Is there truly someone out there for everyone?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by SensualGoth, Oct 29, 2007.

  1. SensualGoth

    SensualGoth New Member

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    I know this sounds corny but I have wondered this day after day and night after night.

    Still single...
     
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    Mate, usually the person will come to our lives when you are not looking for him/ her..... that happened to me too... we've been together 12 years now! :)

    Good luck to you but yes I do believe there's always someone for everyone out there.....
     
  4. No_Strings

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    Yes, I believe so; perhaps more by sheer probability than in any mystical sense.

    Is it a guarantee that everybody will find their someone(and at the right time)? No, not at all, unfortunately. :frown1:
     
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    I would like to think "Yes".

    Logic tells me "No" there are just some people without a match.

    With my line of poor relationships and my lack of social skills sometimes I wonder if there is someone out there for me...
     
  6. viking1

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    No...
     
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    Be positive!!!!:wink:
     
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    your think about it too much, occupy yourself with something else and become a better person. improve your social status. remember girls love an alpha male so if you can fake that sh*t then do so.
     
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    Well ideally yea.


    Even the anti-social gorophobe has someone. It's just it's probly another gorophobe, so the chances are smaller.


    I'd say it's a number game, lol.


    BUT YA STAY POSITIVE DUDE.
     
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    yea thats true but we r talking about the regular people, im guessing.i was diagnosed with that but thats bull, I love going out now. if you dont leave your house and go somewhere out of your comfort zone chances are you might be looking for mrs right when she is on the other side of the glass.
     
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    Ideally the world would be a wonderful, and enjoyable place. However, it's not, it's miserable and loathsome. NOTHING is ever ideal in this world...
     
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    I'm sure I'll find the right one sooner or later, but I sure wish it would happen already!

    I had a couple good relationships with women, but both of them were 10 years older than me, and I was thinking of what would happen long term as they got older way before me.

    Sometimes I wonder if I met the right girl and simply fucked it up.

    This one girl 2 years ago, I met her online, we were able to talk for hours easily on the phone, etc, and when I met her 9 days later we had the best first date I've ever had, it lasted 7 hours. Second date was also very good, 3rd date we went out for a while and then to her place.

    I was so nervous about moving things too fast and ruining it like that, that I think I went too slow. We were on the couch kissing on the 3rd date, and I didn't even touch her tits!:eek:

    I look back and think "WTF was I thinking by moving that slowly", and this was after she told me that she'd tell me if I was going too fast!:banghead2:

    We planned a 4th date for my birthday, but at the last moment she asked for a 1 day delay so she could meet her little nephew and niece for a day, then after that she was sick and didn't want to talk on the phone, and got pissed when I called her and she was still "sick" 3 days later.

    I fucked myself good on that one, it still hurts to think about it. Was she the one? I hope not.
     
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    Viking wish I could help you with that.
     
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    I think some of us just have a predisposition for the single life.I've never expected to be living with anyone so it's not something I worry about.
    If I meet someone who can put up with me - fine,if I don't then that's fine too. :cool:
     
  15. viking1

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    Me too...
     
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    I hope there is. I'm not too good at finding the right person for myself though.
     
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    No, most definitely not. Men are sadistic and evil bastards who are prone to full-blown Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I'm through with the whole lot of them.
     
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    There is, it's just a matter of finding 'em.
     
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    So, you are ready to go back to the breast then?

    :)
     
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    No there isn't, because some people choose to be alone.
     
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