I don’t doubt the sincerity of your post, but I think some men might like to have experiences such as yours!
I’ve been fondled, grabbed, groped while sleeping and had women and men aggressively importune for sex, have been offered money and favors for sex, accosted by drunks of both sexes, been offered money for pix (and films during my college days) but I’ve always managed to reject what I myself didn’t want, but taken advantage of? no. Since an erection is necessary for fucking or getting sucked off, nothing happens when I and Messr. Terrible didn’t want it. One of my sons laughs when he recounts the times he’s used the line, ‘I’m up here’.
Women have been so oppressed by men for so long, it’s understandable that the MeToo movement would happen, and it’s way past due. Try for some understanding.
I’m sure that there’s happiness in your life—concentrate on that.