Is Someone Rimming You Generally Considered A Top Or Bottom

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O.k., I know labels and all can be dumb, but is this seen generally one way or another?

It would depend on a couple factors. If he is rimming to prepare the anus being rimmed for getting fucked he is the top - if he is rimming because he was told to do it by the dominant person in the act, he is bottoming, after a fashion. Every act in sex can be used by tops or bottoms. If a partner is restrained and erect he is technically bottoming when the partner who is restraining him rides his cock. Almost everything can be framed either top or bottom based on the roles people prefer to adapt.
 

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It would depend on a couple factors. If he is rimming to prepare the anus being rimmed for getting fucked he is the top - if he is rimming because he was told to do it by the dominant person in the act, he is bottoming, after a fashion. Every act in sex can be used by tops or bottoms. If a partner is restrained and erect he is technically bottoming when the partner who is restraining him rides his cock. Almost everything can be framed either top or bottom based on the roles people prefer to adapt.


Alirght thx. I just imagined standing with legs spread, while a guy eats me out like a girl. i imagine being the girl and he does what he wants, either verbally or just doing it. Getting fucked after being rimmed sounds like some real icing on the cake!
 

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Alirght thx. I just imagined standing with legs spread, while a guy eats me out like a girl. i imagine being the girl and he does what he wants, either verbally or just doing it. Getting fucked after being rimmed sounds like some real icing on the cake!

Yeah, very much so. Have you ever eaten out your girl's vagina then fucked it? Same thing.
 

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O.k., I know labels and all can be dumb, but is this seen generally one way or another?

I am really, really tired of the slavishness to use the terms top and bottom as whole identities. These are BDSM roles that are play, and they have a purpose. Outside of BDSM, they have no meaning. There is no such thing as these, they are made up. And the current, narrow usage means overwhemingly top = real man = straighter ,= better (which is rancid dick sauce because the so called top ain't fkn himself), whilst bottom means = girly man =fa = useless garbage.

These extremes which you will find all over this site have given us the so called gay man who doesn't suck penises ever but expects his sucked and the so called service pig bottom who won't fk even if hard and it is his lover dying wanting it one last time, nor suck because the ass is so needy it's jealous of the mouth. Gay rule: learn to suck dick well, learn to take cock well enough and learn to fk well enough and step in when needed.

Rimming is just another sex act and there is nothing inherently sub about it anymore than any other is more dom. This is made up stuff and focusing on whether an act is orthodox or not for these increasingly stupid categories gets you away from the real issue: who are you trying to impress or be seduced by?And why not just like that.
 

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Alirght thx. I just imagined standing with legs spread, while a guy eats me out like a girl. i imagine being the girl and he does what he wants, either verbally or just doing it. Getting fucked after being rimmed sounds like some real icing on the cake!
'Maybe he is submitting to her and that feeling is your empowerment. Women are not ingherently subs and when a man is eating woman's ass in that position, it is he submitting to her and not the other way around. The last horrible bit of news is that you don't feel like a woman, you aren't one, you feel like what you think a woman is in that situation. Try using that pussy to own him instead. See what happens if you are good at it. Dom/Sub is the same pleasure, the same energy and one doesn't exist without the other/
 

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All I know is that whoever is rimming me is going to get SO laid afterward. Like “no cum left in your balls” because you will own my wanton, hungry hole levels of laid.

OOC: I don’t associate rimming with top or bottom.
 

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I am really, really tired of the slavishness to use the terms top and bottom as whole identities. These are BDSM roles that are play, and they have a purpose. Outside of BDSM, they have no meaning. There is no such thing as these, they are made up. And the current, narrow usage means overwhemingly top = real man = straighter ,= better (which is rancid dick sauce because the so called top ain't fkn himself), whilst bottom means = girly man =fa = useless garbage.

These extremes which you will find all over this site have given us the so called gay man who doesn't suck penises ever but expects his sucked and the so called service pig bottom who won't fk even if hard and it is his lover dying wanting it one last time, nor suck because the ass is so needy it's jealous of the mouth. Gay rule: learn to suck dick well, learn to take cock well enough and learn to fk well enough and step in when needed.

Rimming is just another sex act and there is nothing inherently sub about it anymore than any other is more dom. This is made up stuff and focusing on whether an act is orthodox or not for these increasingly stupid categories gets you away from the real issue: who are you trying to impress or be seduced by?And why not just like that.

Oh my God, THANK YOU! Maybe it's because I grew up gay in rural Nebraska during the 90's, but I just naturally learned how to do everything. Some guys wanted to fuck me, others wanted to be fucked. With every man I've had sex with more than once, we've been versatile. Maybe it's a generational/situational thing? It's fine to have a preference, but like you said, I think it's real fuckin' weird when a gay man simply will not suck a cock, or any number of things.

I got into a "conversation" once with a boy who was pissed that another boy messaged him when both their profiles said they were bottoms. I was flabbergasted. He wouldn't even entertain fucking, and wouldn't ask if the other guy wanted to fuck him. The label itself simply stopped him from even sending a message back to the guy. I pointed out that there are a lot more ways to have fun than outright fucking. And he pretty well said that the only thing he's interested in is getting pounded by a top daddy and literally nothing else. He'd rather have no sex at all than have a fun time blowing, or even just fucking masturbating together. I think it's weird as fuck, to be honest.
 

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I was on grindr and the guy send me a pic while wearing a thong I said I would pull that sting aside and lick between those cheeks. He said he was a bottom and cut me off like he was really mad. I am still confused.
 

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In practical terms, a top rimming their partner makes more sense since it helps make the transition to fucking so much easier.
 

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As a guy who tops I enjoy my ass been rimmed not that I’m going to be fucked it’s just something i enjoy and my bf is excellent at it so each to their own if you enjoy having your ass rimmed go for it if you don’t like it then don’t have a guy do it to you simple as..
 
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