I'm not quite sure what this is about. Discounting Kinsey's statistics as being out of date, a number of studies over the past decade or so have average intercourse time at around the 5 to 10 minute mark. Some studies have indicated married men last longer, more often closer to 10 minutes than single men. Possibly this is because they get more regular sex, or possibly because they are more in tune with their partner's response. Two recent studies of female desire came up with an average ideal intercourse time of 7 to 13 minutes, and an acceptable intercourse time of 3 minutes to 7 minutes. Anything longer than about 13 minutes was seen as too long.
I aim to last around 10 minutes or so, and beyond that my wife gets a bit bored. Our biggest problem if we last long is that we both get sore, and my 6" girth may be a factor in this. Nonetheless, we generally have sex about 3 times a week, and more than 10 minutes results in her getting sore inside, and me getting chafed as well. She's always well-lubricated and we use a bit of extra lube as well. We do have natural sex, however, so it is skin against skin.
Our usual routine, but not always, is her orgasm first followed by intercourse, and she may or may not come again. Generally if things are going well, 10 minutes is enough time for this. When we have gone for about 30 minutes or so, which I can quite easily do, the extra time didn't really make much difference to her orgasmic response.
More recently I had sex with another woman, much younger than me, and using a position of me kneeling between her legs she ejacualted and came in about 3 or 4 minutes. We then changed positions because her clit was sensitive, and she finished on top for the remainder. I honestly don't know how she did this, given she was young and relatively inexperienced, but she did.
In terms of men lasting longer, this CAN be done with a bit of training in the right technique. Meditation helps, and learning to meditate is a good thing. While learning this useful technique, a man should ramp up his kegel exercises. Once both have been achieved, masturbation can then be used as training to prolong things. Rubbing the penis lightly with a well-lubed hand and with your eyes open, edge close to the point of no return and then squeeze hard with your pc muscle. At the sime time, imagine sexual energy being drawn from your penis, up your spine and away. This should prevent you from coming. Keep practicing this and then use it on your partner, only this time when you squeeze, kiss your partner if you can, and imagine your sexual energy is being drawn from your penis and up your spine, into your partner and down her spine to her genitals. Where meditation helps is that, during sex, you are concentrating on how it feels: every stroke, your response, the arousal of your penis. You are also, in this technique, using creative visualisation, which is a major part of meditation.
Even if you don't prolong things to 30 minutes, because I don't, these techniques are still good because you do take in more about what is happening to you and your partner, especially how good it feels to both of you. Also, these techniques result in extraordinarily powerful orgasms, much more powerful than most men have experienced. Finally, regardless of whether you or your wife is extra horny, you can use these techniques to last as long as you desire, be it 10 minutes, 20 minutes or longer. It's easy, because as you get closer to your peak, you can ease back and then take a while longer to get closer to that peak again. Orgasm and ejaculation are entirely under control.
I aim to last around 10 minutes or so, and beyond that my wife gets a bit bored. Our biggest problem if we last long is that we both get sore, and my 6" girth may be a factor in this. Nonetheless, we generally have sex about 3 times a week, and more than 10 minutes results in her getting sore inside, and me getting chafed as well. She's always well-lubricated and we use a bit of extra lube as well. We do have natural sex, however, so it is skin against skin.
Our usual routine, but not always, is her orgasm first followed by intercourse, and she may or may not come again. Generally if things are going well, 10 minutes is enough time for this. When we have gone for about 30 minutes or so, which I can quite easily do, the extra time didn't really make much difference to her orgasmic response.
More recently I had sex with another woman, much younger than me, and using a position of me kneeling between her legs she ejacualted and came in about 3 or 4 minutes. We then changed positions because her clit was sensitive, and she finished on top for the remainder. I honestly don't know how she did this, given she was young and relatively inexperienced, but she did.
In terms of men lasting longer, this CAN be done with a bit of training in the right technique. Meditation helps, and learning to meditate is a good thing. While learning this useful technique, a man should ramp up his kegel exercises. Once both have been achieved, masturbation can then be used as training to prolong things. Rubbing the penis lightly with a well-lubed hand and with your eyes open, edge close to the point of no return and then squeeze hard with your pc muscle. At the sime time, imagine sexual energy being drawn from your penis, up your spine and away. This should prevent you from coming. Keep practicing this and then use it on your partner, only this time when you squeeze, kiss your partner if you can, and imagine your sexual energy is being drawn from your penis and up your spine, into your partner and down her spine to her genitals. Where meditation helps is that, during sex, you are concentrating on how it feels: every stroke, your response, the arousal of your penis. You are also, in this technique, using creative visualisation, which is a major part of meditation.
Even if you don't prolong things to 30 minutes, because I don't, these techniques are still good because you do take in more about what is happening to you and your partner, especially how good it feels to both of you. Also, these techniques result in extraordinarily powerful orgasms, much more powerful than most men have experienced. Finally, regardless of whether you or your wife is extra horny, you can use these techniques to last as long as you desire, be it 10 minutes, 20 minutes or longer. It's easy, because as you get closer to your peak, you can ease back and then take a while longer to get closer to that peak again. Orgasm and ejaculation are entirely under control.
