Is sharing a wank cheating?

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What 'cheating' is tends to be slightly different from one relationship to each other, so it really depends on what your agreement with your partner stipulates.

That said, there's a really simple question you can ask yourself: "Am I completely comfortable telling my partner this, without consequences?"

If the answer is no, you're cheating.
 

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I agree with Flooble. If you can't tell the other person what you did without them thinking you cheated then its cheating.
I don't want to relay on some answer like but I didn't do "whatever" so it was not cheating. Agree on the line before you do anything and then don't cross that line.
 

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What 'cheating' is tends to be slightly different from one relationship to each other, so it really depends on what your agreement with your partner stipulates.

That said, there's a really simple question you can ask yourself: "Am I completely comfortable telling my partner this, without consequences?"

If the answer is no, you're cheating.
I agree. There is that question and the flip side to it. "Would I be comfortable if my partner did this to me?"
 

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If your primary relationship is with a woman, then one might argue that you were just blowing off some steam with a like-minded guy and hope that your girl is the understanding type.

But, if your primary relationship is with another guy, then I would call it cheating, for sure.
 
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that's my general though as well. You might feel thrilled by the moment and maybe attracted by the ”intimate” moment. I never felt guilty but is not the same for everyone


Its a basic male urge..we are hardwired to fuk jizz breed and BATE! Its not cheating
 
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What is the limit where communal masturbation become cheating on your partner?
Are you.. standing next to a guy at the urinals, look at each other, start to get hard, then start jerking off? Or, in the gym shower, and jerk off beside each other? Are you jerking each other off in some other scenario?

My partner and I don't consider any of those cheating. However, if one of us did that multiple times with the same person, then that is an entirely different matter.

It varies with every couple. Some people are more permissive, some more conservative. Rules and boundaries are really good to establish with whomever you are seeing, so there isn't any confusion.
 

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Cheating is another one of those words that has its own personal definition. One says yes other say no. Just stop putting labels on things and just enjoy what makes you happy, as long as your not killing someone, nobody gets hurt...just be happy and enjoy the moments.
 

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What 'cheating' is tends to be slightly different from one relationship to each other, so it really depends on what your agreement with your partner stipulates.

That said, there's a really simple question you can ask yourself: "Am I completely comfortable telling my partner this, without consequences?"

If the answer is no, you're cheating.
It's an odd and discomforting feeling for me right now but nonetheless I for ONCE actually find myself in agreement with you 100%. This is the standard we have in our relationship, we have an understanding of what we are comfortable with and we are open about things. In that vien is not cheating, anything outside of that IS cheating
 
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