This is the standard we have in our relationship, we have an understanding of what we are comfortable with and we are open about things. In that vien is not cheating, anything outside of that IS cheatingWhat 'cheating' is tends to be slightly different from one relationship to each other, so it really depends on what your agreement with your partner stipulates.
That said, there's a really simple question you can ask yourself: "Am I completely comfortable telling my partner this, without consequences?"
If the answer is no, you're cheating.