Is Sucking a Cock Submissive?

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As a married guy who's never sucked a cock, I think about it every day. I think it's the submissive aspect that turns me on. Another guys cock down my throat, the whole thing being about pleasing him, smelling and tasting him, and him coming down my throat or right in my face. Been wanting to do this for so long.
 

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I've always found this an interesting coincidence.... When you suck cock you

1. You can't talk when something is in your mouth
2. Sometimes you need to kneel down if the person is standing
 

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I think about it daily. I'm a married guy. I think back to my teen years and a missed opportunity. I'm lucky in that my wife sucks my cock several times a week and she sits on my face and she is soooo sexy. Her pussy is beautiful and she has a gorgeous body. Soooo...I still fantasize about sucking a big beautiful cock. Or even having friend who I suck off from time to time but nothing else. The thought of that drives me crazy. What to do.
 
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I've tried sucking cock not long ago. I feel nothing for a guy, but sucking cock is fun and nice. I like it. I don't like sub or dom things, though. I prefer to have fun the way good friends have fun around a console game for example. It's just playing.

So I never play with a guy who says 'I don't suck cock'. If he feels it is below him to do it there is no way I am going to do it to him. I want it to be good fun, shared fun.

And when I do it I like the feeling of it, I just think about doing it, appreciate the occasional groan from the guy. But I do it because I like it, because it's nice, because it's like enjoying a game.
Bottom line is: it's as submissive as you let it be.
 

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I don't think of it as submissive at all
I'm basically pussy oriented, except wife isn't into sex much, and I have found that I do like to suck cock lots.
Go for it, find someone clean and trustworthy.
There seem to be lots of horny guys out there.
I have a FB and find it very enjoyable.
 
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I know exactly how you feel. I would suggest finding a dildo that fits the kind of cock you want to suck
 

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I think it can be both submissive and empowering depending on you and your lovers mood. Sometimes when I'm going down on my boyfriend I feel well in control, the boy helpless to the act. There's also the sense of power when he's pursuing, in need of, sex from me. He's damn near a little boy lost, unable to function, until I pull his trigger and release his pent-up desires. As if I'm the only one in the world who can ease his pain. And then there are other times I feel the willing submissive especially if he's in one of his sexually aggressive moods and dominating me physically, being forceful in what he wants, which I absolutely adore.

There are also times when it's a bit of both like when he gets home from a hard day's work and is just out of the shower and relaxing/exhausted on the sofa. It's time like those that I totally embrace the traditional male/female sexual roles. I'm eager to please him and take his stress away, show him how much I love him and appreciate what he does for us, you know, remind him what comforts and spoils are waiting for him at home for all his efforts. The whole modern idea of feminism and equality is thrown to the wind and I don't think I ever feel more sexually content in my female skin than when I'm in those moments. As I'm in the act there's this sense of me being his sexual slave which is a huge turn-on and yet his masculinity and body are literally in my hands (and mouth). A, his body is mine and mine is his type of thing. Both parties are fully exploiting each other and there's not a complaint to be had. There's nothing more satisfying/comforting both physically and emotionally for me than to abandon myself and become his. A lot of times when I'm giving him a blowjob I feel that way.

Lay back and relax babe, I'm going to make you feel like a king. My king. Truly relationship bliss.
 

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I have always been told it was a submissive act.
But one that is certainly enjoyable... and considering that you (the sub) actually have control of the cock in your mouth.... you can also edge the guy... Bring him close and back off. (that part is not very submissive. I've done it before and it's kinda fun.)

But Mercury Girl is right. Depending on the partner, he may be totally controlling and not allow you to edge him. Or he may be submissive as well and at your mercy for his orgasm. (I couldn't say it any better than she did)
 
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I don't look at it as either sub or dom. I simply look at it as turning on my guy. Sometimes it may not be reciprocated but 95% of the time it is. He does the same for me also. Do I look at him as being submissive while he is sucking my dick? Hell no, I look at him as someone who absolutely knows all the right sucks to make to make me feel good. Real good!!
 

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For me, there are two aspects of cocksucking. One is that I groove on the submission. (I'm not a pure submissive. I enjoy being a top/dominant to. It's just a side of me.) Two, my lips and mouth are erogenous zones. Just as kissing arouses me, so does cocksucking.
 

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I think in some ways it can be dom, as you hold his pleasure in your hands and mouth. If you get him hot enough he will beg you to keep going, so you are in control

Agreed. I'm actually in control when I'm giving head, his knees are shaking and he's moaning while I stare him dead in the face with a confident glare. His most precious body part is on my MOUTH, with my TEETH. I make the rules in this situation.
 
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I've never been into any sort of dom/sub role play. As a cock sucker I always leave that up to the guy whose cock I'm sucking. Some like to dominate their cock sucker, some like to be submissive to the guy in control of their cock, most are reasonably neutral in that regard. It's all good, but my favorite is the neutrality of a good 69.

... Been wanting to do this for so long.

So get on out there and do it. You'll like it!
 
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As a married guy who's never sucked a cock, I think about it every day. I think it's the submissive aspect that turns me on. Another guys cock down my throat, the whole thing being about pleasing him, smelling and tasting him, and him coming down my throat or right in my face. Been wanting to do this for so long.

Different strokes for different folks. Party on Garth!
 

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I've always found this an interesting coincidence.... When you suck cock you

1. You can't talk when something is in your mouth
2. Sometimes you need to kneel down if the person is standing

#1 FTW! way more than once i've used my cock to make a guy stop talking.
 

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regarding the original post to this thread: Inherently orally pleasuring another male, is neither dominant or submissive in and of its self. With that said, there are ways that it can become that way. The 2 men, can establish a dynamic of roles. You indicate that sucking a cock is Submissive, but let me challenge your thinking here for a moment. Lets say you have a hung man, who is somewhat Shy and likes to be tied up, ordered around, and made to perform. that's right. . some dudes can be submissive with their erection. The Oral (sucker) in this case might be dominant. . perhaps tie up his "dick-sub", or "sub-dick". .and make his sperm giver squirm.

All I am saying is . . think outside the box. . some (top) men can be submissives. . and some bottom men. . or receptive men, can in fact be dominant.

Mr. Slave.
 
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I would class myself as a "power btm". Basically I like to be in charge although I don't want to fuck the guy or have him blow me. I want him to beg me to let him cum as I work his cock with my throat. I want to tease him with my ass so let him fuck me hard but hold back enough to stop him from cumming for a long time. I want his cock deep in my throat but I know where he is up to.. I'm gonna eat his cum but... when I'm ready. Have had some very hot sessions with guys who are tops and think that means they are dom, but cum more than they ever have before when they realise they can be a sub top ( if that makes sense). I know what you need, let me get you to that point!!!
 
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I love being on my knees with a guy's cock in my mouth. Last Saturday found I could swallow a 7.5 all the way. Felt great and he definitely enjoyed it. The liquid reward going down my throat proved it. I don't feel submissive doing it though. I am in control of him, although I do like it when they grab my head, not too firmly, to get to the end.
 
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My girl is submissive when she gives me head.. She gets off more than I do when she goes down on me. I also smack her face super hard with my dick its like a face spanking lol..She loves that lol
 
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