Is there a prescription for Premature Ejaculation?

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  1. Rommette

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    I've been with so many "big" guys who cum way too early. All the guys I have been with were average or above average and all except maybe 2 or 3 came fast as hell. About half came in under 6 minutes and 25% of the others came within 10 minutes. Some were damn near pathetic because they came almost instantly (in my opinion). Supposedly "sex researchers have defined premature ejaculation as occurring if the man ejaculates within two minutes of penetration; however, a survey by Alfred Kinsley in the 1950s demonstrated that three quarters of men ejaculate within two minutes of penetration in over half of their sexual encounters". That's fucking horrible.

    Current evidence supports an average intravaginal ejaculation latency time of six and a half minutes in 18-30 year olds. This is supposed to be the norm?

    One study of young married couples (Tullberg, 1999) reported that the husband's IELT seems to be affected by the phases of the wife's menstrual cycle, the IELT tending to be shortest during the fertile phase. Other studies suggest that young men with older female partners reach the ejaculatory threshold sooner, on average, than those whose partners are their own age or younger. Now this is nice and all but i'm not ready to get married any time soon.

    Now, I did read Serotonergic medications, such as SSRIs, can delay ejaculation. SSRIs are commonly used as anti-depressants. Examples include Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, and Lexapro. Just about none of the guys I know are willing to take anti depressants. Simply put none.....so aree there no prescriptions for erectile dysfunction at all? I feel comfortable with prescriptions because they're FDA approved and all rather than those drugs at the corner store. I remember one time I recommended some gel that numbs the penis and he said "hell no...I want to feel it!"
     
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    1st off i'd like to say HAPPY NEW YEAR'S!!!

    uh, premature ejaculation... i dont think there is a prescription just for that. i heard viagra delays ejaculation for a while, but thats mainly for ED. have a few questions though. is it more of a long recovery time after ejaculation vs cumming too fast? do you have extended foreplay sessions? do the men you deal with have poor diets, not in shape? maybe you make them nervous or too anxious lol
     
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    So 25% last more than 10 minutes. Based on the research you presented you have had better luck than the average woman. The only thing I can suggest is to blow him first, take the edge off.

    Having a man take dangerous possibly adictive drugs, just so you get fucked for another 10 minutes is beyond absurd.
     
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    My 53 year old husband went to the doctor and got a prescription for Viagra and let me tell you, oh la la. His cock is bigger, harder thicker then when he was in his 20's. The best thing, he can fuck me for over an hour and cum multiple times which is awesome as it take me at least 30 min to cum.

    VIVA VIAGRA. I was having trouble cumming due to his smaller penis and medication I am on, but now, even though he is not huge, he can go like the everready bunny, I love it. So far this year,,,, 2 oragasms in two days that nearly blew my head off.
     
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    Anti-depressants do work, for a while. After I started to take them (for other reasons), it took me a LOT longer to cum. The effect started within a week, but started to wear off and now there is no before and after difference.
     
  6. Rommette

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    well, he has to wait about 2 hrs before he's recharged if that's what youre asking. That's on top og cumming too fast. As far as foreplay there isn't much. Once I decided to give in and give him a blow job i've been giving them every since....every time before sex to get him hard.
    I do blow him off. Its not that i'm not concerned.....that's why I'm asking about FDA approved drugs.....anything could be in the stuff from GNC.
     
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    Quite so happy I'm not the only female who thinks men don't last long enough! I've had numerous of partners and of all the partners I've had, only three partners were on the average size and they had the stamina to last 20 to 45 minutes. The rest lasted about 5-7 minutes. One partner I had, was tiny (2-3 inches) did not last even a minute, and that was very awkward. I was very embarrassed for him and a bit angry, whereas he was at lost for words... I've had 3-4 extremely well endowed partners who lasted 45 - 60 minutes, depending on how fast they were going.

    It has been very frustrating for me because I feel that as soon as they finish, I'm only getting started and want more. A couple men have told me that when they met me, they knew that they were going to be in trouble, because they would get to excited and too turned on that they would finish out faster.
     
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    Why should premature ejaculation be a problem? If you can stay hard and keep going, it shouldn't matter.
     
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    You truly have one of the most mottled and muddled sexual histories of any young woman I've ever heard of.
     
  10. Rommette

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    Probably so :rolleyes:
     
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    You're forgetting that many men can not stay hard or keep going, because it gets too sensitive for them, or they just simply get soft.
     
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    exactly....all my partners get soft as shit
     
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    Too quick sucks. But my wife says I go too long, over an hour or two if need be. But then she gets too dry, and her legs/hips hurt too much. So I would love a woman that can go the distance.
     
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    Premature ejaculation is prevented by off-label usage of ssri's, which can be taken half hour before sex..... it's in the wikipedia article on PE. Don't know why you reference big guys - seems unrelated to me, my two biggest exs go for too long if anything, about an hour..
     
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    Then ask your wife to send you along my way and I'll take care of ya ! :rolleyes:
     
  16. D_Bodacious Appetite

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    Romm you have shit luck with dudes lol I hope you find some good sexeventually. Um ok here are the things to consider.

    1. Is he starting off pumping fast? Most younger ppl do that and end up cumming too fast

    2. Are you really tight? Some guys can't hold their own against a tight one

    3. What position do you start in? Sorry ladies but startin off in doggy is suicide for all your one night stands. With someone you've just met you should NEVER start off in doggy they will almost always nut fast start off in missionary everytime so he can get a feel for your pussy and control himself he cant do this with u poundin him while riding or doggy

    4. If you make a big deal about him nutting too fast then say goodbye to him getting hard again.It's hard enough for him to deal with it but if you chew him out about it he's gonna shrivel up

    5. dont force him to keep pounding u let him pull out sumtimes and lick your pussy or sumthin so he can stall from cumming some girls hate it when the dude takes it out

    6. Food. Sumtimes its hard for a guy to get a good erection after he eats

    Overall I can kind of see why your dudes don't get back up. You said you don't like givin head so tha makes me think you aren't too enthusiastic about foreplay. If he senses that you don't really wantto do it then he's not going to get excited and hard.


    But guess what rom I DO have a prescription for Premature ejaculation
    *dramatic pause*

    EXTENDED PLEASURE TROJAN CONDOMS. these lil devils will turn even the most hardcore 5 minute men into a pornstar. And they are available at your nearest wal mart for gasp! around 6-7 dollars. Just buy a pack and keep it in your purse and all your problems are solved. It is near impossible to cum fast with these on. Has a special cream inside that delays cumming. Force them to wear it and everything will be gucchi (good). You should by them because I promise u the dude wont cuz he will thinks its embarassing. If you dont buy it then your loss. GOOD LUCK!

    -Grif
     
  17. Rommette

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    Thanks Grif....i'll tell him about the trojans even though he's a cheap ass and probably wont buy them anyway.
     
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    If he doesn't buy them then kick his ass to the curve!
     
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    About the extended pleasure condoms in my experience yeah they make the guy last longer, but they also desensitize my insides so after a while I dont feel much.
     
  20. D_Bodacious Appetite

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    Never heard of that. The cream is on the inside of the condom so I don't see how that can happen. If in 1/1000 chance that DOES happen then just have him put the extended condom on and rub it on himself then take it off and put a regular on it'll work just the same and then you don't have to worry about that rare chance that you wont feel anything. It may seem like work but hey you guys complained about guys cumming fast and I gave a solution so do what you want *shrugs*
     
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