I've been with so many "big" guys who cum way too early. All the guys I have been with were average or above average and all except maybe 2 or 3 came fast as hell. About half came in under 6 minutes and 25% of the others came within 10 minutes. Some were damn near pathetic because they came almost instantly (in my opinion). Supposedly "sex researchers have defined premature ejaculation as occurring if the man ejaculates within two minutes of penetration; however, a survey by Alfred Kinsley in the 1950s demonstrated that three quarters of men ejaculate within two minutes of penetration in over half of their sexual encounters". That's fucking horrible. Current evidence supports an average intravaginal ejaculation latency time of six and a half minutes in 18-30 year olds. This is supposed to be the norm? One study of young married couples (Tullberg, 1999) reported that the husband's IELT seems to be affected by the phases of the wife's menstrual cycle, the IELT tending to be shortest during the fertile phase. Other studies suggest that young men with older female partners reach the ejaculatory threshold sooner, on average, than those whose partners are their own age or younger. Now this is nice and all but i'm not ready to get married any time soon. Now, I did read Serotonergic medications, such as SSRIs, can delay ejaculation. SSRIs are commonly used as anti-depressants. Examples include Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, and Lexapro. Just about none of the guys I know are willing to take anti depressants. Simply put none.....so aree there no prescriptions for erectile dysfunction at all? I feel comfortable with prescriptions because they're FDA approved and all rather than those drugs at the corner store. I remember one time I recommended some gel that numbs the penis and he said "hell no...I want to feel it!"