Is she blowing me off?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by lokican, Nov 4, 2009.

  1. lokican

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    So I asked out a girl I met at halloween for coffee and she agreed but said she was busy until next week. I'm wondering do you think this is just a way of blowing me off or am I to cynical?
     
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    Why not wait until next week and see if she comes through?
    I'm assuming she does have a life outside of dating or you?
    Not trying to be mean but it seems logical to me.
    C.B.:saevil:
     
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    Yup, wait till next week. Try to keep your schedule open, but don't blow off important people/things, yourself.
     
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    Seems logical to me too. I'm the nosey sort, so if it goes well, can we get an update?
     
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    if she didn't want to date, then she would have most likely said no, and not prolonged the entire rejection for weeks afterwards.

    If she says she is busy for a week or 2 then your best course of action is to wait..
     
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