For all players and commitaphobes... on the average when do you call it quits? What I mean is, after meeting someone if they get too close do you cool off and then br weeks, eak it off? And if so, do you have a "deadline", like an average (6 weeks, 8 weeks- or do you wait till they say, "I love you!") and what is it? What makes you say, "this is not the one"????? And have the need to break it off.