O.k., I know labels and all can be dumb, but is this seen generally one way or another?
It would depend on a couple factors. If he is rimming to prepare the anus being rimmed for getting fucked he is the top - if he is rimming because he was told to do it by the dominant person in the act, he is bottoming, after a fashion. Every act in sex can be used by tops or bottoms. If a partner is restrained and erect he is technically bottoming when the partner who is restraining him rides his cock. Almost everything can be framed either top or bottom based on the roles people prefer to adapt.
Alirght thx. I just imagined standing with legs spread, while a guy eats me out like a girl. i imagine being the girl and he does what he wants, either verbally or just doing it. Getting fucked after being rimmed sounds like some real icing on the cake!
O.k., I know labels and all can be dumb, but is this seen generally one way or another?
'Maybe he is submitting to her and that feeling is your empowerment. Women are not ingherently subs and when a man is eating woman's ass in that position, it is he submitting to her and not the other way around. The last horrible bit of news is that you don't feel like a woman, you aren't one, you feel like what you think a woman is in that situation. Try using that pussy to own him instead. See what happens if you are good at it. Dom/Sub is the same pleasure, the same energy and one doesn't exist without the other/Alirght thx. I just imagined standing with legs spread, while a guy eats me out like a girl. i imagine being the girl and he does what he wants, either verbally or just doing it. Getting fucked after being rimmed sounds like some real icing on the cake!
I am really, really tired of the slavishness to use the terms top and bottom as whole identities. These are BDSM roles that are play, and they have a purpose. Outside of BDSM, they have no meaning. There is no such thing as these, they are made up. And the current, narrow usage means overwhemingly top = real man = straighter ,= better (which is rancid dick sauce because the so called top ain't fkn himself), whilst bottom means = girly man =fa = useless garbage.
These extremes which you will find all over this site have given us the so called gay man who doesn't suck penises ever but expects his sucked and the so called service pig bottom who won't fk even if hard and it is his lover dying wanting it one last time, nor suck because the ass is so needy it's jealous of the mouth. Gay rule: learn to suck dick well, learn to take cock well enough and learn to fk well enough and step in when needed.
Rimming is just another sex act and there is nothing inherently sub about it anymore than any other is more dom. This is made up stuff and focusing on whether an act is orthodox or not for these increasingly stupid categories gets you away from the real issue: who are you trying to impress or be seduced by?And why not just like that.
O.k., I know labels and all can be dumb, but is this seen generally one way or another?