Is there a way of knowing a guy is Huge without going all the way?

[B_superlarge]

Some posters are throwing in all sorts of hearsay ways that have never been studied. Yet nothing is said to them about it. At least I try to back up what I post.

 

[B_girthless]

Another way to increase the chances is by his weight. The more overweight a guy is the thicker his public fatpad is likely to be. The thicker the fatpad the more penis that is hidden. So thin guys tend to have an advantage.

I don't think that's a valid approach. A girl once told me that she had met several very well-hung fat men who knew they didn't need to worry about being overweight because of their penis size.

She talked about one man in particular who had seduced her very quickly because somehow he had figured out she was a size queen. His dick was about ten inches long and she had been thrilled by it. "A man with a dick like that can be fat and it doesn't matter!" she told me.

On the other hand, I am quite thin--and so is my penis.

 

[B_girthless]

I wonder the samething. Maybe I should just come right out and say " You know what dude, I can't make a commitment until I see your size... thanks."

Of course. Why not? I think it's alluring when a woman asks that. It's a definite turn-on! And I would rather tell a woman that I'm small and avoid the awkward moment of truth. If it matters, a woman should say so. She can do it with lightness and finesse and humor, but there is just no reason not to.

Short of seing him naked, there is no other way to know--until it is too late.

 

[B_superlarge]

I don't think that's a valid approach. A girl once told me that she had met several very well-hung fat men who knew they didn't need to worry about being overweight because of their penis size.

She talked about one man in particular who had seduced her very quickly because somehow he had figured out she was a size queen. His dick was about ten inches long and she had been thrilled by it. "A man with a dick like that can be fat and it doesn't matter!" she told me.

On the other hand, I am quite thin--and so is my penis.

Apparently those guys had extra to spare and still be hung (they would have been even more hung if not overweight). Of course that occurs. My postings are about correlations. Surely you aren't trying to deny that putting weight on will put weight onto the pubic fatpad. Let's say a guy at standard weight for his height has a dick 8" long measured to the pubic skin, and a 1" deep fatpad (1" is about the overall average pubic fatpad thickness -of course it varies from individual to individual. In other words, his penis is actually 9" long measured to the pubic bone but is seen as 8" long because 1" is hidden in the fatpad). If he then puts on 100 pounds he may add another 1" to his pubic fatpad, give or take. In other words, his pubic fatpad will then be 2" thick and his penis will have 7" visable. He's 7" as far as his partners are concerned (and officially 7" by standard doctor measuring method) because they go by what they see. Even if he presses his pubic fatpad in some during sex it's still going to interfere somewhat with depth of penetration.

Your example can be applied to Ron Jeremy the porn star. He has actually said that he was two inches longer in his younger days. How did he lose 2" of dick? He's gained a whole bunch of weight, that's how. He had so much showing to begin with in his younger days that he's still hung even after burying 2" of dick from then by putting on so much weight, but he use to be far more hung looking than he is now. Hung guys don't tend to have as much to spare as he did.

Therefore, yes, if a guy has plenty to spare he can gain a lot of weight and still be hung, but that does not mean there is no correlation between weight and fatpad. Of course there is. Since there is a correlation, and since my posting is about increasing the odds, then it is a valid factor to be taken into consideration. Guys that are not far into the hung looking range can lose that look by putting on enough weight. That can and no doubt does occur, therefore the weight factor is valid.

 

[B_superlarge]

Short of seing him naked, there is no other way to know--until it is too late.

Yes, there is no way to know. That still does not mean chances can't be increased. I've posted studies and examples all along the way in this thread to help support it. I think we all agree one can't 'know' without a preview or word of mouth from someone very credible.

 

[johnlucas-1]

The honest truth is that I think women should just come out and ask.

Why?
Because if they date and hit it off and things take their natural conclusion, and then they get the clothes off only to discover the man didn't fit her penile standards then everybody's time was wasted.

The woman didn't get her penis prize and the man could have better spent that time looking for women who would appreciate him.
Hours just wasted.

It's sort of sad how people prioritize such physical features at all costs. Men and women. The reality is everybody can be a love machine no matter their dimensions and half the fun is discovering the variety of the human form and how sexually exciting the variety can be. That way almost no matter WHO you date you are guaranteed to have AT LEAST a good time and maybe a great one.

Men won't date someone of a certain height or weight. Women won't date someone of a certain penis size or muscle build. When the reality is the one who you may not have been initially attracted to could be the one who blows your socks off if you let it. Some have discovered this truism but obviously it's not widespread quite yet.

That's not to say our sexually preferences are invalid or need to be denied but that those preferences can be trapping and mentally ward you off discovering the joy others not fitting your ideal could possibly bring. Sexual education is so underdeveloped. One day they'll detail this phenomenon.

In the meantime, I'd say just ask upfront. The passive-aggressive penis rub through clothing is such a tease and the aftermath of the disrobing and expressed disappointment is a heartbreaker. When people are naked it is more than just in the literal sense. Their heart and soul is open as well. No human can be as vulnerable as he/she is when he/she shows his/her true self to another.

I find that a big reason people are reluctant to do this is because many can dish it out and know they can't take it. They don't want to be judged that way themselves and it creates a dilemma. Lust for the prize vs. recognition of self in the other party. Goose and gander as always and if one is willing to ask details like these upfront, they cannot be offended when someone asks the same of them.

The problem with a LOT of things in he world is lack of honesty. Just keep it real. Not to say be heartless but just level with the person. And do it early. I think a lot of the dating game is unnecessary fluff anyhow. Too based on purported image and not enough on the true humanity.

Two ways to solve this issue:
1) Ask about penis size upfront tactfully, thoughtfully, but unapologetically.

2) Expand your view of attraction to those not necessarily fitting your ideal and discover the wealth of humanity in all its formations.

John Lucas

 

[B_girthless]

The honest truth is that I think women should just come out and ask.... if they date and hit it off and things take their natural conclusion, and then they get the clothes off only to discover the man didn't fit her penile standards then everybody's time was wasted.....Sexual education is so underdeveloped. One day they'll detail this phenomenon.

Two ways to solve this issue:
1) Ask about penis size upfront tactfully, thoughtfully, but unapologetically.

2) Expand your view of attraction to those not necessarily fitting your ideal and discover the wealth of humanity in all its formations.

Exactly right. It would make life a lot easier for all concerned if women would just let their desires be known in advance.